Did I ruin my chances with her?

[Super14fan]

Hi, I'm in this situation and I feel like it's rare. There is this one girl who I met at the beginning of the school year. We know each other well and have a lot in common. Im 14 and she is 15. She is not allowed to date until she is 16. I won't make her date me now, I actually don't want her to be my girlfriend until she is 16. She is the first girl I ever liked.
This one day before a basketball game I was talking to her. Since I have never had a girlfriend I thought we were just talking, but all my friends were saying after that it was more than just talking. After that I started to like her. About three and a half weeks ago I got the courage to ask for her phone number. We have been texting ever since.
Earlier today I was texting her. She said that she was playing video games. I then told her that I don't have video games. She said she felt sorry for me. Then I was stupid and tried to be funny. I said "Are they really that fun? Thank for making me feel left out." It was only for fun and I talk like that to all my guy friends. She said "How did I make you feel left out?" Then I said "You didn't really, it's only because I said that I don't have video games and you said they were fun." Then she asked if I was trying to make her feel bad. I didn't really get what she was asking so I asked how I was making her feel. She replied with "bad" I then said that I was so sorry and that I was okay and that I was glad she was having fun. Then she said she had to go.
Did I mess up? I feel horrible now because I made her feel bad. I never meant to but I did. I am worried now. I think she is mad at me and I'm worried that she is sad too. All I ever try to do is make her smile, but I think I made her frown. I don't know what to do I was crying when it first happened. Do I still have a chance? Does she still like me? Is she feeling sad? I don't know I just don't want her to hate me. My goal has always been to make her happy. Now I made her sad.
I know it's long. Thank you so much for reading even if you won't reply.

[Seemyheart]

Hi, I'm in this situation and I feel like it's rare. There is this one girl who I met at the beginning of the school year. We know each other well and have a lot in common. Im 14 and she is 15. She is not allowed to date until she is 16. I won't make her date me now, I actually don't want her to be my girlfriend until she is 16. She is the first girl I ever liked.
This one day before a basketball game I was talking to her. Since I have never had a girlfriend I thought we were just talking, but all my friends were saying after that it was more than just talking. After that I started to like her. About three and a half weeks ago I got the courage to ask for her phone number. We have been texting ever since.
Earlier today I was texting her. She said that she was playing video games. I then told her that I don't have video games. She said she felt sorry for me. Then I was stupid and tried to be funny. I said "Are they really that fun? Thank for making me feel left out." It was only for fun and I talk like that to all my guy friends. She said "How did I make you feel left out?" Then I said "You didn't really, it's only because I said that I don't have video games and you said they were fun." Then she asked if I was trying to make her feel bad. I didn't really get what she was asking so I asked how I was making her feel. She replied with "bad" I then said that I was so sorry and that I was okay and that I was glad she was having fun. Then she said she had to go.
Did I mess up? I feel horrible now because I made her feel bad. I never meant to but I did. I am worried now. I think she is mad at me and I'm worried that she is sad too. All I ever try to do is make her smile, but I think I made her frown. I don't know what to do I was crying when it first happened. Do I still have a chance? Does she still like me? Is she feeling sad? I don't know I just don't want her to hate me. My goal has always been to make her happy. Now I made her sad.
I know it's long. Thank you so much for reading even if you won't reply.

I think you should ask her if you accidentally made her upset by something you said. That way, you can get her POV and you'll know for sure, and if you did accidentally hurt her feelings, apologize and tell her you were trying to make a joke, but it came off in a bad way. Good luck:) hope this helped

[Super14fan]

I think you should ask her if you accidentally made her upset by something you said. That way, you can get her POV and you'll know for sure, and if you did accidentally hurt her feelings, apologize and tell her you were trying to make a joke, but it came off in a bad way. Good luck:) hope this helped

Thank you a lot.

[Seemyheart]

Thank you a lot.

Your welcome, glad to help, best of luck ★

[chieko]

Tell her the truth that you never meant to make her feel bad. Its just a misunderstanding. Maybe you just didn't have the same sense of humor. So say sorry to her. She'll understand it, goodluck :)

[TheRedViper]

It should be fine, just ask her. Trust me mate, I was in a kind of similar situation to yours, like being good friends with a girl, but not having had a girlfriend before, and I've said stuff that is way worse than that that made me think I ruined our friendship, but it didn't. Just talk to her, and it will be cleared up. Chances are, if you're already good friends, this tiny little thing won't change that. My friendship with this girl has gone to way lower levels and somehow still kind of survived.

[Living For Love]

Just talk to her face to face and explain the situation. She will understand, she won't see you as a friend anymore just because of this little incident.

[CRed]

You didn't mess up, her saying "she had to go" probably meant she had to go. But for future reference still be cool with her but don't talk her like she's one of your guys. And when you really need to be worried is when you try something like this while you two are dating and she doesn't text you back.

[Super14fan]

Thank you all for the help. I talked to her and she said that she really was mad. But she is ok no and we should be alright.

[newkler]

okay goodluck! thats good that you talked with her :)