Does he want me or not!?

[poeticjustice]

okay im not usually one to sign up to forums but this is an exception it os absolutely ridiculous now. okay so im a young 16 year old and im black also. soo basically there is this boy in my year that i have been friends with for 4 years. at first i hated him but i soon realised how atrractive he is (this may be a bit long but omd help is needed for real) hes jamaican indian and hes so good looking he hasnt always been and i liked him before that anyway basically feelings developed my end and i told him in like year9 he kinda brushed it off but in year 10 things changed. we sat next to each other in maths and he would stroke my hair twll me how naturally beautiful i am we would laugh and joke to the point that everyone in the class including the teacher thought we were together. when i was doing my work hw would watch me tell me he loved me pull my hair out my face and follow my every movement we spoke non stop like everyday on the phone morn till night for 3 years. now in year 11 final year things changed my feelings grew stronger like i know its not a crush hes on my mind everyday everyhour when im not with him i feel down.but he flirts with other girls too. hes also been close to this girl who he said he and his best friend were gonna taake to prom. however the way he talks to me like on levels his friends dont know and because we go to a majority white school his friends would frown upon us having a relationship. when its just us too with each other it feels like we are a flippin couple he would get my hand stroke it across his face he would squeeze my ear and nuzzle my neck so i dont know where his hearts at i hate playing these games i mean i hate monoply alone! so(well that was a mouthfull lol) what should i do should i ignore him does he like me does he not intial reactions?
PLEASE HELP X

[nathansubcri]

If you really want a solid answer then confront him about it. In my opinion, he sounds like a player but who knows, I could be wrong

[poeticjustice]

If you really want a solid answer then confront him about it. In my opinion, he sounds like a player but who knows, I could be wrong

i think he is a player but if i do confront him he will be immature abour it and act like nothings there. should i play hard to get to get a response or

[Living For Love]

Yes, you could try hard-to-get, to make him do his best to conquer your heart. That way you would know if his feelings are genuine or not.

[CRed]

Lol tell him to get his life together. But yea ask him and if gone be childish about it walk away and be like we could've had something and see what he does but look real sad like you about to cry.

[nathansubcri]

i think he is a player but if i do confront him he will be immature abour it and act like nothings there. should i play hard to get to get a response or

Then he isn't really worth it, init :rolleyes:

[poeticjustice]

Yes, you could try hard-to-get, to make him do his best to conquer your heart. That way you would know if his feelings are genuine or not.

do boys even respond to girls playing hard to get im scared he may just chase after the other girl

[Living For Love]

do boys even respond to girls playing hard to get im scared he may just chase after the other girl

Well, that's the idea. If he just gives up on you, then he just didn't have any feelings for you since the beginning. On the other hand, if he still tries to act flirty around you, that could mean he's interested. You just need to know how to play hard-to-get, not very hard, though. I think most boys don't like girls that just completely offer themselves to guys, we want to show we're capable of fighting for the right girl.

[newkler]

tell him how you feel