Am I a gold digger?

[Chloe123]

Hey guys, so basically I'm sixteen and this's guy added me on bbm off Instagram and we started talking. He is 21 and is very rich. When we go out he always pays and buys lots of expensive gifts. We get along really well and never run out of things to talk about. However, I don't find him to be my type (as in I don't find him attractive). We have sexually done everything but have sex. I think he might want that soon, what shall I do? Do I still speak to him and be friends or just give him what he wants or just ignore as a whole. I know you might judge me but I'm not gonna lie, I do like the free presents and would be sad to loose that. When ever he texts I reply straight away and wait for him to reply back but it's just when we meet face to face, I just don't find him attractive. I value him as a friend.

[Waleedbt]

Honestly , you do sound like one.
That fact that you did things with him is enough to be one.

[Meganium]

You're using him. The truth will have to come out eventually.

[DarkOmega]

yeap.. ur a gold digger(well u sound like one) ,, just tell him and get this over with .

[MoonMan]

Seems like a gold digger if I've ever seen one, you both know why he's buying you gifts, so just cut him loose and tell him you don't like him in that way so the dude can stop wasting his money at least.

[Living For Love]

You can be his friend, of course, but you should be his friend because of his personality and stuff, not because of his money.

[newkler]

you seem like a gold digger!

[IcaJess]

I think you should stay as good friends if you dont like him romantically or sexually. You would still have the advantages of being with him, but ofcourse if he dosent want to be just friends forget about him.

[DanielL.]

Tell him the truth! If you dont, sooner or later hes going to find out that youve been using him to get free gifts and you're just going to break his heart. If you dont want sexual relations with him, just tell him that you just dont feel it and if you can still be friends with him.

[ookillem]

yeah TBH you sound like a gold digger... not like a hardcore one though... but trust me eventually the truth will come out... it happened with my uncles ex fiancé... he bought her a new car and gave her everything she needed even a monthly allowance because she didn't have a job because "somehow" she got pregnant... but secretly almost all of that allowance was getting stashed away in a separate bank account instead of buying stuff like groceries and stuff... one day my uncle asked her to sign a prenup but she wouldn't and a few days later she took my baby cousin and moved out of state which is illegal... we are currently taking her to court ... so now she is back to her crappy old life drawing unemployment and making our country go bankrupt... she still gets child support.. from two guys because she had don't this before to some other poor guy... she makes more than most people make in a year and she doesn't even have a job... GOLDDIGGERS suckkkkkkk

[chieko]

You're just up for the gifts, aren't you

[AlexOnToast]

Yeah, sorry sister but you be takin' Advantage of that poor guy.....If I were you I would just come out with the truth before it escalates into something to big to handle....you were warned XD

[joejoe]

You should be his friend. Find someone else that you can truly love.

[hoboliz]

Why are people judging you as a gold digger, but no one sees the creepy factor in a 21 year old buying his way into a girl's pants? Double standard much? If you like free stuff and you're willing to sleep with him to keep getting free stuff, you go do that. It's between you and him.

[Yolo98]

If your only going out with him cus hes loaded your a gold digger with a capital G

[Eurasian guy]

Hey guys, so basically I'm sixteen and this's guy added me on bbm off Instagram and we started talking. He is 21 and is very rich. When we go out he always pays and buys lots of expensive gifts. We get along really well and never run out of things to talk about. However, I don't find him to be my type (as in I don't find him attractive). We have sexually done everything but have sex. I think he might want that soon, what shall I do? Do I still speak to him and be friends or just give him what he wants or just ignore as a whole. I know you might judge me but I'm not gonna lie, I do like the free presents and would be sad to loose that. When ever he texts I reply straight away and wait for him to reply back but it's just when we meet face to face, I just don't find him attractive. I value him as a friend.

Honestly. You just seem like a girl that likes to be spoilt. I wouldn't say you're a gold digger. A person doesn't have to do something sexual if she find him attractive or not. It's just whether you're with him for his money or not.

And besides. Maybe he really likes you and wants to spoil you. I'm the type of guy to pay for dinner etc because i like being a gentlemen. And buying gifts because i want to treat my girl special. But i only do that stuff if she likes me though. Soo ask yourself, is the money the only reason you do that stuff with him?