Sleepover problem

[kylem]

Not to sure how to deal with this, but i was at a friends house playing GTA5 which is awesome! and we we're playing it really late. He invited me to sleep over so I did. He has a huge bed, so we shared it together and just was wearing our boxer/briefs to bed. I like woke up during the night and he had his hand under my boxers and just holding my penis which got seriously hard because he was doing that. I pretended I didn't notice and just like lifted his hand out of my boxers and laid on my stomach, he looked like he was still sleeping. When we got up in the morning, it was like totally nothing happened. He's my best friend but I don't know how to deal with this and what to say to him now?

[Swagging god]

Just tell him politely and honestly how it made u feel

[deregisterme]

Not to sure how to deal with this, but i was at a friends house playing GTA5 which is awesome! and we we're playing it really late. He invited me to sleep over so I did. He has a huge bed, so we shared it together and just was wearing our boxer/briefs to bed. I like woke up during the night and he had his hand under my boxers and just holding my penis which got seriously hard because he was doing that. I pretended I didn't notice and just like lifted his hand out of my boxers and laid on my stomach, he looked like he was still sleeping. When we got up in the morning, it was like totally nothing happened. He's my best friend but I don't know how to deal with this and what to say to him now?

It partly depends on weather or not what you want to happen next. If you think he was genuinely sleeping and want to leave it then leave it. If you feel he was "interested" and you're not, just say "did you know this happened last night when you seemed to be sleeping, I wasn't too keen". If he's your friend, he should be OK with it. If you're curious, say that it happened and that you're curious on his thoughts, to see how he feels. If he's a good friend, and you do it in a softly manner, he should be OK whatever your feelings are.

[Sammy07]

I think you don't need to say anything :)

[Your Captain]

Wow, sounds weird.I would of done what you did. Also I would never bring it up either

[mww113]

I think it depends on what you want to do. Did it bother you? Did you enjoy it? The best suggestion I have for you is to talk openly and honestly with your friend.

[tommym]

If you honestly think he was sleeping, then he probably did it without even knowing. And if you bring it up now, it could really embarrass him and make things really awkward between the two of you.

My suggestion would be to let it go, and not bring it up. If the scenario presents itself again, see if anything happens. If so, you will then know that he's doing it on purpose, and then you bring it up.

For now, save that awkward moment for both of you and pretend it didn't happen.

[mww113]

If his hand was under your boxers, my guess is that he was pretending to sleep haha.

[tommym]

If his hand was under your boxers, my guess is that he was pretending to sleep haha.

Most likely. You don't just get your hand up another guy's shorts and grab his genitals while you're asleep.

[Lordsd]

I wouldn't mention it I would find it too awkward but if you feel it neccessary then go for it!:)

[curiousme]

If your ok with it, talk to him and tell him it was ok that he did that so hes not worried about what u think

[Brice]

Boys do sleep like that though. Its a natural sleeping position for some boys. So honestly, I don't think you should tell him so you don't embarrass him but if your curious about experimenting then, I say go for it. But make sure he knows you aren't mad or anything. Best of luck!!!

[tommym]

Boys do sleep like that though. Its a natural sleeping position for some boys. So honestly, I don't think you should tell him so you don't embarrass him but if your curious about experimenting then, I say go for it. But make sure he knows you aren't mad or anything. Best of luck!!!

It is not a natural sleeping position to have your hand up another guy's boxers, holding his genitals. Not at all natural.

It COULD be explained by "sleep walking" but this is way too specific. Most likely, the friend was doing it on purpose, the OP woke up, and the friend quickly pretended to be asleep to get away with it.

[Brice]

When guys sleep, they have a lot of erections and in their sleep, they may hold it. It is a natural position and he may have done that because he was sleeping and didn't know that what he was grabbing was not his. Nobody knows what they do in their sleep and many guys do sleep like that. Its been proven in many sleep studies. Just like its a natural sleeping position for many people to hold people and hug them in their sleep. Its the same thing.

[ryanpeterson832]

Im might just not mention it.

[tommym]

When guys sleep, they have a lot of erections and in their sleep, they may hold it. It is a natural position and he may have done that because he was sleeping and didn't know that what he was grabbing was not his. Nobody knows what they do in their sleep and many guys do sleep like that. Its been proven in many sleep studies. Just like its a natural sleeping position for many people to hold people and hug them in their sleep. Its the same thing.

Yes, it is common for a male to touch himself in his sleep. It's not common for a male to reach up into another male's shorts and fondle that male's genitals while sleeping.

[Ttssman]

Just tell him that it made you uncomfortable.

[Jtyler]

The same think kinda of happend to me , we just went on with our lives , but now we are really close and can do stuff together without it being awkward

[ksdnfkfr]

idk - it kinda sounds like he fell asleep while feeling you up.
I think fooling with someone's junk while they are asleep is violating them.
Then again he may have done it while asleep. I sleep with my cousin sometimes
and we are really close - so I know there's nothing going on between us, but a few
nights ago he kinda took hold of my arm and started caressing it haha.
I could tell he was sound asleep and def something he wouldn't done awake.

[tommym]

idk - it kinda sounds like he fell asleep while feeling you up.
I think fooling with someone's junk while they are asleep is violating them.
Then again he may have done it while asleep. I sleep with my cousin sometimes
and we are really close - so I know there's nothing going on between us, but a few
nights ago he kinda took hold of my arm and started caressing it haha.
I could tell he was sound asleep and def something he wouldn't done awake.

Your example is very realistic. Stroking your arm would not be cause for alarm. But if your cousin reached up your shorts and fondled you, that would be extreme, and not something that would accidentally happen while sleeping.

If it was done intentionally, and was unwelcomed, it was definitely a violation.

[ksdnfkfr]

Your example is very realistic. Stroking your arm would not be cause for alarm. But if your cousin reached up your shorts and fondled you, that would be extreme, and not something that would accidentally happen while sleeping.

If it was done intentionally, and was unwelcomed, it was definitely a violation.

I have heard of crazy stuff ppl do in their sleep like getting up and making a sandwich - but I agree with you that it seems doubtful he performed that in his sleep. I think even if it is welcome, if you are being felt up by someone cause they think you are asleep - they are taking advantage of you and you are being violated. I mean my friend and I fool around lots - but I would never even think about doing that to him.

[tommym]

I have heard of crazy stuff ppl do in their sleep like getting up and making a sandwich - but I agree with you that it seems doubtful he performed that in his sleep. I think even if it is welcome, if you are being felt up by someone cause they think you are asleep - they are taking advantage of you and you are being violated. I mean my friend and I fool around lots - but I would never even think about doing that to him.

Absolutely....people have done many things while "sleep walking". But it's typically something they've done while awake, so their brain already knows how to do it.

So unless the OP's friend was already accustomed to fondling guys while awake, it would be unrealistic for him to do it while sleeping.

Sounds like the OP should have a talk with the friend before anything else happens.

[kiwiteen]

I kind of had the same problem.Me and a friend were in the same bed and I woke up in the morning and my pjs were pulled down below my dick. I didn't say anything to him because I thought I might have done it while I was asleep though it's never happened before or since. but there was also cum on the outside of my PJs butt so I'm kinda wondering if I should say something to him too.

[pjones]

It partly depends on weather or not what you want to happen next. If you think he was genuinely sleeping and want to leave it then leave it. If you feel he was "interested" and you're not, just say "did you know this happened last night when you seemed to be sleeping, I wasn't too keen". If he's your friend, he should be OK with it. If you're curious, say that it happened and that you're curious on his thoughts, to see how he feels. If he's a good friend, and you do it in a softly manner, he should be OK whatever your feelings are.

this is a great way to approach him about it imo

[ska8er]

if I was sleeping with a friend and that happened
id enjoy it. if I shared a bed the next time id grab
his junk. we were asleep-wtf?

[Collins1]

If you want to say something to him, then say something.
If you don't want to talk about it with him, then don't.
Simple as that.

[Catholic Guy]

Well don't say anything unless it made you really uncomfortable, if it didn't perhaps you should get him to stay around and share a bed again and see if he touches you again, he could have just been pretending to be asleep but if I were you I wouldn't say anything because that would make an not awkward situation awkward

[kinger]

it really depends on where you wanna go with it. you dont sound super bothered by it and you guys are best friends so i would say for now just leave it alone to prevent making things akward. If it happens again then you can decide if you wanna say something.

[kinger]

When guys sleep, they have a lot of erections and in their sleep, they may hold it. It is a natural position and he may have done that because he was sleeping and didn't know that what he was grabbing was not his. Nobody knows what they do in their sleep and many guys do sleep like that. Its been proven in many sleep studies. Just like its a natural sleeping position for many people to hold people and hug them in their sleep. Its the same thing.

Im with you man i think it could have been an accident