Is this bi or not?

[xandyx]

Does it mean your bi if you don't "like" guys but sometimes want to do stuff with them and maybe think about them when you masturbate sometimes. Not a lot.

I still like girls more but just wondering if anyone does it or am I weird?

[pjones]

i think being bi means you would want to be romantically involved with boys and girls

[MechaSniper]

It just means your curious

[daniel74]

I wouldn't worry about labelling yourself as one/the other/both at your age. Either way does not make you weird. Just find where you are most comfortable and enjoy it :)

[tommym]

You're young and your sex drive is very active. Just because you have the occasional thought about nude males, does not necessarily mean you're bi-sexual. Typically, that term is reserved for those who are sexually attracted to both genders. Right now, your mind is just exploring everything.

[ksdnfkfr]

Nah. I'm bi and that really does not qualify. But at the same time I am doubtful that all that many people are 100% straight. Nothing at all for you to worry about tho that's for sure.

[Gifford]

There seems to be some confusion over what it means to be bisexual. I found this website: http://www.examiner.com/article/bisexuality-101-am-i-bisexual as well as others, but they all said basically the same thing as this one.

"Bisexuality, in its simplest form, is the understanding or awareness that you can be attracted physically AND emotionally to either gender."

"It doesn't mean that you have to be equally attracted to both, and it doesn't mean that you have to have regular sex with both genders to be happy or satisfied. And yes, bisexuals can be monogamous, and have one only one partner at a time and be very content."

Or this site: http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=724&Itemid=336

"Bisexual people have the capacity to love people of their same gender or of [the opposite] gender. This can include physical, sexual, and emotional attraction, and/or relationships."

[mww113]

I'd say you're pretty young and might not know for sure yet. I'd advise you to relax and not label your sexuality :). You have loads of time to figure that out.

[Captain Canada]

^ I agree. Your still young and even though your mind goes to males sometimes it doesnt mean your bi. Maybe curious but bi is when your sexually attracted to both genders

[Shadow08200]

At 13, I wouldn't already look to label yourself. I'd say you're curious since you are saying that you don't have an attraction for males. If you are wanting to experiment and all that stuff, it's just curiosity.