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ArtemisLianCrock
December 29th, 2013, 09:57 AM
I'm really good friends with a family of three boys, but now the two older ones want more. One's the same age as me and the other is one year younger. I've already said no a few times, but they won't take no for an answer. Help???

Were
December 29th, 2013, 11:45 AM
stick to your word let no be no,and try to avoid any areas where they can get a chance to seduce you

ArtemisLianCrock
December 30th, 2013, 11:12 AM
It's hard to do that as our families are really good friends, and we are often left alone in a house together. I've tried explaining this to my mother, but she tells me I'm imagining it.

Living For Love
December 30th, 2013, 01:23 PM
They can't force you to became their girlfriend or something, so if your answer is no, then let them understand that clearly. If you think they're starting to make you uncomfortable, don't hesitate and tell them to back off for a while.

ArtemisLianCrock
December 31st, 2013, 08:13 AM
Thanks, they're visiting tomorrow, so I'll try this.

chieko
December 31st, 2013, 10:03 AM
Try to spend less time with them as much as possible. Tell them you're busy. When i avoid people i always make excuses.

ArtemisLianCrock
January 1st, 2014, 10:01 AM
Thanks, this helped a lot. Don't know whether they've given up or not, but they agreed to give me some space.