bedmate touched my penis...

[sush1996]

I sleep in underwear with my bedmate. He is really very hot. One night maybe at 2am. I feel that he is touching my penis for about 5 min. I let him do that night. I always want to see him naked and do same with him, Kiss him. Is it OK if I asked him to do that. Or this is gay ??

[deregisterme]

I sleep in underwear with my bedmate. He is really very hot. One night maybe at 2am. I feel that he is touching my penis for about 5 min. I let him do that night. I always want to see him naked and do same with him, Kiss him. Is it OK if I asked him to do that. Or this is gay ??

It sounds at least curiosity, though don't worry about labelling it too much. I've seen threads before where people want to ask, but don't know how their friends would react. Given what your friend has already done, you can almost safely assume that he is as at least as curious as you. If you do ask him and "go for it", make sure you know what your boundaries are and enjoythe moment.
Any more questions, just ask.

[ksdnfkfr]

Well I hate to tell you this, but thinking your friend is hot and wanting to
kiss him - is gay in itself. But that is alright - it just means you really like
him very much and that is not a bad thing. And it seems like he has special
feeling for you too - although he should not be doing anything to you if he thinks
you are sleeping - but i'll give him the benefit of the doubt and say innocent mistake
on his part. Anyways it is up to you guys if you want to act on your feelings
for each other or worry about some kind of label.

[lacheyman]

i think you most likely are bisexual

[ska8er]

u both r curious. if u r together go take a leak
and ask him to come an c what happens.

[Soldier212]

u r curious, but you should never think being gay is a bad thing

[Forsakenbymyself]

Ask him. Whatever makes the both of you happy and comfortable is fine!

[Your Captain]

Nooo, I pressed nobody by accident. I meant to put boys and girls

[Your Captain]

I sleep in underwear with my bedmate. He is really very hot. One night maybe at 2am. I feel that he is touching my penis for about 5 min. I let him do that night. I always want to see him naked and do same with him, Kiss him. Is it OK if I asked him to do that. Or this is gay ??

If I were you I would ask him if I could touch him. Its not guy if you don't want it to be, its just exploring your sexuality

[Heyman]

Sounds curios or maby bi

[Hermes]

You could talk to him or, if that seems too hard you could see if he does it again and when he does either say something or grab his cock and start playing with it. That would break the ice and he can't complain you have grabbed him when he has grabbed you.

If you want to react to him grabbing you by saying something the just say something positive, like "That feels amazing, keep doing it. It's great to feel someone else's hand on it for a change - shall I do you?"

[Catholic Guy]

Well I would just touch him, he touched you so you should touch him or one day get into bed naked or as he comes into your room pull his underwear down and if he says anything point out that he was touching you in the night but it doesn't sound gay just like you are curious don't worry about it, do whatever feels right!

[casperathome]

Seems me and my j/o buds started in a similar way. I kinda got a clue with most of them as we seemed really comfortable about talking about sex and showing each other our progress. Usually one or the other was a bit more 'open' about discussing our sexuality. I found just sleeping in the same bed was a place to start. Some of my buds who have slept over refused to sleep in the same bed. I figured they were not interested in fooling around and respected that.

Having said that. The one's who wanted to sleep together in the same bed it seems led to something. When it's midnight and both of you have missed jerking off that night when you normally jerk and hormone's are raging ( I always get a boner at night when I go to bed) it seem's your guard is down and more likely that something may happen.

I'm not gay, I'm Bi but very curious. I don't consider it gay that we fool around. After reading a lot of the posts on here it seems pretty common. I'm 14 and have a g/f but we are not sexually active so having a bud to explore with.

[Tdaykin877]

It's just curious, just be upfront and ask, he obviously would ahaha

[Liven]

If you are not ok with it then say that you are not ok with it.
If you are ok with it, tell him that you are ok with it and maybe you two can experiment.
He seems to be curious but nervous because he touched you at night and he is nervous to ask you to experiment with you because he is scared of a negative reaction.

[From Chris]

I sleep in underwear with my bedmate. He is really very hot. One night maybe at 2am. I feel that he is touching my penis for about 5 min. I let him do that night. I always want to see him naked and do same with him, Kiss him. Is it OK if I asked him to do that. Or this is gay ??

I wouldn't say one act of kissing another guy would make you gay, I think you're just curious. :) It's perfectly normal to experiment and from what you say he does, he sounds like he would like to do it too!

-From Chris

[Jtyler]

It's not gay unless you are attracted fully to guys, it's just experimenting

[Pulp501]

I sleep in underwear with my bedmate. He is really very hot. One night maybe at 2am. I feel that he is touching my penis for about 5 min. I let him do that night. I always want to see him naked and do same with him, Kiss him. Is it OK if I asked him to do that. Or this is gay ??

Why do you have a bedmate? Anyway you must be very curious or bi if you think he is hot. Touch him, since he touched you.

[daniel 2014]

Next time he touches it just reach over and grab his. He'll go along from there.

[daniel 2014]

Just go to bed Naked one night.

[rhyse3]

go for it :)

[frisbee25]

Curiosity its normal

[TheLivingLie]

I sleep in underwear with my bedmate. He is really very hot. One night maybe at 2am. I feel that he is touching my penis for about 5 min. I let him do that night. I always want to see him naked and do same with him, Kiss him. Is it OK if I asked him to do that. Or this is gay ??

Yeah, just sounds like your both curious, you should ask him, might be awkward at first, but he will probably say ok. Oh, and I was just wondering how old r u and your friend???

[dontfiguremeout]

I doubt this is true since way too many people post stories like this. I mean seriously, if you woke up from it, I'm pretty sure you would react right away and not let it slide. But if it "did" happen, then I don't think you are fully straight. Maybe bi, because if you were straight you wouldn't want to be kissing guys or doing anything sexual with them.

[Andrew2499]

It sounds like your curious, but if he is playing with your junk he probably wants to do the same thing.

[john.doe1111]

Nah it's normal

[JollyToes]

As stated, it sounds like you are both curious, just go to bed and once ur under the covers slip your pants off and see what happens.

[Panda]

While he's doing it, take off your underwear and see what happens.

[Arsenalfan123]

Imo thats weird

[Jamaicob]

whoever wants to ;)

[Liam Peter]

I don't know why you would hesitate to do something, he had his hand on your bloody dick!