PinkFloyd
December 29th, 2013, 01:05 AM
So if you didn't see the original thread, here's my situation. http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=186058
ANYWAYS, my gf in Spain has a friend. We'll call her Alexis. I've known Alexis for almost as long as I've known my gf. My gf and Alexis are best friends. That created kind of a circle of close friends.
Alexis has always been obsessed with me. When I say obsessed, I mean physically. Like, you know that perverted person you know? That's Alexis. A perfect example is her purposely walking in on me when I'm changing or whatever. How about her grabbing at me? It never really got to me, so I dropped it. We always have been actual friends though. Like we've always been close and I could tell her anything but also play Xbox and do friendly things. She was the number one person that helped me through the overwhelming grief I had when my gf moved away.
As you read in the thread, me and my gf were doing... stuff A lot. Me being a fricken human being, has needs. Because of these needs, I talked to my gf, saying that have needs and she mirrored what I said. She also said that she has needs. I asked her that since Alexis has always been close to us, if it'd be okay if we could be friends with benefits. (As I said earlier, Alexis has only a physical attraction to me.) My gf said that it was okay. I made sure to clarify and she said that if we're gonna agree on this, Alexis would be the only one that she'd be comfortable with because of the closeness and all. There's also the fact that Alexis has been into me forever, and this is making her happy. It's a win win.
So yeah, we met up and all that took place and I'm not gonna go into detail for obvious reason... I just wanted to get all that out because it's been all I've been thinking about and needed to talk to people about it.
ANYWAYS, my gf in Spain has a friend. We'll call her Alexis. I've known Alexis for almost as long as I've known my gf. My gf and Alexis are best friends. That created kind of a circle of close friends.
Alexis has always been obsessed with me. When I say obsessed, I mean physically. Like, you know that perverted person you know? That's Alexis. A perfect example is her purposely walking in on me when I'm changing or whatever. How about her grabbing at me? It never really got to me, so I dropped it. We always have been actual friends though. Like we've always been close and I could tell her anything but also play Xbox and do friendly things. She was the number one person that helped me through the overwhelming grief I had when my gf moved away.
As you read in the thread, me and my gf were doing... stuff A lot. Me being a fricken human being, has needs. Because of these needs, I talked to my gf, saying that have needs and she mirrored what I said. She also said that she has needs. I asked her that since Alexis has always been close to us, if it'd be okay if we could be friends with benefits. (As I said earlier, Alexis has only a physical attraction to me.) My gf said that it was okay. I made sure to clarify and she said that if we're gonna agree on this, Alexis would be the only one that she'd be comfortable with because of the closeness and all. There's also the fact that Alexis has been into me forever, and this is making her happy. It's a win win.
So yeah, we met up and all that took place and I'm not gonna go into detail for obvious reason... I just wanted to get all that out because it's been all I've been thinking about and needed to talk to people about it.