am i a loser?

[TipoRimvis]

Hey guys, what's up?
So straight to the point:
In one month im turning 17, BUT i still have never had a girlfriend. I were fat, till last summer, then i got cut(mucle got toned) and almost everyone say that my muscle are too big. Im also learning programming, jogging and going to gym, so i dont have time. I dont go to parties and stuff.
So the BIG question is :D
Am I loser that i havent had a girlfriend in my 17 years of life on this world (last 1 and a half in a gym :D)?
Thanks for your opinions and good luck! :)
P.s. have you already made your new years resolution?
I did: learn c++ and get bigger musclezzzzzz :D

[Blood]

No, I don't think you're a loser at all. The age that you do or don't get a girlfriend doesn't influence whether you're a loser or not. You seem to have a pretty good head on your shoulders and it's great that you're taking your health so seriously. Don't worry, you'll get a girlfriend.

My New Years resolution will be to work out consistently and try to eliminate most if not all junk foods from my diet. Oh, and the only liquid I want to consume for the whole year is water. So basically just be all around healthier. I'm looking forward to it!

[Meganium]

Of course not. You've clearly been busy with seeking a healthier lifestyle, your education, and your personal interests to keep yourself sane. You're juggling around a lot of things and probably don't have time. Shit, a lot of our time just disappears when we go to high school anyway.

You've been using your time to make yourself better, and that alone keeps you from being a "loser". A girl for you will come when they do. You shouldn't worry about it right now while you're on a good path, so don't let it get in your way. Just keep doing what you're doing, and let things take their course.

[newkler]

No you're not. xx

[josh900]

Don't worry about it. Some people find the right one in their 20's.

[newkler]

Don't worry about it. Some people find the right one in their 20's.


Yeah, and some people meet their right one at 40's

[josh900]

Yeah, and some people meet their right one at 40's

I agree. It all depends on each individual.

[PerpetualImperfexion]

Oh, and the only liquid I want to consume for the whole year is liquid.

I think you meant water.

And no, I have nothing relevant to say to OP.

[Blood]

I think you meant water.

And no, I have nothing relevant to say to OP.

Yep! Thanks for catching that. Edited.

[ksdnfkfr]

The term "looser" is fictional BS invented to make ppl feel superior to others.
Or to pressure ppl into conforming to a certain way of lifestyle.

[ImagineRepublicCity]

Just because you haven't had a girlfriend doesn't make you a loser. I mean, in my opinion, I don't think it really matters. If you've had one, good for you. If you haven't, good for you. If you want one, go ahead. If you don't, go ahead. Nobody can say if you're a loser or not just because you haven't had a relationship.

[TipoRimvis]

Thank you all for your opinions! :)
Good luck building muscles and loosing fat! Remember that muscle burns calories! ;) If you want tips from me feel free to write me ;)

[newkler]

you're welcome :)