Masturbation/Handjob problem... help?!

[FBNIL97]

Im not sure what Forum to post this in, but yeah.

I'm gonna start off by saying that this is relationship and sex related...

So basically I'm scared there might be something wrong with me.

Basically I have no problem "Climaxing" when I masturbate, but when I get round to my girlfriend doing it to me... I don't get anywhere... I don't know what's up and i just want to know what's wrong :(

and if it means anything, I'm 16 and uncut...

[That's the Spirit]

If you're nervous at the time then maybe the nerves are taking over you and you can't focus?

[ska8er]

u r not stimulated enough by her.

[DMan98]

Im not sure what Forum to post this in, but yeah.

I'm gonna start off by saying that this is relationship and sex related...

So basically I'm scared there might be something wrong with me.

Basically I have no problem "Climaxing" when I masturbate, but when I get round to my girlfriend doing it to me... I don't get anywhere... I don't know what's up and i just want to know what's wrong :(

and if it means anything, I'm 16 and uncut...

the problem is, she doesn't know ur body like u d o. and since she isn't blowing you and is basically just masturbating you, she isn't hitting the right spots.

[joshmz]

It used to happen to me and I think it was because I was nervous and over thinking it. Just go in there and just have fun with it. There's no pressure.

[ksdnfkfr]

I have read that a lot of guys have trouble with that so no worries.
Try working with her on it and how you like it and stuff - instead of
just laying there nervous having someone do something to you.
You have to learn / be taught the right way to masturbate someone.

[Sminkelaks]

Just try to relax. It's not uncommon. Try and try again, and remember, it's not a competition! ;)

[FBNIL97]

Thanks a lot for the replies guys, really appreciated :)