what do you think I should do?

[r3dl3g]

theres a girl that I've been friends with for about 2 months we havn't really hung around with eachother much, we mostly talk on msn., but know she seems to really want to have sex with me, I want to have sex with her also, but she is 13 and I'm 15, shes in middel school and I'm in high school, so I don't know if I would really feel right about it, she lookes older and she said she wouldn't tell anyone. I've asked my brother and a few of my friends about it and they said,"the condoms are in my closet", "you have to take it when you get it" and, "why would it matter it's not like your going out also".

what do you think I should do, and has anyone here had underage sex or sex that they regret?

[Dante]

I dont think you should do it, from what ur sayin u hardly know her.

[*-tick tock-*]

i agree with dante... 2 months? u hardly know this gal
take time to know her..take it from there it will take a while....

dont rush anything... either

[guitarro]

if ur sure u wont get caught go for it

[r3dl3g]

I'll proubly go to her house in a few day, I'll just see how it goes.

[TMTY]

i would wait i agree with dante and tick tock...get to know her and then maybe take ur sex relationship from there...

[ScotsGirl]

if ur sure u wont get caught go for it

umm...the reason you have sex shouldnt be to do with whether or not someone will catch you :? ...

Anyway...

theres a girl that I've been friends with for about 2 months we havn't really hung around with eachother much, we mostly talk on msn., but know she seems to really want to have sex with me, I want to have sex with her also, but she is 13 and I'm 15, shes in middel school and I'm in high school, so I don't know if I would really feel right about it, she lookes older and she said she wouldn't tell anyone. I've asked my brother and a few of my friends about it and they said,"the condoms are in my closet", "you have to take it when you get it" and, "why would it matter it's not like your going out also".

what do you think I should do, and has anyone here had underage sex or sex that they regret?

I agree with everyone ^^ you should get to know the girl, hang out with her.
Going by what you have said in your post, your reasons for thinking about having sex with her seem to be based on her seeming to want to have sex with you. Please, feel free to correct me if im wrong :)
Its just, well you havent mentioned if you actually like her, or if you get on really well or even if you think she is attractive. Dont you think those would be better reasons for you to base your decision on?
My advice to you is, dont rush into anything that you might regret...and dont let her do the same. You are both young, you have plenty of time for this. Maybe you could talk about things with her properly? and not just about having sex, i mean about the consequences and what will happen afterwards.
There are alot of other things you can do besides sex like having a relationship with her, kissing her, touching her...there are plenty of options.

Either way, i hope everything goes well :D

xxx

[Ezz]

I dont think you should do it, from what ur sayin u hardly know her.

agree

i agree with dante... 2 months? u hardly know this gal
take time to know her..take it from there it will take a while....

dont rush anything... either

agree

[bbychop]

Two months is a little short notice to know her ya know. Do you have any types of feelings toward her? If not then, hun, don't even do it.

[grave]

theres a girl that I've been friends with for about 2 months we havn't really hung around with eachother much, we mostly talk on msn., but know she seems to really want to have sex with me, I want to have sex with her also, but she is 13 and I'm 15, shes in middel school and I'm in high school, so I don't know if I would really feel right about it, she lookes older and she said she wouldn't tell anyone. I've asked my brother and a few of my friends about it and they said,"the condoms are in my closet", "you have to take it when you get it" and, "why would it matter it's not like your going out also".

what do you think I should do, and has anyone here had underage sex or sex that they regret?

Lol, 'the condoms are in my closet' part was funny.. Well I am not sure, make sure you dont get her pregnant! :shock:

[Elokyn]

(if you dont wanna read everything, that that's in bold pretty much summarizes what I'm saying)

well.....the fact that you would even think about it is disgusting.....YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW HER!!! I'm not the type of person that is like..oh wait for marriage blah blah blah, but atleast KNOW her before you fuck her......the whole idea of..."oh have sex with her it's not like you have to go out with her" is just fucking pathetic.....
and you're worried about regretting it cus you're underage....oh please! if she's as easy as she sounds you should be worried about disease...if you're thinking a condom stops all of those...you're wrong! And obviously if you have to ask dozens of people if you should or not you're not mature enough anyway....You're not ready....

....no offense intended of course I just have very strong opinions :?

[Kev*]

if u wanna do it then you do it

but you dont realli know her as u said

you are onli 15 and i think that you should be going out with her

how do you know she wants to have sex with you has she said because you said you think she does

[CrAzY-TBonE]

if u wanna do it then you do it

but you dont realli know her as u said

you are onli 15 and i think that you should be going out with her

how do you know she wants to have sex with you has she said because you said you think she does

sometimes i just dont understand your lingo..

dont do it man, your too young, wait till shes a little bit older and see if she wants to do it, just be careful, go out wit her first, take it frum there

[sabotaged111]

ITS YOUR DECISION never forget that. although since youre asking us id say get to know her.

[iJack]

Dont bumb old threads, they died for a reason

[Antares]

Please don't bump old threads. I sent you a PM.
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