View Full Version : why cant I argue
RunnerRunner
December 27th, 2013, 03:51 PM
Ok so everytime I argue no matter withbwho I always end up losing, even on the things I mostly know about I still lose, Ive literally never won an arguement. I always lose thwm, is there something I might be missing or am I just naturally not able to argue?
Hyper
December 27th, 2013, 04:09 PM
How do you lose an argument???
RunnerRunner
December 27th, 2013, 04:55 PM
How do you lose an argument???
I dont even know but im the worst arguer in the world!
Hyper
December 27th, 2013, 05:04 PM
Maybe your just arguing... And doing it with assholes.
I personally don't think someone can win in an exchange of opinions and views... The people who claim to win are usually the type of assholes that get the ''last word'' or just put their BS on loop.
RunnerRunner
December 27th, 2013, 05:13 PM
Maybe your just arguing... And doing it with assholes.
I personally don't think someone can win in an exchange of opinions and views... The people who claim to win are usually the type of assholes that get the ''last word'' or just put their BS on loop.
Then those are the people im always argueing with then, once they say something they end up shutting me up, with me trying to speak but they drown me out.
Hyper
December 27th, 2013, 05:16 PM
Save yourself the headache then. Most people argue to hear the sound of their own voice.
Discuss with people who are willing to actually listen to you. They are a lot harder to find than the arguing type... but that's the reality of life. The vast majority of people are so stuck in their beliefs wether rational or purely faith based that they have little to no consideration for other opinion.
RunnerRunner
December 27th, 2013, 08:06 PM
Hmm I guess thats true, so then I never have found the real type of person that is really worth debating and argueing then.
chieko
December 28th, 2013, 08:55 PM
i'm in the exact situation. and it's really annoying! it happens when I argue with guy friends who acts like douchebags. when i try to speak they also end up shutting me up by speaking gibberish and pretending not to listen to me. so i just shut up because i don't want to look like stupid. when they speak i also shut up and just give them the "yeah-right-i'll-agree-whatever-you-say-you-stupid-fool" look. sometimes i accused them of bullying me. but they just don't take me seriously and just laugh at me. and after a while they have all the guts to expect me to be nice to them after arguing with me! >< they really get on my nerves. but i don't care! they're all idiotic, senseless, and pieces of worthless talentless low lifes x(
AlexOnToast
December 28th, 2013, 08:59 PM
Maybe your just arguing... And doing it with assholes.
I personally don't think someone can win in an exchange of opinions and views... The people who claim to win are usually the type of assholes that get the ''last word'' or just put their BS on loop.
Here Here !!! Truer word never spoken !!!
RunnerRunner
December 29th, 2013, 12:10 AM
i'm in the exact situation. and it's really annoying! it happens when I argue with guy friends who acts like douchebags. when i try to speak they also end up shutting me up by speaking gibberish and pretending not to listen to me. so i just shut up because i don't want to look like stupid. when they speak i also shut up and just give them the "yeah-right-i'll-agree-whatever-you-say-you-stupid-fool" look. sometimes i accused them of bullying me. but they just don't take me seriously and just laugh at me. and after a while they have all the guts to expect me to be nice to them after arguing with me! >< they really get on my nerves. but i don't care! they're all idiotic, senseless, and pieces of worthless talentless low lifes x(
Omg I just hate how people are like that, and I cant drown him out, If I get luckyi end up screaming at the person in german mainly so I can get some space if.they get too close and some defense
chieko
December 29th, 2013, 12:00 PM
sometimes when i'm really irritated i just kick chairs or throw things before i walk out
RunnerRunner
January 1st, 2014, 02:02 PM
sometimes when i'm really irritated i just kick chairs or throw things before i walk out
I did that like twive haha and it didnt end that pretty xD
chieko
January 1st, 2014, 04:15 PM
I did that like twive haha and it didnt end that pretty xD
really haha why how did people react? when i do that they just get shocked, but next time they're not still afraid to argue with me. ughh >_<
RunnerRunner
January 1st, 2014, 06:05 PM
sometimes when i'm really irritated i just kick chairs or throw things before i walk out
really haha why how did people react? when i do that they just get shocked, but next time they're not still afraid to argue with me. ughh >_<
They just backed away a bit lol. They still will do it because it gets me mad. They always pick on the scenish skater rocker kid -_-
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