Asking a girl to prom

[heidenreich]

Ok so, recently I've established a friendship with a girl I've liked for, well a bit, and we've become really good friends, I have her number and we talk a lot. I want to ask her to prom but I don't want to ruin the friendship if she says no. Also, I'm not particularly dashing, and she's very popular around school, but not bitchy popular, she's friends with pretty much everyone and she's literally one of the most caring and nicest generous people I've ever met. Has anyone got any ideas for me? As I said before, Im not at all attractive, but I want to ask her as we have a real good friendship. Is it sensible for me to ask her to go to prom with me? Or should I just leave it and be grateful that we're really good friends?

And I myself have blown shit out of proportion I mean, in the time that I've been pondering this I've developed a massive crush on her, I mean, I've found her to be attractive before, but know we're talking pretty much every day its got worse and I feel as though I've fallen for her (Ha, Gayyy!) Anyway, does anyone have any suggestions for me? I know I haven't got a cat in hells chance of being in a relationship with her, but I kinda don't want that (Well I do) because I know that if something goes wrong it'll ruin whatever we have. Any help is seriously thanked!

[WeAreOneRepublic]

Going to the prom I say yes to asking her! It is not likely to change much. If you put emotional involvement in then that is when things will change(better or worse) so asking her to prom is alright.

It's not always the popular guys that get the popular girls, everybody has a chance and if you have built a good friendship then that provides a stepping stone if you want to go further later. Just take a step back and look at your situation with her and ask yourself some questions. I do feel good about your situation and wish you luck my friend :)

[scott757]

If you're good friends I don't think she'd have an issue going to prom with you, it's worth a shot, and if she says no, brush it off, just say it was as friends. If she says yes then just go with her and see how it goes with her - it may lead to more, it may not, only time would tell.