I want to sex but.....

[sush1996]

Hii
Happy new year...!!!

I am 17 yrs boy. I have girlfriend of 16 yrs. I want to sex with her but she don't allow me to do so. Her younger sister of my age ready to have sex with me. She also showed me her naked body. But I don't want to cheat my gf. .
What can I do ?? I really want to have sex in next 4 days...
But I fear if this is plan of my gf for testing me ??plzz help..


(My English is not good...)

[PinkFloyd]

If your current girlfriend doesn't want to have sex, then you aren't getting it unless she is okay with it.

[Swagging god]

My advice to you, from my own personal experience ( ex tested me with a break up and gave me permission....) is.....DO NOT have sex with her sister, it very well may be a test and if you fail you lose her. My suggestion to you is talk it over with your girlfriend, maybe she was a reason for not wanting sex at this time. I know it is tempting, but stay strong.....just talk to her and maybe tell her how u feel....if the flaunting of her sister still persists confront them about it. Good luck! Oh in response to your poll question, I was 14, when I lost my virginity.

[Gifford]

Talk to your gf about your feelings, tell her how much you care for her - or love her if you do - and that you're a teen guy in puberty and your hormones have you horny all the time and you really want to have sex with her. If she still says "no", tell her you know a few other girls who want to have sex with you and frankly, you're tempted to do it with one of them. After all, society supports guys being more experienced, and if you do that, it will make you a better lover for her when she's ready to have sex with you.

Do not, under any circumstances, unless you break up, have sex with her sister. And even then you'll build a wall between the two of them. It's your call on that.

You can even try the argument that (how long have you been together?) relationships between teens rarely work out in the long term and maybe if she isn't ready to have sex, you should have the freedom to see other girls. Come right out and ask her if she believes she wants to be a virgin when she marries, and if so, that may be your answer. Getting married is so far off in the future, why should you give up sex in your teen years for something that may never happen?

That's my feeling on it. You're 17; are you a virgin? If so, I'd find a way to go out and have sex. These are your teen years, and your teens are almost gone, dude. Don't waste time.

In relation to the poll, I was 12 when I lost my virginity to another 12 yo boy.

[Lost in the Echo]

We don't allow tips on this subject, the point of Puberty 101 is to get help, advice, support etc. with things that relate to puberty or sex-ed, not to give you directions on how to get someone to have sex with you.
But I do recommend you show some respect towards your girlfriend, and wait until she's ready to have sex. There's way more to life than sex, and there's way more to a relationship than sex. If you love and respect her enough, then you will wait.

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