officially telling her how i feel

[Steffanie2020]

I have a serious crush on one of my friends and I was wondering if I should tell her how I feel. she already knows that I like her and at one point she said one night she did have mixed emotions about me but not anymore. I was wondering if I should tell her my true feelings towards her just to get it off my chest. I just want her to officially tell me she doesn't have the same feelings for me so I can move on. I know this probably sounds stupid but I just cant stop thinking about her. what do I do? please help D:











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[ksdnfkfr]

I was wondering if I should tell her my true feelings towards her just to get it off my chest.


I will say yes - but maybe not to lay it on too thick.

[Jungle]

I appreciate these are different circumstances, but after what I've been through I would hate to think that poor advice led to someone else going through the same thing. Which is why I say, give it careful consideration. I wouldn't just come out and tell her. I did that to someone, and for years they dragged me on. They knew I loved them, and used that against me to use me. I was blind at the time,but I see now after all that time how foolish I was... However, like I said, different circumstances. Just consider, what is she likely to do, can you face it if she says no, do you think she will open up to you, e.t.c.

[WeAreOneRepublic]

Take a step back and look and the situation from an analytical point of view. By putting emotions out, like a kiss or telling how you feel, it will change the situation and this is shown throughout many years. Tread carefully and ask yourself questions about this.