Need help

[AlexOnToast]

I went onto the chatroom to try and cheer myself up after a bad day, and some guy was posting about how he was going to kill himself. I said about how my mum commited suicide and how it's selfish to take your life because it ruins other proples lives and that if he really wanted help he should stop looking for help in the chatroom because it would be better to get real help from a counciler, but then he left, and everyone in the chat turned on me and said it was myfault and ive probably triggered a suicide and that im an idiot. I hate myself now and im shaking and i really feel like doing something bad to myself someone please help

and im not just looking for attention ive never felt like this before

Posts merged. Next time, please use the "Edit" button. ~Elysium

[ksdnfkfr]

I went onto the chatroom to try and cheer myself up after a bad day, and some guy was posting about how he was going to kill himself. I said about how my mum commited suicide and how it's selfish to take your life because it ruins other proples lives and that if he really wanted help he should stop looking for help in the chatroom because it would be better to get real help from a counciler, but then he left, and everyone in the chat turned on me and said it was myfault and ive probably triggered a suicide and that im an idiot. I hate myself now and im shaking and i really feel like doing something bad to myself someone please help

I agree with everything you said and disagree with them
completely. And you are not the least bit responsible for w/e
that person does to himself - especially over what you said.
But it is completely understandable that you are shaken up
over this - I would be.

[thatgothgirluknow]

alex it wasnt ur fault and that wasnt what was ment by it im very sorry that u feel that way but this isnt a path u want to go down u need to find some how to get ur mind off it trust me i know that the conversation wasnt very good it triggered almost everyone of my triggers but u dont want to do this this isnt a one time thing and in the long run only makes things worse

[Soldier212]

Alex I have been in the same exact situation as you are in. I told someone the same thing (except the part of my mother committing suicide, because she is still alive *not trying to sound mean*), and what happened was that he still did so anyway, but there is one thing that I was told that put my mind at ease. Ik now thid=s might sound a little religious, but it is this, "Everyone has there own demons, some are just more violent then others". So please Alex, I don't want another one of my friends to die by there own hand, so please pm me ASAP.

[RunnerRunner]

Alex there are people who want to help you! I want to help you, I dont want to lose another friend, ive lost too many many differnet ways. Ive gone through many things, ive expeirenced many things before, I know how it feels to have a friend go, I nearly commited suicide like 2 times, reason why I didnt is that there are friends who care for me, and same with you we care for you!

[thatgothgirluknow]

alex i dont say this to be mean but ur mom probley felt the same way she probley thought that no one cared about her but people did u did and just like people cared about her they care about u to i know i do and i dont want to loose u

[deregisterme]

I went onto the chatroom to try and cheer myself up after a bad day, and some guy was posting about how he was going to kill himself. I said about how my mum commited suicide and how it's selfish to take your life because it ruins other proples lives and that if he really wanted help he should stop looking for help in the chatroom because it would be better to get real help from a counciler, but then he left, and everyone in the chat turned on me and said it was myfault and ive probably triggered a suicide and that im an idiot. I hate myself now and im shaking and i really feel like doing something bad to myself someone please help

and im not just looking for attention ive never felt like this before

Posts merged. Next time, please use the "Edit" button. ~Elysium

This was not your fault. You were trying to make that person see sense. Please don't hate yourself. Both you and the others have panicked by this person's reaction. It's not easy for people of our age to help in these situations. I hope the person in question gets the help they require. Any issues that they have will be sufficient, that not be negatively impacted by a few minutes in a chat room. I know it's been a bit tough for you, but don't let something that is outwith your control get to you. If you need to talk, PM me.

[Katiya]

None ofthis is your fault. You ccan't control other people or what they will or will not do. You trued yourbest to help and tthat's all we can do. :)

Ignore the other bs, its just that, bs.

The guy probably got fed up and left. I doubt he killed him self over a chat room. He could be a troll too. Idk I wasn't there

[Your Captain]

Don't worry, your in the right, he is in the wrong. just leave it, he probably hasn't done anything

[lovelylittlelies]

You didn't do anything wrong. They're way wrong to say you're doing something wrong. They're being insensitive. Stay strong.