What do u think ?

[DarkOmega]

am I seriously to ugly for any girl to like me ? I have been thinking this for a long time and I just don't know ..I feel stupid just asking this ,but I'm from Romania and there is not as hard to talk to girls .but here (I moved to Las Vegas 5 years ago) I find it harder to talk to them .. and it just feels like nobody will or likes me (not as a friend) and I always thought that I'm just 2 ugly .. I'm the type of person that will make somebody laugh .help anybody if I can .go out of my way to help somebody .and I'm nice and respect people that do are nice to me .I have had this on my mind for a long time and I just don't know if its true or not ..
it feels awkward to post this on a forum but I need some help..

[ksdnfkfr]

I think you are just feeling insecure - like most of us.
ppl just aren't as friendly here. I know a kid who came
here from Romania too and that's what he says.
And plz you're not ugly.

[MechaSniper]

First off you are not ugly. second I've been there. you want girls to like your personality not your bod. Relationships based on peoples looks never work.

[DarkOmega]

thx guys ..but I just always think about this and its getting so frustrating sometimes .. and girls liking me for my personality .. well that doesn't really happen here .

[MechaSniper]

Right, but looks don't last forever.

[DarkOmega]

Right, but looks don't last forever.

true .that's what I have always said .if u only go out for the looks . it will be really boring later I rather go out with someone that makes me laugh and happy ..

[ksdnfkfr]

idk why ppl in Vegas are so superficial - but they are
But I find it hard to believe no girls think you're attractive
plus a good personality. Are you sure the problem isn't on
your end in the way you feel about yourself?

[DarkOmega]

idk why ppl in Vegas are so superficial - but they are
But I find it hard to believe no girls think you're attractive
plus a good personality. Are you sure the problem isn't on
your end in the way you feel about yourself?

it might as well be . but I just can't think of my self of any good .. idk its just I have never been confident in myself . that is a part of the problem also . but what am I supposed to think ..

[Plasma]

it might as well be . but I just can't think of my self of any good .. idk its just I have never been confident in myself . that is a part of the problem also . but what am I supposed to think ..

Yeah, I've been super unconfident in myself and I've never had a girlfriend. Confidence goes a long way. I'm getting better though

[DarkOmega]

Yeah, I've been super unconfident in myself and I've never had a girlfriend. Confidence goes a long way. I'm getting better though

I have had girlfriends ..but not in Las Vegas .mostly in Romania .. I just never feel confident here ..

[ksdnfkfr]

it might as well be . but I just can't think of my self of any good .. idk its just I have never been confident in myself . that is a part of the problem also . but what am I supposed to think ..

Well just so you don't put the way you feel about yourself
on everyone else. But it sounds like you have a handle on
it at least to try working it out which can take a lot of time.

But you know I'm not liked - I'm small awkward and withdrawn and
no one really wants much to do with me cept my one friend - but
I keep working on it...

[DarkOmega]

Well just so you don't put the way you feel about yourself
on everyone else. But it sounds like you have a handle on
it at least to try working it out which can take a lot of time.

But you know I'm not liked - I'm small awkward and withdrawn and
no one really wants much to do with me cept my one friend - but
I keep working on it...

why wouldn't they . u seem really cool to hang out with :)

[Living For Love]

If you have had girlfriends before, then I'm sure you can get another one soon, you just need to be patient and wait for the right opportunity. Don't forget that you're a foreigner there, and perhaps girls probably want to date someone who also comes from there rather someone who comes from elsewhere.

[highschool]

maybe it's cause of the culture differences?

[outweighfeelings]

you're not ugly. Life is ****, girls like what other girls want, which is a massive bellend

Sorry but that is that's to it, some girls don't like decent guys, but complain there are no decent guys out there.

[HeyMrsTambourine]

Come on, you're not ugly at all!
I agree with Highschool, it's probably because of the culture differences. It may take some time to adapt, but please don't question your physique or personality. You're totally fine.

[Something Creative]

You're not ugly. And here's a hint: 99 % of girls care more about your personality than your looks. So just go out there and talk to someone, make friends. I'd probably say all this is due to cultural differences, so you should do your best to fit in.

[Blood]

am I seriously to ugly for any girl to like me ? I have been thinking this for a long time and I just don't know ..I feel stupid just asking this ,but I'm from Romania and there is not as hard to talk to girls .but here (I moved to Las Vegas 5 years ago) I find it harder to talk to them .. and it just feels like nobody will or likes me (not as a friend) and I always thought that I'm just 2 ugly .. I'm the type of person that will make somebody laugh .help anybody if I can .go out of my way to help somebody .and I'm nice and respect people that do are nice to me .I have had this on my mind for a long time and I just don't know if its true or not ..
it feels awkward to post this on a forum but I need some help..

I just looked at the picture you have on your profile and I can say with confidence that no, you are not too ugly. You're not ugly at all.

I know a girl who is so gorgeous, she's basically model material. However, she moved to Las Vegas about 2 years ago and she's constantly feeling like shit because "Las Vegas is full of beautiful people who outshine her." And when you think about it, it makes sense. Las Vegas is full of models and actors/actresses and rich people who pay thousands of dollars just to look beautiful by society's standards. But beauty isn't completely based on looks. It has just as much to do with personality.

So basically, you don't have much to worry about. If you want a confidence boost hit the gym 5 days out of the week. You'll stay in shape and feel good about yourself.

[ksdnfkfr]

why wouldn't they . u seem really cool to hang out with :)

And I think the same thing about you.

maybe it's cause of the culture differences?

That could be a big part of it - Vegas is a major melting pot
so ppl are not as friendly as if you were in a town where
everyone was from there going back a long ways. ppl are
really surprised when they find out my dad was born here.

[DarkOmega]

thx for the help

it might be due to cultural differences idk really I kinda do the same things they do .talk about mostly the same things .the only difference is that I'm used to going out anywhere I want to and anytime I want to in Romania and do what ever I like. here I'm stuck to talk to them at school .or go to a movie which most of the time u have to tell ur parents to drop u off cuz u can't do anything here without a car. so yeah it might be from cultural differences ..I'm gonna try to talk to somebody when I get the chance ..

[ksdnfkfr]

Yeah dude just keep trying. Barriers are meant to be knocked down.

[DarkOmega]

Yeah dude just keep trying. Barriers are meant to be knocked down.

yeah ,,but some , need help getting knocked down ,,I'll try the next time I have a chance .

[newkler]

no you're not ugly! you're very handsome. maybe its because of cultural differences yes

[ewht]

Well just so you don't put the way you feel about yourself
on everyone else. But it sounds like you have a handle on
it at least to try working it out which can take a lot of time.

But you know I'm not liked - I'm small awkward and withdrawn and
no one really wants much to do with me cept my one friend - but
I keep working on it...

Ezra, I totally understand how you are feeling. Only my best friend completely understands me.

[DarkOmega]

no you're not ugly! you're very handsome. maybe its because of cultural differences yes

thank you :) and yeah it might be ...

[DarkOmega]

thx for the help everybody . a mod can close the thread if they want to

[Zachary G]

you know, you are a very attractive guy and i am sure that you have an awesome personality and would make some girl a great boyfriend. look at it this way, the problem is not with you as much as it is with them, if they dont want to take the time to get to know the person you really are then its their loss, not yours. There is someone out there for you, so dont stress it. Find comfort in your friends and family and take pride in yourself and things will slow begin to happen for you when you least expect it. Really, have faith and it will come for you.

[DarkOmega]

you know, you are a very attractive guy and i am sure that you have an awesome personality and would make some girl a great boyfriend. look at it this way, the problem is not with you as much as it is with them, if they dont want to take the time to get to know the person you really are then its their loss, not yours. There is someone out there for you, so dont stress it. Find comfort in your friends and family and take pride in yourself and things will slow begin to happen for you when you least expect it. Really, have faith and it will come for you.

thanks a lot :) that made my day :P awesome sig too :D