Too Much?

[ganja planta]

I started dating this girl for a few months now and before we were together and had to do so much to date her. It was practically hell i went through but i still continued trying. After we started dating i started to see her flaws and areas of her which i didnt like. I am not sexually attracted to her as i would like to be. Lately i have been busy with alot of work so havent had time to see her in a while and am loosing interest. I notice other girls and become really attracted to them. Lately the problems started to pile up as she wants to commit suicide and it doesnt matter what i tell her she wont change her mind. I just dont want to get caught up in this suicide thing. She is also very insecure and constantly hinting to me that she thinks am cheating. Shes a little over weight and over eats and shes made this such a huge deal that she constantly talks about this and it lowers her self esteem. idk what i should do. I dont love her anymore. I feel like i have been dating her because i havent found another girl yet. My best friend constantly tells me that i need to breakup with her. We argue almost every other day. What do you think I should do? And is this too much for one person to handle?:cool:

[Living For Love]

From what you described, I think you definitely need to back off from her. You will eventually hurt yourself if you don't break up with her. Just remember this: whatever happens, you're not responsible for her suicide if she really commits it. You can only try to give her some advice, but try not to make her problems your problems as well.

[tom101]

I would leave her. If you dont love her or have no feels towards her then its best you give the chance to move on before you get more dragged in to deep.

[WeAreOneRepublic]

It is best to get out of it as soon as probably is possible. As much as it will hurt her it will hurt less than having a bf who doesn't love her and will hurt less for you. You are not responsible for anything she does to herself and you must remember that you are only a teenager and not a psychologist so do not get too deep in trying to help her(past experience).

Best of luck mate