Wheatley
December 25th, 2013, 05:24 PM
Hey,
This was originally a really long post but my phone died just before I hit send, so I've tried to slim it down this time.
So basically, I came out about 4 - 5 years ago. Got tormented by it for 3 years in which I completely excluded myself from society and the lasting effects of this is a verse y poor mental self image and major anxiety and social issues.
Even though people have matured now, I don't get hate from being bi, but I'm still considered as undesirable to be around. I can't seem to keep a conversation going with people from my old school, they'll say the bare minimum and then run off.
I'm at sixth form now where there are a lot of people from my old school and a few new people. My friendship group is made entirely of these new people. Point is, my issues make it hard to do anything.
It doesn't help that I have a really negative view of my physical self and social skills.
So, my question to you is:
1. How long ago did you come out?
2. How did people take it?
3. If badly, did it damage your self image or social skills?
4. If yes, how are/have you getting/got over it?
Thanks,
This was originally a really long post but my phone died just before I hit send, so I've tried to slim it down this time.
So basically, I came out about 4 - 5 years ago. Got tormented by it for 3 years in which I completely excluded myself from society and the lasting effects of this is a verse y poor mental self image and major anxiety and social issues.
Even though people have matured now, I don't get hate from being bi, but I'm still considered as undesirable to be around. I can't seem to keep a conversation going with people from my old school, they'll say the bare minimum and then run off.
I'm at sixth form now where there are a lot of people from my old school and a few new people. My friendship group is made entirely of these new people. Point is, my issues make it hard to do anything.
It doesn't help that I have a really negative view of my physical self and social skills.
So, my question to you is:
1. How long ago did you come out?
2. How did people take it?
3. If badly, did it damage your self image or social skills?
4. If yes, how are/have you getting/got over it?
Thanks,