"Stupid" problem?

[KylieKiss]

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[melissurr]

It's a very common thing here in England and I'm going to guess it is in the US. It's generally something you get from being in weird positions and then standing up straight over here. It's weird but normal but if you don't like it, tell her to stop. It's alright for a joke every once in a while but not as often as it seems.

[KylieKiss]

It's a very common thing here in England and I'm going to guess it is in the US. It's generally something you get from being in weird positions and then standing up straight over here. It's weird but normal but if you don't like it, tell her to stop. It's alright for a joke every once in a while but not as often as it seems.
Yes, it is in the US :/
I have already told her to stop but she hasn't. I agree when you say that you get it when you're in a "weird position" because every time I get one is like I'm asking for it right :D
The thing is that I don't feel close enough to ther to giver her one back, but it seems that she feels confident enough x)

[melissurr]

Yes, it is in the US :/
I have already told her to stop but she hasn't. I agree when you say that you get it when you're in a "weird position" because every time I get one is like I'm asking for it right :D
The thing is that I don't feel close enough to ther to giver her one back, but it seems that she feels confident enough x)

I say if you have told her to stop and she hasn't, tell her parents. You're new to the family and you already feel uncomfortable or, depending on what you want to do, just do it back. Or you could ask like it doesn't bother you or shout at her. Endless possibilities really. Try to get to know her a little more. She might listen to you and stop or you can get her back! :)

[KylieKiss]

I say if you have told her to stop and she hasn't, tell her parents. You're new to the family and you already feel uncomfortable or, depending on what you want to do, just do it back. Or you could ask like it doesn't bother you or shout at her. Endless possibilities really. Try to get to know her a little more. She might listen to you and stop or you can get her back! :)

But don't you think it would be embarrassing telling to her parents? I mean it is something I haven't told to anybody and I only did it here because I feel more comfortable writing.
I think I should talk to her seriously or start some revenge actions... (I don't find it that annoying to get mad but it can be funny xDD)

Thanks for the quick reply, we can talk via PM so we don't spam the thread.

[melissurr]

But don't you think it would be embarrassing telling to her parents? I mean it is something I haven't told to anybody and I only did it here because I feel more comfortable writing.
I think I should talk to her seriously or start some revenge actions... (I don't find it that annoying to get mad but it can be funny xDD)

Thanks for the quick reply, we can talk via PM so we don't spam the thread.

Well if you don't want to tell her parents just yet, then don't but getting her back for how she's making you feel sounds a lot better. As long as it is all good hearted fun it can help you two get a lot closer. :D

[Carson99]

It is common for boys too. Mostly young boys, immature boys. Once. if you never heard of a wedgie, it is funny. Again and again, it is either really mean or really ignorant. Is there an underlying problem with her, or are all her friends just stupid?

Talk to her "man-to-man" about it. If it continues, there are other problems with her and parents then need to get involved.

[KylieKiss]

It is common for boys too. Mostly young boys, immature boys. Once. if you never heard of a wedgie, it is funny. Again and again, it is either really mean or really ignorant. Is there an underlying problem with her, or are all her friends just stupid?

Talk to her "man-to-man" about it. If it continues, there are other problems with her and parents then need to get involved.

Acutally I think it is helping to our relationship and we are becoming closer to each other... but man sometimes it hurts lol I have talked about it with her, but she doesn't stop. I think I shold start with some revenge which would deffinelty help to our relationship... and who knows, maybe she will stop. If she doesn't, as you said, I should have with her a more serious talk.

[Saint]

It's very common,and it honestly just sounds like your friend really likes to mess around,which might be a good or bad thing depending on how you're feeling at the current situation :P. You should (in my opinion) just like you said,find something that might annoy her and just be silly really. It's all probably in good fun :)

[XjojosX]

Well me andm y friend was doing the same in the past but we have stop ( we have found other silly things ;P to annoy each other ) . I think she is doing it to make you feel ok and not be nervous but it will be good way to sit and talk to her how you feel and that you kinda feel bad for doing htat in front of her friends and that yo uare kinda new to the whole thing ... my opinion :)

[KylieKiss]

Well me andm y friend was doing the same in the past but we have stop ( we have found other silly things ;P to annoy each other ) . I think she is doing it to make you feel ok and not be nervous but it will be good way to sit and talk to her how you feel and that you kinda feel bad for doing htat in front of her friends and that yo uare kinda new to the whole thing ... my opinion :)

As I see it's quite common so I won't give it too much importance... actually I have started with some revenge actions and she's okay so everything okay haha

[XjojosX]

As I see it's quite common so I won't give it too much importance... actually I have started with some revenge actions and she's okay so everything okay haha

good to hear that ;) welll life is to learn and experiment ;) isnt it? :p

[KylieKiss]

good to hear that ;) welll life is to learn and experiment ;) isnt it? :p
Haha yeah but I want to experiment cooler things xD

[XjojosX]

Haha yeah but I want to experiment cooler things xD

like ? ;) * come and sit next o you* i would like to ehat what yo uwant to experiment ;)