Question

[Seahawks15]

I was wondering what girls like about guys.I have had some bad relationships.My exs kept telling me that I wasn't good enough for them.I have a birth defect called Spina Bifida.I cannot walk due to it.I use a wheelchair for mobility issues.Were they discriminating me?

[melissurr]

It depends on the girl really, I had a friend with this condition and he had his girlfriend for a very long time before he had to move away. You are only young though, so don't worry about it too much.

[Seahawks15]

They would ask me out and then we would date for only a day or two.And then people tell me that they dumped me for another guy and then they would go out for a couple weeks and break up and she would come running back to me.I got very irritated with this.

[melissurr]

It happens, relationships at our age are about finding yourself and what you want and don't want. The more you worry about it, the more 'desperate' you will seem, well to me that is. Just chill out and enjoy your teenage years, worry about relationships in a few years and those girls won't bother you in a few years time.

[Seahawks15]

Okay thanks

[Synyster Shadows]

Yes, I totally agree with Melissa. Just chill out, enjoy your time as a teen, and then worry about the girls later on. You'll find a good girlfriend in time.

[Seahawks15]

I started dating in third grade.I know I was very young!!

[scott757]

It sounds just like silly messing about that some girls around your age do.

As to what girls like about guys, well, I have a lot of friends who are girls, and most (surprisingly) said to me personality. (Then again I'm 17 so they may be more mature in their attitudes (not saying that you are immaute at all)). Ofcourse there is the other looks-related things too, but I think most seem more bothered about a guy... then his looks :P