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WeAreOneRepublic
December 23rd, 2013, 09:30 AM
Started dating a girl and now shit is getting complicated. I am almost certain that I want to end it(not set in stone) because looking ahead things may become complicated and completely awkward. She is 2 years older than me, I work with her, I see her almost every weekend and my parents invited her on our holiday(they have given me the final decision of whether she can come). We were getting close and the kiss I made on sunday sort of made it official(goddamn hormones why do you make things seem so right). I want to end it within the next day(yet again, not a definite) otherwise it may get worse and end a lot worse. She was texting me before and she wanted to organize something for tomorrow but I don't want to lead her on(I said I would get back to her tomorrow)
Please, any sort of help, advice on how to deal and also the ending it part.
Blood
December 23rd, 2013, 12:16 PM
Well I think you need to figure out what you want to do. You say you want to end it within the next day and in the same sentence say you're not completely sure.
Maybe you should just take a step back and think about this relationship before you make any hasty decisions. And then, If you still really want to end it with her, go for it. But you need to have a reason to give her when she asks why. You owe her that much.
Synyster Shadows
December 24th, 2013, 08:13 AM
Well I think you need to figure out what you want to do. You say you want to end it within the next day and in the same sentence say you're not completely sure.
Maybe you should just take a step back and think about this relationship before you make any hasty decisions. And then, If you still really want to end it with her, go for it. But you need to have a reason to give her when she asks why. You owe her that much.
I agree with Jess. You need to sort out your feelings first. Do you really, truly like this girl? If so, go out with her. If not, tell her you think it's best to break up and, more importantly, explain why
scott757
December 25th, 2013, 08:38 PM
What are you meaning by "shit is getting complicated"? Sounds like you just don't want to sign up for the commitment of being with someone
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