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The_Alpha
December 23rd, 2013, 08:40 AM
I myself am open to my friends (mainly female, girls are proven to be be more emotionally sensitive. Keep that in mind if you want to cry on a shoulder ;) ).
I find that if people were more open about it life would be so much easier, do you think people should be more open?

Thanks guys! :D

Ferret_12
December 23rd, 2013, 08:43 AM
I am open about it, of course depending on the person, just like you, there isn't anything wrong with that :D It is a natural thing, the more open you are about it, the more comfortable you will be.

Swagging god
December 23rd, 2013, 10:06 AM
I am open about it, of course depending on the person, just like you, there isn't anything wrong with that :D It is a natural thing, the more open you are about it, the more comfortable you will be.

I am open to anyone who asks expect living at home my parents I didn't discuss my sex life, except from time to time as I went from 18 to 19 she would ask me sometimes if I was gay ( no offense), I'm not I'm more straight with a bi side.

Taryn98
December 23rd, 2013, 10:20 AM
I'm open about pretty much everything, sex included. There's no point in having secrets.

anyone50
December 23rd, 2013, 10:55 AM
I'm fairly open now but that wasn't true a couple years ago I was terrified when I was 13 if anyone would found out I was bisexual

TheFSM
December 23rd, 2013, 08:12 PM
I keep mine on the DL for their sake. Most of my friends are very innocent. As for the second part, yes, it would make things a whole lot easier.

hockeyfan
December 23rd, 2013, 10:12 PM
I agree. I'm open with friends, not parents. (I'm a virgin so I speak about masturbating)

Aleks96
December 23rd, 2013, 10:16 PM
I'm open with friends, not so much with my parents.

Aleks96
December 23rd, 2013, 10:17 PM
I'm open with friends, not so much with my parents.

Alexx99
December 23rd, 2013, 10:22 PM
I'm pretty open to everyone except my parents about it. I talk to my bro and most of my friends about it all the time.

nrob1993
December 23rd, 2013, 10:25 PM
I'm pretty open to everyone except my parents about it. I talk to my bro and most of my friends about it all the time.

do you tell your brother a lot of details about it?

Alexx99
December 23rd, 2013, 10:44 PM
do you tell your brother a lot of details about it?

No, well not too much anyway. He usually just gets annoyed with me when I tell him about it lol.

nrob1993
December 23rd, 2013, 10:46 PM
No, well not too much anyway. He usually just gets annoyed with me when I tell him about it lol.

is he jealous?...lol

Alexx99
December 23rd, 2013, 10:52 PM
is he jealous?...lol

Idk, probably lol.

The_Alpha
December 24th, 2013, 12:05 AM
The thing I find is that because some people don't talk about it they miss some of the ideas involving sex, if sex wasn't such a taboo topic (which is ridiculous if you ask me) then a lot more people would know the how's and why's and less accidents would happen and therefore more people would be happy satisfied and sexed ^_^

dreamofdante
December 24th, 2013, 12:07 AM
There's nothing worth discussing, but nothing to hide.

SkootuGurl
December 24th, 2013, 01:44 PM
Ive always been very open about my sex life

Ricky.h
December 24th, 2013, 05:44 PM
I'm very open with my sex life, but I wouldn't bring it up out of nowhere ! Just if anyone as in friends or family has a question or whatever I'll answer it

Gopher
December 24th, 2013, 05:49 PM
Im very open with it, ive got experiences and if others want to hear of them im happy to share, happy to talk to people here or other places lol.

jessicaann
December 28th, 2013, 10:11 AM
If I'm close enough to someone for the subject to come up, I'm open but try to be polite in how I express things. If you're not open you'll never know why someone is interested or asking. A conversation can be the best path to something more

Franchise1107
January 10th, 2014, 12:45 AM
I'm very open about it. It's fun to find out other people's habits and what they do for fun. Maybe even helping eachother at times with it ;)

hoboliz
January 10th, 2014, 12:53 AM
It's more fun to be open about it. And there's no sense in lying about it. I'll ignore questions from people I think are just asking for sexy story though.

AlexOnToast
January 10th, 2014, 08:02 AM
Very open :) but im open about everything, so its no surprise XD

Green Arrow
January 10th, 2014, 08:06 AM
To my close close close close friends I'm quite open, because I can trust them with anything and they wont judge me for anything I do. :)

Hollywood
January 10th, 2014, 05:21 PM
I'm not very open about anything, that applies to sexual things as well. Though if a close friend asked me something, I probably wouldn't mind.

Evaboo
January 10th, 2014, 05:35 PM
I am super open about it to everyone.....idk...it's just my personality....

Daniella98
January 13th, 2014, 01:07 PM
Im pretty open about my sex life. There is nothing to be ashamed of and everybody has somekind of a sexlife... I hope

Fdmember
January 13th, 2014, 07:21 PM
I agree. I'm open with friends, not parents. (I'm a virgin so I speak about masturbating)

same

kinger
January 13th, 2014, 07:34 PM
im very open about it with my best friend and on here but other than that i dont really talk about it

Everyusernameistaken
January 13th, 2014, 08:47 PM
Scale of 1-10 11.

XxPipezillaxX
January 13th, 2014, 09:00 PM
I'm pretty open ask me any question and I'll normally answer it no problem

XZoDiaCX
January 13th, 2014, 09:53 PM
I am open with my sex life bt idont talk about it with my parents

CostumerServiceGuy
January 14th, 2014, 05:02 PM
I am always very open. I'm a bisexual man with a girlfriend at the moment who is interested in boys 2.

CostumerServiceGuy
January 14th, 2014, 05:02 PM
I am always very open. I'm a bisexual man with a girlfriend at the moment who is interested in boys 2.

Well, im not a man , i am 13 lol

NotShortButFunsized
January 15th, 2014, 01:09 AM
i only have one person other than whoever im dating who i can be completely open and trusting with it about (who i actually know, that is)

other than that, im on VT, arent i? lol


sidenote...100 posts! :D

ugaboy
January 15th, 2014, 05:18 PM
With parents like a 0. Most friends maybe a 5-6. With one friend 10.

Forsakenbymyself
January 16th, 2014, 10:17 AM
I'm very open about it....but people around me are not, really.
Even people that have declared themselves as "open-minded", are actually very narrow compared to me....

connorftw
January 17th, 2014, 03:14 AM
If i had a sex life i would be a closed book. only 2 people i can think of that i would trust talking to about it. my best friend and my older brother

Lisa12
January 17th, 2014, 07:36 PM
very open

jayjay's toocool
January 17th, 2014, 07:49 PM
In like to be be open to everyone so yeah if you ask me ill give you an answer

JollyToes
January 18th, 2014, 04:45 AM
I'm w taryn. There is no point to have secrets.

Catholic Guy
January 18th, 2014, 05:54 AM
I am very open, I have nothing to hide and if I am open then I find other people are very open as well, there are some people I'm not open with, family and family friends but otherwise most people

Shailene
January 19th, 2014, 07:26 PM
pretty open - but more so with girls of course. Talk to a guy about giving a bj and everyone in school is going to know lol

dusman77
January 19th, 2014, 07:28 PM
I'd be extremely open and honest about it, you know, if I had one. XD

grossgod11
January 20th, 2014, 10:35 PM
I think sexual things are intimate and should be kept behind closed doors and between one and other but talking about it can be fun, its different though over this compared to talking to people in real life, I'm shy and don't like bragging about sexual stuff.

KellyNC
January 20th, 2014, 10:56 PM
Mine is mostly kind of private, at least to most other's in real life. Partially because I find it to be a bit more personal thing, but also because most of experiences are with someone I try to keep it on the down low with.

jessi_s
January 23rd, 2014, 01:05 PM
Very open, excluding people full of prejudice, misconception, jelousy and pettiness

Zachary G
January 23rd, 2014, 02:11 PM
I am pretty open about my sex life to my closest friends, but not my parents. I find being open about it takes a lot of the stress off of me and gives me clarity on some of the decisions that I might make about it. Plus it helps to have someone to talk to when I am really not sure about stuff.

boarder67
May 5th, 2014, 03:53 PM
Only discuss it with close friends

Living For Love
May 5th, 2014, 04:22 PM
Please don't bump old threads. :locked: