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lifelies
December 23rd, 2013, 05:57 AM
Hihi.
I'm 15 and never had a girlfriend. I've had crushes but never been in love (i'm borderline so I'm scared of relationships) until now. There's that girl I know since we were like 3, we were really good friends and we used to say we were going to marry when we were 6. Damn, we even made out once when we were 8 - we were in the music school and we were giggling a lot so we were suspended for a day and we were laughing so bad and I just kissed here.
Then we stopped talking, I guess I was another asshole who just went away from girls because society says you can't have girl friends lol.
Recently we started talking again, we both play the piano and are... weird, hipster, etc. She has Crohn's disease and she told me, I want to tell her that I self harm because I suspect she does too.
I like her... a lot. I never felt like this with any other girl. I think she likes me too.
She's on a trip until Thursday, somehow we decided to go shopping together when she comes back, and she's gonna come with me to the piercer's when I get snakebites.
We have similar taste in music and so (we're the only people I know who likes both classical music and LanaDelRey, NSN, etc.).

What should I do? I guess the shopping and piercing is like... a date. But we haven't talked that much, maybe it's too early to do anything?
Should I tell her? If so, how?
I mean... I need her, I really do. I'm not even worrying about the future and how bad will it be when we split up, I just need her. :confused:

Miserabilia
December 23rd, 2013, 06:46 AM
Well it sounds like she is perfect for you so... I don't know just go for it?

Seemyheart
December 23rd, 2013, 07:13 AM
Wow, that sounds really intense. I say you should tell her how you feel, tell her exactly what you just told us. How you need her, etc. That's really heart warming. If things don't work out, at least you tried. I really don't think it's "too early", because like you said, you've known eachother since you were 3.
I wish you the best of luck:)

HeyMrsTambourine
December 23rd, 2013, 09:22 AM
You should go for it! I mean, when a friendship-relationship is as strong as yours, and when it brings you so much things, there are great chances you're meant to be together. You say you do need her... it's awesome to feel this way! You can't miss it!

Synyster Shadows
December 23rd, 2013, 09:38 AM
Wow, that sounds really intense. I say you should tell her how you feel, tell her exactly what you just told us. How you need her, etc. That's really heart warming. If things don't work out, at least you tried. I really don't think it's "too early", because like you said, you've known eachother since you were 3.
I wish you the best of luck:)

I agree with ^this. I know exactly how you feel as it's how I feel about my girlfriend. I know the feeling of needing someone that much. Just tell this girl exactly what you told us and see what happens. Good luck, dude. :)

lifelies
January 1st, 2014, 03:03 PM
bump bump
We still haven't gone shopping and I'm freaking out.
Should I tell her just "I love you" and so on?

Unsubscribed
January 1st, 2014, 03:45 PM
I'd let things all fall in place whenever they're ready. In other words, if you really like her this much, wait a while, and slowly show affection and give hints here and there. And then hopefully she'll start to realize you really like her, and then you can just come out and say you like her. A lot. Maybe it'll all work out.

newkler
January 1st, 2014, 07:07 PM
tell her how you feel :)

ksdnfkfr
January 1st, 2014, 07:27 PM
bump bump
We still haven't gone shopping and I'm freaking out.
Should I tell her just "I love you" and so on?

You two sound like a totally perfect match. Forget about strategy. Just be straight up with her.

Tdaykin877
January 4th, 2014, 03:33 PM
She probably likes you aswell, worth telling her

EmmaJane
January 4th, 2014, 05:53 PM
I agree tell her how you feel before it's too late c: