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Polo2847
December 23rd, 2013, 03:20 AM
So I have a friend that I knew since freshman year, I'm a senior now in highschool. She's always seem to like to sit next to me and lean on me. She came back from Basic Training for 2 weeks before she goes back for AIT, and she said maybe we should go on a date...but idk if it's like a 1ns, or a longterm relationship? I can't tell if she just wants to go out for one night, or start a relationship...I'm not good at reading this type of body language.

Her previous boyfriend in freshman year was supposed to be her 1ns, but it turned out to be a relationship that deteriorated (love, hate, back and forth) by the start of my senior year (she's already graduated, 1 year ahead of me). The guy fell in love with her.

Idk if I want to be in a longterm relationship, but I've never dated before either. All this is kinda nerve-wracking to me. I don't really know what the full definition of "date" means either. Can someone help me?

Harley Quinn
December 23rd, 2013, 08:21 AM
P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating.

WeAreOneRepublic
December 23rd, 2013, 09:09 AM
A date does not necessarily mean you are dating. You can go on this and see how it pans out or leave it for somebody else.

Myxox
December 25th, 2013, 09:15 PM
You'll know once you go out whether it's just a date or if there's a spark for more.