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SkiJoey99
December 23rd, 2013, 12:01 AM
So I'm not really planning on doing this anytime soon, but imagine you are in a situation alone with a male friend, like say you're sleeping over or skinny dipping or something. How would you react if he asked to touch your penis? Would you react any differently if instead he asked you to touch his? Which one would you rather have him ask? Also say if you're gay or straight.

hockeyfan
December 23rd, 2013, 12:03 AM
I'm str8. I would probably experiment. I would want to touch him first.

CRH777
December 23rd, 2013, 12:05 AM
So I'm not really planning on doing this anytime soon, but imagine you are in a situation alone with a male friend, like say you're sleeping over or skinny dipping or something. How would you react if he asked to touch your penis? Would you react any differently if instead he asked you to touch his? Which one would you rather have him ask? Also say if you're gay or straight.

I would do the same as the post above me. I'm also str8.

tom17
December 23rd, 2013, 12:09 AM
I'd probably go for it. Why not? There's nothing wrong on touching and being touched, lol.

Curious24
December 23rd, 2013, 12:11 AM
I would let him touch it. Maybe he is curious in others.

sixguy6
December 23rd, 2013, 12:23 AM
I would be like go ahead and touch him back and I would be like sure and touch his dick if he asked me to and I prefer him ask me any one he wants lol and im bi

ATOMICskittles
December 23rd, 2013, 01:12 AM
So I'm not really planning on doing this anytime soon, but imagine you are in a situation alone with a male friend, like say you're sleeping over or skinny dipping or something. How would you react if he asked to touch your penis? Would you react any differently if instead he asked you to touch his? Which one would you rather have him ask? Also say if you're gay or straight.
I'm gay and definitely. If he asked either one of those question than yes, totally up for experimenting...

McAwesome6934
December 23rd, 2013, 01:39 AM
I would definiley do it, I would go as far as penetrating him, but I wouldn't let him penetrate...

devon14
December 23rd, 2013, 02:43 AM
So I'm not really planning on doing this anytime soon, but imagine you are in a situation alone with a male friend, like say you're sleeping over or skinny dipping or something. How would you react if he asked to touch your penis? Would you react any differently if instead he asked you to touch his? Which one would you rather have him ask? Also say if you're gay or straight.

I would let him touch me first, then I think I might try touch his. I'm straight (but obviously a little curious :cool:)

Living For Love
December 23rd, 2013, 07:43 AM
I would ask him why did he touch my penis, and then if he wanted to experimente, I think I would go for it (Straight-curious).

Loca
December 23rd, 2013, 07:46 AM
Playtime!

Gifford
December 28th, 2013, 07:27 AM
i'm bi/gay, and I'd definitely go for it. I'd rather touch his first, but since he did the asking, I'd let him. I'd ask him if he wanted to put his mouth on it and I'd offer the same. Anywhere it lead, I'd do it.

I'm just a sex-crazed horn-dog! ;D

Willweston
December 28th, 2013, 07:29 AM
I'm str8. I would probably experiment. I would want to touch him first.

Me too :)

Holdens
December 28th, 2013, 08:48 AM
I'm str8. I would probably experiment. I would want to touch him first.

pjones
December 28th, 2013, 10:11 AM
straight. wouldn't care which question he asked i'd make sure we touched each other before we were done

KoolKid96
December 28th, 2013, 12:03 PM
I would let him touch me first, then I think I might try touch his. I'm straight (but obviously a little curious :cool:)

Second

AlexOnToast
December 28th, 2013, 12:14 PM
Well i'm gay, but if he tried to touch me without explanation, i would be a little weirded out... but if he just wanted to see what it was like to touch another guys penis, then i would probly let him

ksdnfkfr
December 28th, 2013, 12:27 PM
I'm bi and already do that stuff with my friend.
But hypothetically I would let him touch if he asked
and I would rather he ask to touch me than me to touch him.

sqishy
December 28th, 2013, 12:32 PM
Ask if he was gay/bi etc , if he likes me, see where things go from there.

Forsakenbymyself
December 28th, 2013, 04:44 PM
Depends on the person.

Catholic Guy
December 28th, 2013, 06:36 PM
Straight and I would be cool with it, I wouldn't mind which one he asked

ryanpeterson832
December 28th, 2013, 06:38 PM
I'd be fine with either scenario.

ska8er
December 28th, 2013, 06:46 PM
id enjoy either one-im bi.

casperathome
December 28th, 2013, 07:01 PM
Seems my bi friends who I have experimented with it always started out with just talking about puberty and then showing each other and then it went to experimenting. Never seemed to be a big deal. If you are close enough to openly talk about puberty and jerking off, I'd say you are both curious and want to see/look at each other. I don't mind showing or looking LOL.

That's the Spirit
December 28th, 2013, 07:32 PM
I wouldn't if he was my friend because I wouldn't want to ruin the relationship (it could).

Your Captain
December 28th, 2013, 07:43 PM
It depends who he was. If it was "the right guy" then yesnto both situations. I'd rather have him touch mine

Straight but curious

dontfiguremeout
December 28th, 2013, 10:11 PM
I would be a bit freaked out. He doesn't need to be touching me. I'm chill with hanging out naked, but touching, no!

mww113
December 28th, 2013, 10:24 PM
I'm gay so I think I would rather enjoy being in that situation :P

Lyric
December 28th, 2013, 11:14 PM
Straight, both. :P

Jtyler
December 28th, 2013, 11:44 PM
Well this happen to me before and I let my friend cuz we have known eachother for ever and we just went on with out lives

lacheyman
December 29th, 2013, 07:23 AM
ok i am straight and curious. if that happened id touch his and he can touch myne but id rahter he ask me because i dont want to have to go through all the awkwardness incase he says no

ddbumblebee
December 29th, 2013, 07:47 AM
I'm str8 and for me it would depend on the friend and the situation specifically...but I'm up for mucking around all the time...I wouldn't blow him or go any further than that though.

Were
December 29th, 2013, 11:31 AM
Am straight but i'd rather he touched me

RavleIncarnate
December 29th, 2013, 04:23 PM
If he's a good friend or my nephew, why not? Its just some horny guy who wants to experiment. If I barely know him or we just became friends, it depends on wether r not I'm horny enough. I'm straight, and I may be differing levels of horny, but in my phase of puberty, I'm always horny at least to some extent.

Heyman
December 30th, 2013, 05:22 AM
Would do it first. If he asked, if he does it first, he could think that you are gay

Hermes
January 2nd, 2014, 05:58 AM
It has already happened. I am in a relationship with a girl at the moment so can't really do it again but if I were not I'd prefer he ask to touch me first as that is more likely to lead to reciprocation.

Ask if he was gay/bi etc , if he likes me, see where things go from there.

Interestingly I would not care what his orientation was. As someone who is at the straighter end of the Kinsey scale I would not be looking for this to be a lead-in to a relationship but just some fun.

Thomas01
January 2nd, 2014, 06:09 AM
Gay - umm idk it's hard.

Instead of asking tbh, just "accidently" doing it would be less awkward though not at all sensible and acceptable.

Idk but I guess Asking to touch their's

casperathome
January 2nd, 2014, 12:12 PM
I have experienced both situations. Mostly tho I was the one to ask first. I have only done this with friends who I am close to and have already had lot's of conversations about our personal stuff. (like getting boners, pubic hair jerking off etc) I think I have been pretty dead on about who I think would like to touch and be touched. When you are curious and they are curious you tend to talk a lot about sex stuff. Also when you are changing in front of each other and you steal a glance or try to show off your junk and they look.. then I think you can judge HOW curious they are. (I have never been shy about showing my junk to my friends) The ones that go "eeww dude..I don't wanna' see your junk" I rule out as being someone to j/o with. The one's that are cool about it and look a little bit longer and/or make a comment about it seem to be as curious as me.

So to answer you question. I think it depends on every situation and how curious and secure you are with individual friends. Just coming out and asking or being asked usually has something leading up to the point when the question would come up. If anything is ever going to happen, one or the other has to initiate it.

Be young and have fun.

jcs5943
January 2nd, 2014, 12:19 PM
So I'm not really planning on doing this anytime soon, but imagine you are in a situation alone with a male friend, like say you're sleeping over or skinny dipping or something. How would you react if he asked to touch your penis? Would you react any differently if instead he asked you to touch his? Which one would you rather have him ask? Also say if you're gay or straight.
Is he gay/bi?

SouthGeorgiaTeen
January 2nd, 2014, 03:39 PM
I would act like nothing happened if he didn't want me to know that he touched me, but if he grabbed it as in which he wanted me to know i would tell him to stop. I'm straight

Forsakenbymyself
January 2nd, 2014, 03:54 PM
I'd rather have him ask, but it really depends on the person. I'm bi (?) .

georgeishungry
January 2nd, 2014, 04:47 PM
I'm straight, but I would be up for it, in the name of experimenting...you know?

Tdaykin877
January 2nd, 2014, 07:18 PM
If I could touch his then yeh

Jtyler
January 3rd, 2014, 12:20 AM
I'm str8 , and my friend has asked and I just let him didn't really have a problem with it

Bradley 97
January 3rd, 2014, 11:03 AM
I like males so deffenetally lol but to guys that don't know im into them id love for them to ask cause sometimes I can get nervous asking

Pete_Dude
January 3rd, 2014, 03:19 PM
I have experienced both situations. Mostly tho I was the one to ask first. I have only done this with friends who I am close to and have already had lot's of conversations about our personal stuff. (like getting boners, pubic hair jerking off etc) I think I have been pretty dead on about who I think would like to touch and be touched. When you are curious and they are curious you tend to talk a lot about sex stuff. Also when you are changing in front of each other and you steal a glance or try to show off your junk and they look.. then I think you can judge HOW curious they are. (I have never been shy about showing my junk to my friends) The ones that go "eeww dude..I don't wanna' see your junk" I rule out as being someone to j/o with. The one's that are cool about it and look a little bit longer and/or make a comment about it seem to be as curious as me.

So to answer you question. I think it depends on every situation and how curious and secure you are with individual friends. Just coming out and asking or being asked usually has something leading up to the point when the question would come up. If anything is ever going to happen, one or the other has to initiate it.

Be young and have fun.

Perfect answer dude! :yes:

Liven
January 3rd, 2014, 08:48 PM
If I were in that situation, I would allow him to touch me if I can touch him. I am straight.

kinger
January 7th, 2014, 06:24 PM
Im straight and i have touches my best buds penis and he has touched mine, and i dont even think he asked the first time i think he just grabbed it lol.

mrmee
January 7th, 2014, 07:14 PM
If it was one of my close friends, I would. Wouldn't really matter what order it happens in either. Btw, I'm straight

Waleedbt
January 7th, 2014, 08:34 PM
I'm straight, but happened to me, well.. i was in class and this friend told me to touch a "pencil" that was outlined on his pants, i did , trust me i was young.
This friend hasn't stopped since then .. been around 5-6 years now, and he is very straight.

Edit ( more info i missed answering ) - He refuses to touch mine, but touches other stuff.

Darksoul13
January 7th, 2014, 08:57 PM
It would depend on the person. If he's a good friend then i'd go ahead and let him but i'd want to touch him first. Also i'm str8 curious.

jackthorpe
January 7th, 2014, 09:18 PM
straight and i would be a little uncomfortable but id just respectfully decline and go back to what ever we were doing before

Joseph69
January 8th, 2014, 05:56 PM
I'd like it because being gay, I quite like penises :P

If I was straight, I don't think I'd like a male friend asking to touch my penis, although if we were good friends I may let him. If he asked me to touch his, I'd probably say no, but be kind of curious.

baseballer98
January 8th, 2014, 06:00 PM
Uhhh idk lol. I'm straight

I mean I guess? I guess if it doesn't hurt to just touch it for a second then w/e

LoveDat
January 8th, 2014, 06:13 PM
I would want him to ask either question lol I'm curious so I'd do it! ;) but of course it would depend on the person haha wouldn't just touch some guy :P

islandguy06
January 8th, 2014, 10:31 PM
Even though I'm straight, I wouldn't be so shoked, depending on who it was of course.

daniel 2014
January 9th, 2014, 12:19 AM
I'm str8. Maybe if he asked to touch mine... I would feel weird touching his... unless maybe if he had already touched mine... maybe, maybe. I have no idea what I would do in the acctual situation... I would probably say ok too what ever he said (other wise it would be more awkward if I said no) but it depends on the person...

From Chris
January 9th, 2014, 10:01 PM
So I'm not really planning on doing this anytime soon, but imagine you are in a situation alone with a male friend, like say you're sleeping over or skinny dipping or something. How would you react if he asked to touch your penis? Would you react any differently if instead he asked you to touch his? Which one would you rather have him ask? Also say if you're gay or straight.

Personally, being gay, i wouldn't mind him touching mine. It's not like it would mean anything romantic is going on between us. I would be fine touching his too, i would rather him ask though because i don't really go and ask someone that type of question... :)

-From Chris

Canadian Dream
January 10th, 2014, 12:07 AM
I'm straight, and I wouldn't really care for both, although I would prefer him asking to touch his dick.

loki2000
January 10th, 2014, 11:55 AM
If it was a friend that i was curious about..I`d like him to touch me...I`m gay..so i would not mind. Also i would like to touch him as well.

Liam TWB
January 10th, 2014, 01:49 PM
Depends totally on who it is, but as I'm bi i probably would be saying yes to most of my friends. If they want to do more than hold it, that's fine too :P

MTB1997
February 9th, 2014, 03:58 PM
Depending on the friend I may say yes! I'm S/C

Collins1
February 9th, 2014, 06:51 PM
I would probably let him and then experiment with him

Zachary G
February 13th, 2014, 03:07 PM
i am gay and would definitely touch him if he asked me to and if he wanted to touch me, i would be okay with that too -- its a normal thing to be curious about your friends

Remora
February 13th, 2014, 03:12 PM
i am gay and would definitely touch him if he asked me to and if he wanted to touch me, i would be okay with that too -- its a normal thing to be curious about your friends

That's right. After i touched his he instantly asked me to jack him off and i was grossed out but did it anyways as i didn't want to disappoint him.

Ben101
February 13th, 2014, 04:15 PM
I would probably go for it! But only if i was comfortable.

squares
February 13th, 2014, 05:02 PM
I'd say no and if he tried to I'd punch him. I'm straight.

Philleeep
February 13th, 2014, 05:09 PM
I'd probably go for it. Why not? There's nothing wrong on touching and being touched, lol.

Iguess I agree with this. If I ever was in a situation like this though.

Jeonard
February 13th, 2014, 06:25 PM
I'm straight and if we were both up for it then I would

Hermes
February 15th, 2014, 06:02 AM
For me this has already happenned. I said yes and we ended up wanking each other off which I thoroughly enjoyed and, if I didn't have the girlfriend I now do have, I'd happily do it again. Of the two I'd rather he ask to touch me first as it seem more likely to be reciprocal that way rather than him just using me to get off.

I dont find labels particularly useful. Straight-curious seems a popular choice here. What that amounts to for me is that emotionally I am attracted to girls - that is the relationshiop I want, and have, and as far as full sex is concerned that is also what I want, have done and continue to do. On the other hand I think wanking with other guys is fun, including doing each other and I don't see that as just a phase - I know I'd happily do it again if my current relationship ended.

I think you have to view labels as descriptive, not prescriptive. There is no point in thinking "I can't do such and such because I'm straight". You are what you are and it may not be as simple as 100% straight or 100% gay.

mychalo
February 15th, 2014, 11:36 AM
I have done this with a couple of friends in the pool, we weren't skinny dipping, just lowered our swim suits a little. It was fun and I wish we could do it again.

joshylandon
February 15th, 2014, 01:31 PM
I wouldn't mind if he ask to touch me. If he is a close friend of mine then I would say yes for sure. Same if he ask me to touch him. I would prefer him to touch me because I like getting pleasure lol I am straight curious by the way.

JamesSC
February 15th, 2014, 03:21 PM
I'm Bi. I'd want him to touch me first.

backjruton
February 15th, 2014, 03:49 PM
I'd touch his, let him touch mine and let it go a lot further from there... :p

JamesSC
February 15th, 2014, 03:54 PM
If he asked me to touch his, I would...

Ethe14
February 15th, 2014, 04:26 PM
I would rather have him ask, I'm not the type of person that would ask a question like that. I wouldn't care if he touched mine or I touched his. I'm bi btw.

PizzaKing
February 15th, 2014, 04:57 PM
I don't think its a big deal, I'd say its cool with me.

Brown13
February 15th, 2014, 05:38 PM
Bi boy qnd would be so happy with either since everyone today everyone is "straight"

maddogmj77
February 16th, 2014, 12:35 AM
I would probably say yes either way.

lacheyman
February 16th, 2014, 12:37 AM
id let him touch myne first then i would grab his why he grabs myne.

Jay98
February 16th, 2014, 01:54 AM
Im straight/bi curious, but i do have a couple of friends i masturbate with regularly and my one buddy did just ask. We were watching a porn and masturbating and he asked to feel my dick, so i let him then i felt his. As long as you are comfortable with it go for it amd have some fun.

Fanta_Lover44
February 16th, 2014, 01:55 AM
I would fully go for it, I would see if hes gay or bi first though.

Zzz--
February 16th, 2014, 01:57 AM
I'm Straight and I would probably let him and do it back but just to experiment

Jakie23
February 16th, 2014, 04:24 AM
See i think I'd let him touch me first. I think it would be weird for me to touch another guys penis even though I'm gay

Sean4U
February 16th, 2014, 04:17 PM
Well i'm gay, but if he tried to touch me without explanation, i would be a little weirded out... but if he just wanted to see what it was like to touch another guys penis, then i would probly let him

I too am gay but Alex hit it right on the head....if he asks fine, but i would want the question....and personally I wouldn't touch another guy unless either he or I asked....nothing wrong with it at all, part of puberty to be curious about everything, including what another penis feels like....but YOU have to make up YOUR mind ...whatever we all say still comes down to YOU being comfortable with your decision

noplanhere9
February 17th, 2014, 11:01 PM
Ive kind of had this happen to me. At first I was really freaked out but the next day I decided why not

awesomeness14
February 17th, 2014, 11:05 PM
I would probably go ahead and try it if it is someone I knew before.

Aajj333
February 18th, 2014, 12:24 AM
Im bi and both scenarios would be awesome

DarkHorse4eva
February 18th, 2014, 12:48 AM
I'm gay, and I don't think it would be weird

swimBoy
February 18th, 2014, 01:33 PM
I'd let him touch mine if he asked, one of my friends wanted to see it close up and I let him.

Basket
February 18th, 2014, 01:42 PM
I'm straight and I guess I'd rather him touch mine first and then for me touch his to experiment, why not?

NickCollins
March 12th, 2014, 06:06 PM
i'm gay and i would do either one

GoWA_Vet
March 12th, 2014, 10:59 PM
So I'm not really planning on doing this anytime soon, but imagine you are in a situation alone with a male friend, like say you're sleeping over or skinny dipping or something. How would you react if he asked to touch your penis? Would you react any differently if instead he asked you to touch his? Which one would you rather have him ask? Also say if you're gay or straight.

i had a really similar situation to this with a friend at a sleepover and i didnt know how to react. i still dont so i cant help much.

i was sooo sure i was straight until i fell for him after that XD

bbwolf26
March 14th, 2014, 10:51 PM
I think I'm straight, but I would let him touch me first and then I would reach over and grab his.

Collins1
March 16th, 2014, 05:58 PM
Im straight - i wouldn't mind at all if someone asked if i wanted to touch his or he touch mine (as long as we are good friends). I would do it either way.

Captnnd
April 6th, 2014, 10:51 PM
I wouldn't care haha I'd experiment

BreakFall
April 7th, 2014, 12:11 AM
I'm straight I would want explination

Awesomeguy13
April 7th, 2014, 05:41 AM
I'd allow him. Just curiosity.

Chase_57
May 14th, 2014, 05:02 PM
I would let him touch me and then I would touch him, then maybe give him a handjob and if he returned the favor I would probably try giving him a blowjob.

NickCollins
May 14th, 2014, 06:32 PM
im gay
i would do whatever he wanted it wouldn't bother me

Jack russell dad
May 14th, 2014, 06:44 PM
Yes to both, if he's a trusted friend. I'm gay

SuperZ14
May 14th, 2014, 07:20 PM
I would do it and then maybe jack off as well.

DylanAwesome
May 14th, 2014, 10:27 PM
I'd do it

Awesomo181
May 14th, 2014, 10:40 PM
Depends on the person. If it was someone that I had known for a while, sure!
I'm bi

kaydencorey
May 15th, 2014, 04:00 PM
Id do it if he asked me, and if I thought he might be up for it I would ask if he wanted to touch me.
I'm gay btw

Just Sayin
May 15th, 2014, 07:29 PM
Im straight and my best friend did ask to touch me a few years ago and we have had alot of fun messin around with each other since then

Chrisscotland
May 16th, 2014, 08:00 PM
im gay, id do it for sure