My Best Friend

[Liam]

Hey,recently I have had some very strong feelings for my best friend.He is so nice and hot.We have been friends for 3 years and I don't want to mess it up by saying I like him and fantasize about us.Yesterday we were walking in the woods talking and all I could think was 'touch him to see if he likes it' or 'fall into him and squeeze'but I stopped myself.I am bi I think but I think he is straight.I need some advice Is this just hormones how should I handle this?

[paper]

Ask him in a joking manner or some sort if he is straight, and if he is well ... Respect his gender prefrance and be the best of friends. So in other simpler terms ask him if he is straight then decide what to do from there

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[RavleIncarnate]

I get the same feelings, its just I didn't get them this bad. Anyway you are most likely attracted to him. This could differ, as I don't know if they are romantic, sexual, or both, but guys our age normally fantasize about hot guys and stuff. Its just part of adolescence. In my personal hurricane Hormone I masturbated and got turned on by hot guys and such, etc. I'm not gay( or actually bisexual then cause I have a huge crush on one of my girl friends, which is actual love and not lust) cause it was only sexual thoughts, not romantic. Also don't trust anything I type cause I'm drunk on marzipan and most likely not in my right mind, and this is also the first time I've given actual advice online. I'm a paradoxical nutjob. You can ask him if he watches anything online like porn, ask if he is gay and that you've been friends for so long he can trust you with anything, which is likely after so long a friendship. If he comes out at you, tell him. Or you could direct this as a private message to who the hell ever the relationship adviser and staff are/is. I came out to Siobhan about me seeing ghosts who wouldn't leave me alone, and she gave good advice.

[dazzawazza]

Its mostly hormones, your want to experiment (being curious). I have had them thoughts before and i just foget about them. If you do like him and the way he is just talk to him a lot more and see if you can get into depth conversations about private stuff(linked to puberty probably). Then you should become close and you might be able to say stuff and you might get to"experiment" with each other.

[sdude]

That's a touchy situation man, Have you told him you are bi?? that is the first step u need to do, and hope he's a good enough friend to handle that. If he reacts well to that, you can proceed to letting him know how much u like him and see if he is cool with that as well..u never know, but staying in the dark about it will eventually leave you frustrated and alienate him. Good luck man, always open to chat if u like..

[RavleIncarnate]

Sorry about the magic word thing, SIOBHAN. Didn't know that was your username. Sorry.

[ATOMICskittles]

It really depends on the situation, if y'all are really close friends and just asking sexuality wouldn't matter to him then ask, only you can determine that. Honestly, if he can't accept that small factor about you than he is not a true friend, if you guys have been friends for three years, and he drops it all for that one factor, than wtf. My opinion ;)
Stay strong

[ksdnfkfr]

All I can say is with my bf we were friends for about
3 years and then started having feelings for each other.
But we both had the same feelings and we could tell it
about each other because we were already super close
best friends. One night during a regular sleepover we just
went into 2nd base as naturally as anything else we did together.

[Cowboycalfroper70]

just find out what he wants

[Forsakenbymyself]

It's 50-50. it's up to you to decide if you want to play this russian roulette.

[Tightjeans]

Go with your feelins but be careful as this is a sensitive area with a lot of people.

[Pulp501]

Instead of asking if he is straight tell him you are bi and let him approach you and if he is straight respect that and don't harass him

[Gifford]

That's a touchy situation man, Have you told him you are bi?? that is the first step u need to do, and hope he's a good enough friend to handle that. If he reacts well to that, you can proceed to letting him know how much u like him and see if he is cool with that as well..u never know, but staying in the dark about it will eventually leave you frustrated and alienate him. Good luck man, always open to chat if u like..

I agree with this one and like it a lot. I'd take this approach for sure.