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rayraywa
December 20th, 2013, 04:01 PM
So me and my brother masturbate regularly, and last wednesday after finals we got a bit carried away. I ended up giving him oral and he gave me oral. I loved it but I don't know if I should keep doing it. I also kind of want to go further but I know its wrong and can have consequences.
Ihaveagun
December 20th, 2013, 04:06 PM
What happened happened, but I don't recommend that you keep it up, being siblings and all.
Mich015
December 20th, 2013, 11:08 PM
So me and my brother masturbate regularly, and last wednesday after finals we got a bit carried away. I ended up giving him oral and he gave me oral. I loved it but I don't know if I should keep doing it. I also kind of want to go further but I know its wrong and can have consequences.
I went throught the exact same thing recently, i regularly masturbate with my brother too and things went way too far. We both really enjoyed it but havent done it again since. We did talk about it and agreed we would continue to masturbate together but nothing else. Like you, part of me really wants to go the rest of the way. If you made up your mind you dont want to go any farther with him, just stick to your guns. Do you still masturbate with him?
Continuing to masturbate with my brother keeps the pressure of the temptation on me. Let me know how it goes hun!
Pensive
December 21st, 2013, 09:38 AM
So me and my brother masturbate regularly, and last wednesday after finals we got a bit carried away. I ended up giving him oral and he gave me oral. I loved it but I don't know if I should keep doing it. I also kind of want to go further but I know its wrong and can have consequences.
Do you two masturbate together out of convenience of having a sexual partner, or out of a general attraction and love for each other?
What did you do when he came? (This tells us a lot).
You've already potentially ruined the relationship or made it stronger. Stopping now outright will make it appear wrong, like it was just a bad mistake.
Seemyheart
December 22nd, 2013, 12:15 AM
Masturbating with family members is incest and isn't cool
Hey...to each their own
kitten13
December 23rd, 2013, 08:49 AM
i did not to long ago. it was way pass i was looking to. no real sex he got me off and i got him off. still talking about it if we will do it again. have blog telling all. love my brother not in love with him.
anyone50
December 23rd, 2013, 11:15 AM
You are correct about going farther will have consequences and would advise finding a partner other than a family member to do more then masturbation with.
jessicaann
December 26th, 2013, 09:13 AM
I never realized this is a common experience. I walked in on my brother masturbating and he dared me tojoin him. We hhave plenty of times since but keep our hands to ourselves. We both want more. Knowingtthat won't happen let's us fully enjoy playing. If either of us can't hold back we just find someone else it's OK to do the rest with
Katiya
December 26th, 2013, 11:58 PM
Well both party's are enjoying it so I'm not sure its classic incest. Its certainly a bit weird but I don't see a major problem long as they don't have children together.
However I would caution that fact that this could ruin the family like relationship so bes to keep hands off I'd say. Not to mention if people found out that would open up a whole different can of worms. Best of luck
lilmisslucylee
December 29th, 2013, 03:21 AM
Yeah normal to me I do it all the time with my brother.
freakyindiangurl
December 31st, 2013, 03:34 AM
Speaking from experience. I would first suggest you and your brother talking to each other about what you are both comfortable with and sticking to that. With that said just because you both agree to maybe only masturbate doesn't mean you both may go further one day. So be prepared by having protection just in case. And just because you have protection doesn't mean you will need it. I think there is nothing wrong between siblings experimenting together as long as both are willing, it's fun, and you are safe about it.
Pensive
December 31st, 2013, 04:09 AM
Speaking from experience.
May I ask what kind of experience you have? Have you had sex?
Must be hard to find risk free time to do that, can't imagine your parents being too thrilled, if they caught him inside you...
carissaurus
December 31st, 2013, 02:46 PM
Honestly, I think masturbating with my siblings would be a completely weird and bizarred experience, but everyone's different. I would suggest you NOT go further. And personally, I would stop masturbating together because I think that just makes the opportunity more available and tempting to you.
photogirl
January 4th, 2014, 01:32 AM
i understand what you mean but you do need to slow it down. i am in the same postion ok email me and we can talk about it more.
CheekyLinda
January 4th, 2014, 11:52 AM
Going further than just masturbation could be either potentially bonding or potentially harmful, I personally would advise you to stay with masturbation
Trampoline14
January 5th, 2014, 11:05 AM
So me and my brother masturbate regularly, and last wednesday after finals we got a bit carried away. I ended up giving him oral and he gave me oral. I loved it but I don't know if I should keep doing it. I also kind of want to go further but I know its wrong and can have consequences.
I think it's totally fine so long as you're both okay with it, definitely 100% use some form of protection if you decide to have sex
shanco
January 5th, 2014, 08:06 PM
I do not have a brother. But I would be careful with getting it in..it would be weird if a pregnancy occurs. Good luck.
Amsey
January 7th, 2014, 07:46 AM
I've never done it with my brother, I've heard him do it as his head board hits my wall (it obvious haha) and the idea does turn me on but I think it would be weird for us so it interests me greatly you do it, if you don't mind me asking how did this begin?? And to answer your question I wouldn't go as far as sex but I guess anything up to that is ok :)
Pensive
January 7th, 2014, 07:48 PM
I've never done it with my brother, I've heard him do it as his head board hits my wall (it obvious haha) and the idea does turn me on but I think it would be weird for us so it interests me greatly you do it, if you don't mind me asking how did this begin?? And to answer your question I wouldn't go as far as sex but I guess anything up to that is ok :)
Is it just sexual convenience that makes you want him, or romantically?
Do you ever do/imagine anything to the sound of the headboard? (I totally would lol)
You could either walk in on him doing it, and sit on his bed playing innocent - or let him hear you do it (with moans).
Amsey
January 7th, 2014, 07:54 PM
Is it just sexual convenience that makes you want him, or romantically?
Do you ever do/imagine anything to the sound of the headboard? (I totally would lol)
You could either walk in on him doing it, and sit on his bed playing innocent - or let him hear you do it (with moans).
Wow 2 sec warning before you hit me with that among of horny-ness ;) haha
1. I don't want him want him it's more the idea of us is a turn on
2. Not gonna lie I have :$ I joined in... He would never know
3. He'd freak and probably throw something at me haha... Don't know if he's heard me... Guess no harm in teasing him haha ;)
Ashthefox
January 8th, 2014, 11:41 PM
i honestly would risk getting caught, but definitely don't go further than you already have. You don't want to get pregnant with your bother's child.
Peta
January 9th, 2014, 08:05 PM
I personally think you are playing with fire and should stop immediately before you make an even bigger mistake.
Evaboo
January 9th, 2014, 09:59 PM
Just set some rules....masterbate with male cousins....we just have some rules
vickilynn
January 10th, 2014, 03:22 AM
My brother is older and don't live in our house now. We all are nude in our house and I did see him masturbate. I say it is fine seeing each other masturbating. I heard siblings that have sex and later on get married to someone, it ruins their marriage because they still each other or still have sex. I don't see them sexually. If they masturbate, it is normal. I know there are thoughts like that out there but I don't let my sexual parts do the thinking for me.
violetdaisy
January 13th, 2014, 09:15 AM
ofcourse you dont want to get pregnant. That is the only real wrong outside the moral aspect :) But if you want to go further you can always just have sex in ways you cant get pregnant from. Like oral and anal. Perhaps dildos :)
Shailene
January 19th, 2014, 09:24 PM
Damn - don't mean to be judgey, but you're heading down a slippery slope. Can't see this ending well.
ashleigh7
May 4th, 2015, 10:20 AM
I think it's ok. As long as you guys are using protection, and know its just like masturbating. I mean its not like you going to be boyfriend and girlfriend. Its different I know but it can be a very safe way to experiment.
Babs
May 4th, 2015, 12:05 PM
I think it's ok. As long as you guys are using protection, and know its just like masturbating. I mean its not like you going to be boyfriend and girlfriend. Its different I know but it can be a very safe way to experiment.
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