Perfect bf but still in love with ex!

[asalley18]

So here's my problem. I have the perfect boyfriend for me. I love him but I still love my ex. I know I shouldn't be even still talking to my ex but I can't help it. I feel bad about sneaking behind my boyfriends back to talk to him but my boyfriend can be an imature spoiled brat at times and he wouldn't understand. What do I do?

[Blood]

The answer is pretty simple: You need to either stop sneaking around and talking to your ex or you need to leave your "perfect" boyfriend, because sneaking behind his back like that is wrong.

[paper]

Agreed, confront your ex. (Make closer) however you will still have feelings for that one person. And any other boyfriend you will date later on.

[ashdyn]

If he's "perfect" he wouldn't be an immature spoiled brat too. Think about the reasons why your ex is and EX in the first place. Obviously there were some things that didn't work out. If you've never described your ex as "perfect" then you're probably better off staying with your current boyfriend.

It's hard to close the door on your past because it's familiar, but eventually you have to. If I was your boyfriend I wouldn't be too happy that you're still talking to your ex that you have feelings for, so if you're calling him immature for not understanding that you still have feelings for your ex while you're dating him then that's totally not fair.

1. You have to talk to your current boyfriend. It's not fair to him if you're sneaking around behind his back trying to see if there's still something left with your ex. If he's really committed to you then he won't have to understand your feelings but he'll trust you enough to handle them maturely. If you have to break up then he'll understand if you stay with him awesome but you have to completely break things off with your ex. If he's really the perfect boyfriend then what he really would want is for you to be happy...that includes being happy with someone else.
2. Talk to your ex. There's a real chance he's just hanging around to fuck up your relationship cause he's not over it. If that's the case...squash it cause you found someone better than him.
3. You need to really evaluate what you're about to do. Idk who broke up with who but you need to remember all those things that made you guys incompatible in the first place and sort those out if you're thinking about leaving someone you described as perfect. Finally, if you're current boyfriend is PERFECT what legitimate reason do you have to break up with him? If it's just because you think you still have feelings for your ex then you really need to stop and think about this. Unless we absolutely hate our ex more likely than not we'll always care about them or even just feel some fondness toward them. That's not enough for me to wreck a relationship with someone that treats you perfectly.

[ashdyn]

If he's "perfect" he wouldn't be an immature spoiled brat too. Think about the reasons why your ex is and EX in the first place. Obviously there were some things that didn't work out. If you've never described your ex as "perfect" then you're probably better off staying with your current boyfriend.

It's hard to close the door on your past because it's familiar, but eventually you have to. If I was your boyfriend I wouldn't be too happy that you're still talking to your ex that you have feelings for, so if you're calling him immature for not understanding that you still have feelings for your ex while you're dating him then that's totally not fair.

1. You have to talk to your current boyfriend. It's not fair to him if you're sneaking around behind his back trying to see if there's still something left with your ex. If he's really committed to you then he won't have to understand your feelings but he'll trust you enough to handle them maturely. If you have to break up then he'll understand if you stay with him awesome but you have to completely break things off with your ex. If he's really the perfect boyfriend then what he really would want is for you to be happy...that includes being happy with someone else.
2. Talk to your ex. There's a real chance he's just hanging around to fuck up your relationship cause he's not over it. If that's the case...squash it cause you found someone better than him.
3. You need to really evaluate what you're about to do. Idk who broke up with who but you need to remember all those things that made you guys incompatible in the first place and sort those out if you're thinking about leaving someone you described as perfect. Finally, if you're current boyfriend is PERFECT what legitimate reason do you have to break up with him? If it's just because you think you still have feelings for your ex then you really need to stop and think about this. Unless we absolutely hate our ex more likely than not we'll always care about them or even just feel some fondness toward them. That's not enough for me to wreck a relationship with someone that treats you perfectly.

[dazzawazza]

Even though you may think he is immature,he has still got feelings and emotions and it isnt fair for you to go sneaking around talking to your ex. An ex is an ex for a reason. So if you still love your ex that much that you have got to sneak behind you current boyfriends back, dump your current boyfriend and get back with you ex. On the other hand if you love your current boy friend that much stay with him and cut off contact with your ex and stay with the one you say is "perfect".