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llegof
December 19th, 2013, 04:40 PM
To start, I swear to god that I'm being completely serious with this thread. I know this is my first post and this is a common thing trolls would say, but this is a serious concern. Basically I have been getting really serious with a girl recently and we're gonna bang over christmas break. The problem is that my manhood is 6" in girth and she's really petite and a virgin. Everyone says I have a donkey dick and that makes me even more concerned because of the urbandictionary definition for that. I need advice.

llegof
December 19th, 2013, 05:11 PM
Yea, i know i shouldnt base a relationship on sex but i still believe it plays a huge role in a relationship.

StoppingTime
December 19th, 2013, 05:36 PM
Teen Sexuality :arrow: Puberty 101

dazzawazza
December 19th, 2013, 05:43 PM
Fair play for having a big dick. Just take it easy don't go full a ahead straight in, just put parts of your dick in her but dont go straight in and bang thw whole of your dick in. Just relax and have fun and have fun over christmas then.

llegof
December 19th, 2013, 05:48 PM
Teen Sexuality :arrow: Puberty 101
Oh ok im 17 and im gonna post in puberty 101

StoppingTime
December 19th, 2013, 07:40 PM
Oh ok im 17 and im gonna post in puberty 101

If you're asking such a question as "what do i do my penis is too thick" I'm not really sure what else you expected.

Gifford
December 19th, 2013, 08:24 PM
Thanks for bringing this up. It's so important to be concerned with your girl's comfort. The first time for a virgin always has a little bit of pain, but your 6 is big. I'm 7.25/5.5 and I've had guys tell me they couldn't take me.

It would be helpful if we knew your length. It will also be a big factor. If you can only go in half-way, it won't be as pleasurable for you, but you know what? If you love her it won't matter. She'll want to please you just as much as you want to please her.

I'm a little bi but mostly gay; I've had sex with several girls and loved it, but I love sex with guys much better. Hence, I ask this question: is a girl's vagina more elastic and easy to stretch to accept a big one than a guy's ass? I have no idea. Maybe she - with you being very careful and taking your time - and the two of you getting more and more hot for each other - will light up your antlers! LOL.

Good luck. See if you can let us know how it went.

Gerson96
December 19th, 2013, 08:54 PM
Do a lot of foreplay and use lube. Take it slow at first so she won't be hurting too much and then gradually go faster.

salty
December 19th, 2013, 08:54 PM
sounds about avg to me

ryanpeterson832
December 19th, 2013, 08:58 PM
Yeah ok.

Thomas01
December 19th, 2013, 09:05 PM
Umm well just talk to her.

I don't mean to sound rude, but if things are getting serious with your girlfriend, you should probably use a better word than "bang" which comes off a bit more harshly. Like just say sex, it sounds nicer, and it sounds like things are more serious.

I know the post wasn't about that but I just had to put that out there

ryzzz9
December 19th, 2013, 10:27 PM
i think the only problem is that she's a virgin. it's def going to hurt the first time (maybe the first few times), but the plus side is that once she's ready she's going to really like it. stimulation is mostly about girth, so you're good to go w/that. and vaginas are made for babies to come through, so there's no reason that your thickness is going to cause problems once she's loosened up.

Cognizant
December 19th, 2013, 10:47 PM
stimulation is mostly about girth, so you're good to go w/that.
I agree. You're more than prepared to please :P


and to be honest, when a virgin has sex for the first time it's going to hurt regardless if it's a donkey dick that's 6in thick or if it's only 4 inches hard and thin. I'd hope that she would realize this before consenting to sex, but regardless, just go slow. like, really slow. also use lots of lubrication (either manufactured or through foreplay up to you), it'll help it out better.

if you guys get comfy over break and do it a lot, it'll eventually be easier for you to have intercourse and it'll be more pleasurable for her.

ElliotJ
December 20th, 2013, 12:01 AM
you might need to use extra lube, but it should be ok if you go slow

The Trendy Wolf
December 20th, 2013, 12:21 AM
To start, I swear to god that I'm being completely serious with this thread. I know this is my first post and this is a common thing trolls would say, but this is a serious concern. Basically I have been getting really serious with a girl recently and we're gonna bang over christmas break. The problem is that my manhood is 6" in girth and she's really petite and a virgin. Everyone says I have a donkey dick and that makes me even more concerned because of the urbandictionary definition for that. I need advice.

I possess the same girth as you, and I do feel for you. Sometimes people don't understand some of the complications of being larger than normal because they often believe that the good of its size would mask the bad, but that is not true. They only think this way because they have not experienced what it is like to live with it, so do not let others judge you.

I must suggest being gentle and slow, and don't get overwhelmed by it all. Let her be in control of what she thinks she can take, but don't just let her hurt herself either. Don't let what others say about you make you think that what they're saying is definitive, and don't let it damage your confidence.

Be proud of what you have, be grateful, but never, ever make others feel inferior, because that will only create an unhealthy way of thinking within yourself, and make many others lose self confidence. :whoops:

Catholic Guy
December 20th, 2013, 07:05 AM
Well to start before you have sex you should finger her, start with one finger then two, three and four and then five then ask if she's okay with you fisting her that will widen her up enough for you to fit in without hurting her as much

Lotie
December 20th, 2013, 12:02 PM
Just use some lube and have fun :p but if she really liked you she would love you no matter how big or wide your dick is

Lil.k8
December 20th, 2013, 12:25 PM
she wont be able to take that piece although you can warm her up to it. start with lost of forplay kissing nibbling touching, then finger her while playing with her tits for a little while. then use something a little bigger like ur thumb, then maby a brush handle use plenty of lube. get her to show you how she does it, while you pay attention to her neck and tits. keep moving to bigger things slowly, a little bigger at a time. always rub her body chest tits hips legs lick and nibble her neck and ear lobes when you get to just smaller then you are you can start to work your piece in go very slowly a tiny bit in then back off a little more and back out ect go very sowly with every new step only go faster once she starts grinding against it.

topher3141
January 25th, 2014, 11:00 PM
6in isnt that huge

FameMonster
January 26th, 2014, 11:05 AM
6in isnt that huge

He's talking girth. 6 inches is fairly large for girth considering the average adult girth is 4.9 or so.

topher3141
January 28th, 2014, 09:16 PM
He's talking girth. 6 inches is fairly large for girth considering the average adult girth is 4.9 or so.


oh sorry ya thats pretty big

AlexOnToast
January 29th, 2014, 05:25 AM
All I can say is use plenty of lubricant