What Do You Do?

[ausley]

Lately for the past 2 months I've been feeling that I don't really fit in with my group of friends that I used to hangout with. As a result I don't really hangout or socialize with people as often anymore like going to their houses and hanging out. Its sad but what I do now is imagine the relaxing stuff I'd do with a bestfriend and do them myself. For example I stargaze by myself or take long nature walks or sit around outside. I don't really like to stay inside all the time. Have any of you guys been in this position? And if you had what do you guys do? I have to last till summer which is when I MIGHT MOVE (hopefully) but until then im kind of a loner.:(

[Miserabilia]

Well it doesn't have to be bad to "be a loner".
Maybe being alone is just what you need. It works for me

[ausley]

Well it doesn't have to be bad to "be a loner".
Maybe being alone is just what you need. It works for me

Yeah I mean sometimes I do like to be alone but now I am so often I get really bored and sad and stuff and its nice to have a friend there with you ya know?

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Family and Friends.

[Body odah Man]

Being a loner sucks but isn't that bad (I'm one as well). After a while you grow used to it. Good luck man.

[Miri]

You could get used to being a "loner", I mean with the about of siblings I have and them always having friends over and my mom always inviting people over, and then with my friends, I really, really value the little time I actually get to spend alone. If you should allow yourself to get used to it or not depends on what you think you need. I mean, I could do with some more alone time, but I love having things going on, and would struggle with too much alone time.

If you're like that, then maybe try meeting or getting to know some new people, especially kids from your school that you have things in common with. You could try joining some teams or clubs, they are great ways to meet people and guarantee that you'll at least have something to talk to them about. Maybe you should take this as a chance to get to know a new group of people.

[dazzawazza]

Being a "loner" might make you feel a bit rubbish just think though you are getting that space that allows you to be able to chill on your own and reflect on your self. Use the time that you are alone to try and figure out what has happened and see if you can get back into the group. You don't have to try but think being a lone is good but you always need that one mate that you talk to and tell everything.