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Jordan1234
December 18th, 2013, 03:27 PM
Hello people, it's been a while since I've logged on on VT and I am asking for some help.

Here is the girl that i love from my class and it's kinda weird to love a girl from my class idk that didn't happen to me before. So I am kinda lost I don't know I think this is the first time I actually feel love I guess. Need some help how to act around her, how to win her heart. And also girls can you tell me some signs that you show when you actually like a guy? And what you like in guys at age 14-15.

Thanks.

Synyster Shadows
December 18th, 2013, 05:05 PM
Just saying this, you can't force her to like you. Anyways, just talk to her casually for a bit while pretending you don't like her that way and make her feel comfortable, then talk more like you like her that way. Tell her how you feel and see if you likes you back. If so, great! If not, then don't freak out. There are plenty of other girls out there, and one is bound to like you. Besides, you're young. I'm assuming that you're my age, maybe a few months older, from you saying "guys at age 14-15". If you don't have a girlfriend, whatever. Who cares? No one should. If she doesn't return your feelings, just keep yourself occupied and do your best to forget about her. The biggest no-no is to get obsessed over her. I speak from experience. That happened to me last year and it blew up in my face. Don't get obsessed over her, or any girl.
Hope I helped. Good luck, man.

Miri
December 18th, 2013, 05:13 PM
Just saying this, you can't force her to like you. Anyways, just talk to her casually for a bit while pretending you don't like her that way and make her feel comfortable, then talk more like you like her that way. Tell her how you feel and see if you likes you back. If so, great! If not, then don't freak out. There are plenty of other girls out there, and one is bound to like you. Besides, you're young. I'm assuming that you're my age, maybe a few months older, from you saying "guys at age 14-15". If you don't have a girlfriend, whatever. Who cares? No one should. If she doesn't return your feelings, just keep yourself occupied and do your best to forget about her. The biggest no-no is to get obsessed over her. I speak from experience. That happened to me last year and it blew up in my face. Don't get obsessed over her, or any girl.
Hope I helped. Good luck, man.

If I were to have written my own response, it would have gone pretty much exactly like this.

sqishy
December 18th, 2013, 05:23 PM
If I were to have written my own response, it would have gone pretty much exactly like this.

I agree; good advice. Don't lose hope though.

Synyster Shadows
December 18th, 2013, 05:39 PM
I agree; good advice. Don't lose hope though.

This is a good point. OP, I didn't mean to sound discouraging. i just wanted to give you a fair warning as to what you should and should not do. I wasn't trying to say that you can't get her, but rather that it isn't guaranteed.

Jordan1234
December 18th, 2013, 05:39 PM
Thanks :D

Believe
December 18th, 2013, 09:28 PM
Just saying this, you can't force her to like you. Anyways, just talk to her casually for a bit while pretending you don't like her that way and make her feel comfortable, then talk more like you like her that way. Tell her how you feel and see if you likes you back. If so, great! If not, then don't freak out. There are plenty of other girls out there, and one is bound to like you. Besides, you're young. I'm assuming that you're my age, maybe a few months older, from you saying "guys at age 14-15". If you don't have a girlfriend, whatever. Who cares? No one should. If she doesn't return your feelings, just keep yourself occupied and do your best to forget about her. The biggest no-no is to get obsessed over her. I speak from experience. That happened to me last year and it blew up in my face. Don't get obsessed over her, or any girl.
Hope I helped. Good luck, man.

This.