How to bring up sex with a girl ??

[Kevindbzoneill]

How would all of you bring up sex at first with a new girl you know ?? As in just to talk about it during texting etc etc ??

[cherylcherylX2]

just TALK, girls aren't as terrified of sex as guys think we are.

[scyth]

honestly, just talk about it, but try not to force them to talk about it, if you get the impression she isnt comfortable with it stop! I was talking to my friend recently about masturbating, and i could tell by her texts she just wasnt comfortable with it, but we have talked about sex in the past, and nudity. then with my other friend we just find ways of bringing it up, so much so that i know she's terrified of trying anal, and just doesnt want it at all.

[Sandra Main]

Just mention about sex slowly without being graphic about it.
And follow her clues she may give you that she maybe uncomfortable
talking about sex. Clues maybe she walks away or she may change the subject
or she may even blush at some point. Take it slow and watch for signs.
One step at a time.But some girls might come natural for them.

[Swagging god]

Just bring it up in a conversation respectfully, by saying u think u should take the relationship to a new level. Say u love her and trust her, also keep in mind that it may benefit u both in the long run. Just talk it over with her and see where she wants to start. The most important thing is communication, talk about what u wanna do to take the relationship to " a new level".

[SammieRose]

Talk face to face, no msging. That will most likely freak any respectable girl you just met.

[Body odah Man]

How would all of you bring up sex at first with a new girl you know ?? As in just to talk about it during texting etc etc ??

Bring it in casually. If they don't like it stop.

[joshduder]

Start slowly, let it flow. Don't get awkward

[NotShortButFunsized]

just bring it up casually or find a way to work it naturally into the conversation. if shes comfortable with you on a personal level, she probably wont be terrified of talking casually about it

talking about you and her HAVING sex is completely different though

[Tenoka]

Me and my female friends have a special thing, I let them know I'm not shy to talk about anything, and I think that helps them to talk about personal things more comfortable. Just slowly move into the subject about it. If she shows physical discomfort (looking around, not making eye contact) then move to another subject and maybe apologies.

[JollyToes]

Don't text/sext abt it. Grls don't get off on it as much as we do I guess. Lol

[Kochanek]

This is difficult, because every girl has a different attitude to sex.
I already had sex with a girl after directly telling her, that she pleases me so much and that I would like to have sex with her.

Some other girl would maybe have answered with a box on the ears - although "no, thank you" would be enough too :-)

[Star Wolf]

Hm. In my personal opinion bring a subject like sex up to someone, especially someone you just met, is very disrespectful. It will also probably make her think you are after her body.

[JamesJB]

get close 2 her first dude

[KiyoshisIsland]

Just talk

[hoboliz]

In person first. Unless she brings it up. But yeah, what Cheryl said. Most girls aren't as terrified of it as guys think. Just don't sound like that's all you want out of a conversation.

[Shailene]

be honest and do it in person

[XZoDiaCX]

Just talk and be honest :)

[kenny89]

best to do it in person

[everlong]

It isn't that hard to talk about it casually then you would think. Girls are about just as okay with talking about things like that as us guys are.