View Full Version : I need some erection Losing tips!
longrooster
February 11th, 2008, 04:34 PM
this might sound funny but everytime im with my girlfriend, i need to flick up my penis in my waist band to avoid her seeing a major stiffy :P and thing is we are starting to '' explore each other'' more and more and id like to be able to leave my penis where it is supposed to be, without getting a stiffy! I just wanna know if anyone has any tips for me to be able to keep it down till i need it to get up!
Thanks!
Sugaree
February 11th, 2008, 04:40 PM
Just think about something else. That helps me lose a hard on. Listen to music or take a walk.
longrooster
February 11th, 2008, 04:41 PM
Just think about something else. That helps me lose a hard on. Listen to music or take a walk.
well when im with my girl friend i dont really feel like getting up and walking away! lol and i dont wanna shut her out with my music you know?
Sugaree
February 11th, 2008, 04:48 PM
Well just ask her if it's alright if you have a boner and if it offends her or something. But it's natural for that to happen.
longrooster
February 11th, 2008, 04:51 PM
haha good call! ill give that one a shot lol thanks mate!
Oh and since i have a post open i got 1 more question, when i ejaculate it dosnt really look liquidy like it used to a year ago but more ''chunky''? well not really chunky but a bit more thick compared to before, normal?
Sugaree
February 11th, 2008, 04:53 PM
Yes that's normal. I think that means you are developing quickly I believe. But I've never heard that to be true but yes that does happen to me when my cum is chunky
longrooster
February 11th, 2008, 04:54 PM
haha ok! thanks again!
Sugaree
February 11th, 2008, 06:37 PM
No problem I'm always here to help anyone who needs it :)
Patchy
February 11th, 2008, 06:37 PM
The best way is to not think about it....pay no attention to it...thats what I do.
ThatCanadianGuy
February 11th, 2008, 07:09 PM
That, and if you can't get RID of them, you can try to hide it. I always wear jeans nowadays (stopped wearing track pants years ago when I discovered myself getting random erections wayyy too often!) since they're heavy and can help "hold down" the erection at least. That, or keep something (like a binder if you're at school) handy that can cover your boner and not look too inconspicuous!
Mikel14
February 11th, 2008, 07:58 PM
I masturbate before I go out with my girlfriend because it usually helps me not get a boner i dunno it might work with you too
Antares
February 11th, 2008, 08:23 PM
Well its kinda hard to stop an erection when its actually supposed to be there...in theory. so yeah just try to think about something else but that may be hard..or you can stop exploring yourself...or you can switch to briefs to keep it contained down there..
TeenGuy512
February 12th, 2008, 01:30 AM
I would always think of 2 ugly people having sex and that made my boners go away. When I was around my g/f I just dealt with it - and tried to hide it. I think she bumped it a few times and figured it out though.
tripod
February 12th, 2008, 02:20 PM
Divert your thoughts. If you're worrying about getting an erection, chances are you'll get one at the most inappropriate time - instead just forget about it!
juliocesarchavezthe4th
February 12th, 2008, 04:20 PM
You could try and tense it up that works alot for me. If it being provoked i don't think there is much you can do ha.
billman2121
February 16th, 2008, 05:41 PM
think of a turn off
ThatCanadianGuy
February 16th, 2008, 08:31 PM
This might not be a bad thing after all. I mean we all know its natural and its SUPPOSED to happen (I'd very much rather have random erections that erectile dysfunction!). If you've been with the girl long enough for you two to be comfortable with eachother she probably won't be bothered by it at all (in fact it would be seen as more of a compliment :D). Who knows? She may just notice it sometime and ask YOU if you'd like her to "take care of it" for you! :yeah:
^^^ lol of course that shouldn't be something you do right away... make sure you've been together for a while!
PhillyBby
February 18th, 2008, 11:54 AM
This might not be a bad thing after all. I mean we all know its natural and its SUPPOSED to happen (I'd very much rather have random erections that erectile dysfunction!). If you've been with the girl long enough for you two to be comfortable with eachother she probably won't be bothered by it at all (in fact it would be seen as more of a compliment :D). Who knows? She may just notice it sometime and ask YOU if you'd like her to "take care of it" for you! :yeah:
^^^ lol of course that shouldn't be something you do right away... make sure you've been together for a while!
I agree totally if shes you girlfriend she most likely wouldnt care or would be impressed. i was once playing basketball with my friends 2guys 2 girls and got one the girls just smiled and didnt really care, one later came up to me and told me it was impressive:yeah:
robbiehay1
February 18th, 2008, 03:15 PM
another way to loose an erection is to think about someone you arent attracted to
Demyxna
February 20th, 2008, 01:35 AM
I have the problem at school. i get a random errection and dont know what to do about it???
Chatsworth
February 20th, 2008, 02:59 AM
If your in school and you really urgently need to lose the wood, this is only for dire circumstances, but when lunch comes along, excuse yourself and head to the bathroom and masturbate. I personally have had to do this once, it helped alot tho, however do at your own risk!
ThatCanadianGuy
February 20th, 2008, 07:32 AM
^^^ If you're worried about doing that at lunch (yeah that's kinda risky; I know someone who was "caught" and made the laughing stock of the school) try to do it at home in the morning before school. If not keeping the erections down they'll at least be in less "urgent" need of attention if you know what I mean :yeah:
DanteX
February 20th, 2008, 08:26 PM
I only know of two ways, think unsexy thoughs, or the fun way, which is also the dangerous way, depending on where you are.
HardHandle
October 2nd, 2009, 04:28 PM
I have the best possible answer for this 'PROBLEM', and I guarantee it will work! (At least temporarily!)
Take the woman's clothes off, and bonk the Hell out of her! That's what you (AND she!) wants to do anyway, or you wouldn't have an erection! Like I say, I use this 'METHOD' to control erections, and it can't be beat!
adam1995
October 2nd, 2009, 05:01 PM
Well its kinda hard to stop an erection when its actually supposed to be there...in theory. so yeah just try to think about something else but that may be hard..or you can stop exploring yourself...or you can switch to briefs to keep it contained down there..
Haha... Exactly what I was thinking. I don't try to hide boners when I'm with my gf. It's actualy a compliment to her when you think about it lol
Grey fox
October 2nd, 2009, 05:12 PM
I'd get really offended if my boyfriend tried to hide a boner from me.
Why do you feel you need to hide it?
Surely she'd appreciate being able to see how much she turns you on???
kyle95
October 2nd, 2009, 05:24 PM
my gf says girls know this happens. you'll eventually overcome the problem, but not before she may have some fun with you :)
hiker1992
October 3rd, 2009, 12:19 AM
If you have an unwanted erection, the best thing to do is A) take a walk around, because that'll allow the blood that's pooled in your penis (sounds gross, but that's just an odd way of describing it) to travel back into the body quicker, and thus decrease the erection. If that doesn't work then there's always plan B) try your damn hardest not to think about it, haha.
HardHandle
October 3rd, 2009, 04:12 PM
I don't get all of this crap! Are you people serious? Are any of you ADULTS, or are you a bunch of kids talking about 'DATES' with your 4th grade classmates? Gezzzz! "HIDING AN ERECTION FROM A DATE"???????????????? Give me a break!
cherry_boi
October 3rd, 2009, 04:35 PM
lol i think it's a good thing u get a stiffy, lol she shud take it as a compliment....u shud be more concerned if u don't get hard :P
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