Want sex but scared to ask

[mikemidas63]

So i have a boyfriend and we have been together since 02/12/13 and i want sex. Now i can wait till old enough which is next month but i don't know how to ask him. What do i do? Somebody help me?!

[deregisterme]

So i have a boyfriend and we have been together since 02/12/13 and i want sex. Now i can wait till old enough which is next month but i don't know how to ask him. What do i do? Somebody help me?!

It just depends on how close you both are now. Just ask is thoughts on how to take the relationship forward, and see if he is ready too.

[Marco97]

How old is he? Will you both be breaking the law if you do it now? I'd be waiting 1 month before doing it. Maybe he wants to do that if he hasn't talked about it yet.

[lightPainting]

just talk with him, be open and honest. communication is key

[SillyShyGuy]

The important thing here is communication. Maybe bring it up casually when you are spending time with him. Ask him in person and see how he feels about it. Be sure he is comfortable with it and ask him what he prefers to do with you. Just be honest.

[ska8er]

don't come right out with it to him cause u might scare him. ease into it
and ask him if he is interested in going further with the relationship.

[Kittykay]

Honestly, if he's a good I doubt he'd deny you! When y'all are making out just be prepared with protection and just go for it! ;)

Guy*

[skiman]

So i have a boyfriend and we have been together since 02/12/13 and i want sex. Now i can wait till old enough which is next month but i don't know how to ask him. What do i do? Somebody help me?!

how old are you?

[mikemidas63]

how old are you?

I am 15 now but can wait till i am 16 (which i become next month)

[mikemidas63]

You must be sure he is "the one", virginity is a special thing to lose, don't do anything you will regret. Just talk to him to see if he's ready, just don't be like that guys that only want sex, love is much better than sex! I assumed you were virgin, right?
And yes i am a Vrigin

[Young16boy]

just talk with him, be open and honest. communication is key

Agree with you ;)

[Lotie]

Just be open with him if you are BOTH ready then go for it :)

[Gifford]

So i have a boyfriend and we have been together since 02/12/13 and i want sex. Now i can wait till old enough which is next month but i don't know how to ask him. What do i do? Somebody help me?!

I don't understand why you think there is a certain age that makes you "old enough" to have sex. What's with that? Guys can and do have sex with other guys at all ages. I had sex for the first time when I was 12, with another 12 yo. I've been having sex ever since, and many friends of mine of all ages have it to some degree of frequency. You said you'll be 16 soon, and you are still a minor until you turn 18. If he's 18 already, then you should wait 'til you're 18 in most cases. Sounds like you both are about the same age. 16 is no more legal than 15 and there is no rule requiring any teen to be 16 in order to have sex.

Maybe I'm missing something. Write if you like, as far as how to ask, I can help with that too.

[Storm'sGame15]

I don't understand why you think there is a certain age that makes you "old enough" to have sex. What's with that? Guys can and do have sex with other boys at all ages. I had sex for the first time when I was 12, with another 12 yo. I've been having sex ever since, and many friends of mine of all ages have it to some degree of frequency.

Maybe I'm missing something. Write if you like, as far as how to ask, I can help with that too.

^^^ same but I think he wants it to be special which I totally get. Personally since your close to 16 I would wait. But if you want it now then you can just ask him if he's ready.

[Your Captain]

Just ask him, he probably wants to do it with you as well but he is also scared to ask

[rempel]

First time is a special one and you seem to really like him that you really want to have sex with him so go ahead there's no age rule like Gifford said.

Just try not to get pregnant and do it safely. :cool:

[Xeon931]

Well first off ease in to it and well since he is a guy he will probaly will say yes if he doesnt well he's gay... im sorry homosexual, but then again i did say no to a free blowjob but she had rat teeth so i dk
have fun

[DarkOmega]

How old is he? Will you both be breaking the law if you do it now? I'd be waiting 1 month before doing it. Maybe he wants to do that if he hasn't talked about it yet.

breaking the law.. it was never about that.as long as u r in private property , no1 is gonna knock on ur door saying its illegal(ur parents might but that's why u wait until they r not home)
just ask him if u want sex but r to scared to ask idk how ready u r for it

[nathansubcri]

If you dont mind breaking the law, you should just be open about it, he might be thinking the same

[Jtyler]

Well since you guys have been together so long, just ask in a way it's not just coming out at him. Maybe you guys could jerk together and that could lead to sed

[Verde]

Okay, a few things.
1) check your state's legal age of consent. Not every state considers you am adult at the same age. Here, in Louisiana, for example, the legal age of consent is 17 years old.
2) if you're both under the legal age of consent, it is not illegal to have sex. As long as one is not over and the other one under the legal age.
3) don't be in a rush to lose your virginity. But if you're really ready, only you know how to talk to your guy. You know him better than any of us. Just ask yourself, "do I usually approach him with whatever questions I have, or do I have to subliminally suggest things?" Do what you normally do when asking him for what you want. If you can be direct with him, be direct and ask, if you can't be direct, just subtly suggest sexual things to him and see how he responds. Just handle the situation with your best judgment.
Hope that helps.

And to the rest of you posters, some of you kids really need to learn how the laws work. You can't tell someone in a different state or even a different city that something in your area is illegal when it may not be illegal in theirs. Your city and state should have websites where you can look up whichever law you're questioning. Educate yourselves.

[mammolito96]

its been like a month, just take it slow and ask him what he thinks about it... its not a big issue if you just talk to him about

if you're legally of age next year, does that mean you're like 14? (in that case i'd say wait it out, if your bf isn't ready i don't think its a big deal to wait a while; you don't need to lose your virginity that young)

[Liam TWB]

Maybe the best time to talk about it is when youre physically close (maybe lying together on your bed or something) and not when the situation is more kind of formal and 'face to face'. I don't think there's any easy answer as to whether he's the right one, it's the right time etc - but you both have to feel relaxed enough (and prepared enough) to let it happen and enjoy it. Before you get to full sex, there are other ways to make each other feel good - even just giving each other a helping hand for instance. Good luck and enjoy your relationship :)

[KoolKid96]

I am 15 now but can wait till i am 16 (which i become next month)

U shd wait imo

[Fireangel]

So i have a boyfriend and we have been together since 02/12/13 and i want sex. Now i can wait till old enough which is next month but i don't know how to ask him. What do i do? Somebody help me?!

How old are you both?

[Collins1]

I take it the date is UK format, so that's less than a month together?
Personally, i would wait to you are both legally allowed to do it, but if your willing to take the risk, discuss it with him and see what he thinks.