Sunny But Cold
February 11th, 2008, 11:39 AM
Well, let me tell you the back story. We've been dating for quite a while now. I really haven't met her parents. Well, her mom works at the same place as I do. Or should I say I work at the same place she does, anyways, that doesn't matter. Yeah, so, her dad is rather controlling. She's 17, now, you would think that a 17 year old would have alot more freedom then she does have. She's not allowed to do things on school nights, and if she does, she has to be in by 9. Speaking of which, this Thursday (Valentines Day), we're not even allowed to go out, we have to wait until Friday. Okay so back to my story.
Anyways, about a month ago, she had called me, and we were on the phone for about an hour (Her phone is dumb and only lasts about an hour if it's fully charged), so after we hung up, she messaged my cell phone and asked me if she'd be able to see me. We ended up agreeing on that I'd go over there and we'd just hang out outside and talk. So we did, but it was like 2 in the morning. Since her parents don't let us see eachother whenever we want. We have to do things like that. So, we were outside for about 25 minutes just talking and what not. And then we see the outside light turn on. And then the door open. And sure enough, it's her dad. He freaked out. He yelled and told her to get her ass inside and that we shouldnt start this "shit" at 3 in the morning.
So, I get home, and then the phone rings. I answer, and she is on the phone fully in tears. She's crying non stop, of course, I ask her what's wrong. She tells me that she got yelled at and he hit her across the head and lightly punched her in the chest. To make a long story short, I told her she needed to get out of there. But she didn't want to. Because she was afraid of what he would do after he found out she left. We talked on the phone for about a half hour more and then it started to die. And I didn't know what to do. I couldn't just go over there, she couldn't just leave. It really sucked. So we ended up constantly messaging eachother back and fourth. I was trying to convince her to leave because she didn't need anymore of this shit to happen. But, She said she had to stay and that it would be a bad idea if she left because he knew where she'd go and what not.
Now, a few weeks later. I found out that he hit her again. I was pissed off. But, I can't do anything. I don't know what to do. This guy is a prick. She hates him, he's a really controlling guy. I mean, how are you supposed to eventually trust someone if you're not letting them out doing stuff that they want to do? I can understand at the being home around 9 part. On a school night, but, I don't understand why he cannot just let her be, and live her life. He knows that we both really care for eachother, and that I wouldn't do anything to hurt her. Hell, I can't even yell at her without laughing afterwards, and I can't even hit her, trust me, i've tried while we were screwing around. But, I wouldn't actually hit her.
And now I picked her up after work the other night, and since we don't get to see eachother all that often, we were in the car for about 10 minutes after I got to her house. She got inside, and he decided to hit her on the arm saying that i'm not allowed to pick her up anymore because we spend too much time in the car after we get to her house. It's really frustrating. And I have no idea what to do. She won't leave because she is afraid of what her dad will do to her brothers and sister if she does leave. And she's there to protect them.
I know it's a long read, but thanks.
Anyways, about a month ago, she had called me, and we were on the phone for about an hour (Her phone is dumb and only lasts about an hour if it's fully charged), so after we hung up, she messaged my cell phone and asked me if she'd be able to see me. We ended up agreeing on that I'd go over there and we'd just hang out outside and talk. So we did, but it was like 2 in the morning. Since her parents don't let us see eachother whenever we want. We have to do things like that. So, we were outside for about 25 minutes just talking and what not. And then we see the outside light turn on. And then the door open. And sure enough, it's her dad. He freaked out. He yelled and told her to get her ass inside and that we shouldnt start this "shit" at 3 in the morning.
So, I get home, and then the phone rings. I answer, and she is on the phone fully in tears. She's crying non stop, of course, I ask her what's wrong. She tells me that she got yelled at and he hit her across the head and lightly punched her in the chest. To make a long story short, I told her she needed to get out of there. But she didn't want to. Because she was afraid of what he would do after he found out she left. We talked on the phone for about a half hour more and then it started to die. And I didn't know what to do. I couldn't just go over there, she couldn't just leave. It really sucked. So we ended up constantly messaging eachother back and fourth. I was trying to convince her to leave because she didn't need anymore of this shit to happen. But, She said she had to stay and that it would be a bad idea if she left because he knew where she'd go and what not.
Now, a few weeks later. I found out that he hit her again. I was pissed off. But, I can't do anything. I don't know what to do. This guy is a prick. She hates him, he's a really controlling guy. I mean, how are you supposed to eventually trust someone if you're not letting them out doing stuff that they want to do? I can understand at the being home around 9 part. On a school night, but, I don't understand why he cannot just let her be, and live her life. He knows that we both really care for eachother, and that I wouldn't do anything to hurt her. Hell, I can't even yell at her without laughing afterwards, and I can't even hit her, trust me, i've tried while we were screwing around. But, I wouldn't actually hit her.
And now I picked her up after work the other night, and since we don't get to see eachother all that often, we were in the car for about 10 minutes after I got to her house. She got inside, and he decided to hit her on the arm saying that i'm not allowed to pick her up anymore because we spend too much time in the car after we get to her house. It's really frustrating. And I have no idea what to do. She won't leave because she is afraid of what her dad will do to her brothers and sister if she does leave. And she's there to protect them.
I know it's a long read, but thanks.