um.. Interesting

[Zero0]

So my neighbor who is not very attractive offered to give me head after school at my house anytime i wanted... I'm sorta curious if its really worth it and that we could be friends w/ benefits.. or should a friend with benefits actually be attractive? Cause i know im a horny fucking teenager so i jump at the chance to have a girl do something like that to me.. Shes not a slut either or anything. From what i understand she wants to just make out, to practice, and to give me head so she could get better at making out and bj's. im aroused but yet a little apprehensive as to whether or not i should go through with this.. It would be completely between us and no one would know.. Id just like being able to be that guy that got head before a lot of others.. Should i go through or no? Reasons? Thanks xD

[Waleedbt]

If you're okay with it.. Then why not?

[Miri]

It depends on your reasons. You could either

1. Just do it and be able to say you're more experienced then a lot of others, as well as probably have a good time.

OR

2. Save it for someone who you are genuinely attracted to and care about, and have it be something really special as oppose to it just being from a friend with benefits.

So, you could really go either way, but it depends on what you want to get out of it.

[Cassius]

I strongly think that you should not. Although I don't condone masturbation necessarily, I would say that you should masturbate over the blow job. Wait for either marriage or long term relationship to do sexual acts.

[Zero0]

Um sorry cassius but I'm not waiting that long lol.. well I Wana do it but my biggest concern is.. I know it sounds shallow but if people find out I would be so ashamed as to if it was someone.. hot.. Also I fear that she might start liking me ttrying to start a relationship or something since I feel like she's liked me since 2nd grade.. I just act like idk

[ashdyn]

You got to be honest with yourself first. She's not attractive...but are you attractive enough to realistically get a FWB better than her. Let's just say you're a solid 6 but you're kinda on the shyer side (shy enough to not ask a girl straight up if she wants to give you head) then I'd say go for it. BUT you gotta be very very VERY clear with her that it DOESN'T mean y'all are dating and there's ZERO chance of that.

[Zero0]

Oh I'm definitely attractive enough but the problem is there's no girls that would want to.. I mean most of the ones in my town my age haven't even gotten past a first kiss.. my town Is reasonably sheltered from everything loll so that's why even if she's not attractive I think doing it would be a decent Idea xD

[Living For Love]

It's up to you, really. It was her that brought the idea, so you don't have to mind much about it. Just make clear in the beginning you're only friends with benefits, and don't be afraid to say "No" if she wants a serious relationship with you.

[maxtazm]

if she is disgustingly unattractive then dont do it but if she is just a 5 or 6 then why not get some more experience.

[ashdyn]

Gotta keep that ish on the down low then. Lol you don't wanna get the reputation as the guy that hooks up with ugly chicks. Just another thing to consider lmao