curiosity and experimenting

[austeen2]

Hey guys, this is for mainly the straight guys.. so Im gay in the closet and I really wanna experiment with some of my straight friends before I do come out.
Im worried that I'd be labelled faggot etc if i ask them.. so what are straight guys that have or havent experimented view it?

[kinger]

I dont really know what to tell you man me and my straight buddy have experiment many times, but i dont really remember how we started. I guess you just gotta bring it up with you close friends and see how it goes. Do push it tho

[Living For Love]

You can do it the classic way, arrange a sleepover or something, and then just suggest it to him. Make sure you're really close friends, though.

[sixonethree]

I always wish I had experimented. As long as you guys are close, I'm sure it would be fine.

[austeen2]

By what I mean close its more like he's attached to me at school (and I am too but dont want to make it too obvious to others cos people might catch on and im in the closet) we seem to chat and once we got changed together into our sports uniform at school for some event. The thing is that he rarely ever starts fb convos and its always me so Im not sure if he doesnt want to talk on facebook or whatever. Neither of us have been to eachothers house which i really want to but dont know how to start - Its the summer holidays so theres no school so barely talk to him now :(

I dont really know what to tell you man me and my straight buddy have experiment many times, but i dont really remember how we started. I guess you just gotta bring it up with you close friends and see how it goes. Do push it tho

Where/in what situation were you in?
I guess experimenting and stuff isnt planned is it?

[Lil.k8]

You need to get him to a party. all of the girls I've gotten to play with play with me Ive just got drunk with them, and as the night went on I just flirt with them by small touches and giggles. After a bit move away from the crowd a bit, give them a drink, go for a bit of a walk with them, and when ur somewhere isolated sit down and keep scootching towards them. lay on them a little, touch their hands/fingers, rest ur head on there neck and start with little nibbles and kisses

[austeen2]

You need to get him to a party. all of the girls I've gotten to play with play with me Ive just got drunk with them, and as the night went on I just flirt with them by small touches and giggles. After a bit move away from the crowd a bit, give them a drink, go for a bit of a walk with them, and when ur somewhere isolated sit down and keep scootching towards them. lay on them a little, touch their hands/fingers, rest ur head on there neck and start with little nibbles and kisses

Most of my mates including him arent the ones that have parties w/ alcohol etc. Sometimes we do drink but that is really discreet without parental knowledge about it

what do others think?

[Bengiggity]

i have never asked its just we are really close and we trust each other loads

[austeen2]

i have never asked its just we are really close and we trust each other loads


but how do you get to the point of experimenting? it would just be totally random right?

[Willweston]

i dont no you would have to carefull as to who you pick because unless there a really good friend they might not or would be call you a faggot! :S

[Bengiggity]

but how do you get to the point of experimenting? it would just be totally random right?

no i have only done it with really close mates what u say to them is i need a wank and see what there reply is and if its no wait a bit and say it again

[Forsakenbymyself]

I'd suggest you do not ask your current friends, rather try meeting new people.

[austeen2]

Has the situation where you're watching porn with some other guys then start wanking and sucking etc work?

I'm thinking of sleepover but the thing is, at age of 15/16 are sleepovers a bit too young for us? and also, my parents are home all the time so i guess theres no opportunity to experiemnt

[Living For Love]

The thing is, in order to experiment, you need to be with in in a discrete place, a house, for example, so the thing is you could invite him to your house when your parents weren't there, not a sleepover, just a friend coming to your house. Or he could invite you to his house, either ways can work. Make sure you are a good friend of him, someone he can really trust. The guy I've experimented with, we were friends for almost 5 years.

Then, you two could start doing something fun (watching a movie, playing video games, etc...) and then you could ask him if he wanted to watch porn or jerk off, something like that. And then things could develop from there.

[austeen2]

The thing is, in order to experiment, you need to be with in in a discrete place, a house, for example, so the thing is you could invite him to your house when your parents weren't there, not a sleepover, just a friend coming to your house. Or he could invite you to his house, either ways can work. Make sure you are a good friend of him, someone he can really trust. The guy I've experimented with, we were friends for almost 5 years.

Then, you two could start doing something fun (watching a movie, playing video games, etc...) and then you could ask him if he wanted to watch porn or jerk off, something like that. And then things could develop from there.

I'm dying for that but my parents are home 24/7.. I'm dying to go to his house but not sure how i can "Invite myself" to ones house

[Cologuy]

Me and a budy, new each other for a few months and he came over to spend the night. Way late in the night, some soft core stuff came on and we decided to watch it, a little truth or dare and suddenly we were experimenting with each other, have been doing it for years, much less than we used to, but still do. Try something similar!

btw it's not sleepovers after 13, it's nocturnally extended hanging out ;)

[jayjay's toocool]

Um. Say I wanna do this

[Pyrotheseus]

There are ways to hint at it and see if they want to without coming right out and saying it.

[fordgtguy]

if youre in high school dont come out you will get bullied but in university people dont care

[AlexOnToast]

Just kinda drop hints, and maybe try the sleepover thing...watch some porn together and see where that takes you XD

[Robinblake]

I agree with you unfortunately thay migt happen

[CostumerServiceGuy]

Well, i'm bisexual, and the only people who know are my gf, my parents, and my BEST friend. I do have a gf, but I like to experiment with boys and I have had sex with a boy!

[Fireangel]

Hey guys, this is for mainly the straight guys.. so Im gay in the closet and I really wanna experiment with some of my straight friends before I do come out.
Im worried that I'd be labelled faggot etc if i ask them.. so what are straight guys that have or havent experimented view it?

Many straight kids also like to experiment, In fact I know four straight friends who have experienced with other boys (gay, bi or straight boys). It´s common among adolescents. How old are you?

[Robinblake]

Yeah id just invite him over. Man id love to experiment with somekne but it seems kinda impossible.

[Fireangel]

Yeah id just invite him over. Man id love to experiment with somekne but it seems kinda impossible.

Cool !... Nothing impossible my friend. :)

[JollyToes]

My vote is for a sleepover w ur best buddy and "accidentally" find one of ur dads vids. Then maybe tell him ur getting turned on and asks if he minds if you get more comfortable.