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TheStyleGuy
December 15th, 2013, 10:33 AM
What are the best ways to make your attentions clear when talking to a girl? As in how to you make it so she knows your trying to get you to like her rather than just be friends. Also what are some things to avoid doing if you want to make it clear you dont want to become friends but something more.
background info:
So i talk to a majority of the girls in my grade and i have a simple friendship with them so i dont need advice on how to approach or spark a conversation. What i need is flirting tips xD
joshmz
December 15th, 2013, 11:45 AM
Just compliment them on things and so on lol.
MissSocks
December 15th, 2013, 12:09 PM
First off, half the 'signs' happen naturally. If you have friendships with girls, and you like one of them, then you will automatically become more nervous around her, pay more attention to her, you're not sure what to say etc. Even if you think you're hiding all those things, it will always come through a bit and if a girl is interested in you as well she'll notice.
And then it's just giving her attention, giving her compliments, you know, just being extra nice. Always make sure it doesn't become creepy though, if she clearly doesn't show interest after a while then kind of stop xD but I think that should be obvious for most people.
And then the biggest tip of all! I know this will sound really silly, but the best thing is to get your hands on a girls magazine that explains signs about boys. Or find something like it on the internet, but make sure it's meant for girls. Because trust me, even though some of those things the magazines say are completely stupid, it is what girls search for, wether they are doing it consciously or not.
Okay that's about everything I can think of now xD
TheStyleGuy
December 15th, 2013, 01:37 PM
First off, half the 'signs' happen naturally. If you have friendships with girls, and you like one of them, then you will automatically become more nervous around her, pay more attention to her, you're not sure what to say etc. Even if you think you're hiding all those things, it will always come through a bit and if a girl is interested in you as well she'll notice.
And then it's just giving her attention, giving her compliments, you know, just being extra nice. Always make sure it doesn't become creepy though, if she clearly doesn't show interest after a while then kind of stop xD but I think that should be obvious for most people.
And then the biggest tip of all! I know this will sound really silly, but the best thing is to get your hands on a girls magazine that explains signs about boys. Or find something like it on the internet, but make sure it's meant for girls. Because trust me, even though some of those things the magazines say are completely stupid, it is what girls search for, wether they are doing it consciously or not.
Okay that's about everything I can think of now xD
so i guess im doing everything right according to you, just gotta find someone thats interested back...
HeyMrsTambourine
December 15th, 2013, 03:27 PM
Ask after her. Be interested in her life and hobbies. Girls love feeling they're important to someone.
As a girl, I know what I'm talking about.
Waleedbt
December 15th, 2013, 10:18 PM
Ask after her. Be interested in her life and hobbies. Girls love feeling they're important to someone.
As a girl, I know what I'm talking about.
This! always tell them to take care... ( thats what i've been told anyway ) , tell her that you miss her, even though you've seen her yesterday.
Austins
December 16th, 2013, 09:52 AM
Just be straight forward haha. And tell her what your intentions really are, people who beat around the bush become friends.
maxtazm
December 17th, 2013, 11:04 PM
no idea how you would make "attention" clear
Miri
December 18th, 2013, 08:20 AM
There is always that little confusion between being just nice and being flirty.
Be nice, lots of compliments, and as others have said, just get interested in them. But... the easiest way to make your attentions clear, and to avoid that confusion, is to just tell them that you're interested.
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