Previous sexual history

[Ricky.h]

So guys & girls how do you feel about dating someone that was sexual active prior to the relationship?


For me: I'm fortunate that me and my gf were both virgins...she never did anything (like oral) but I ate multiple girls out and received head several times, but as far as sex she was my first and maybe I'm being a little bit of a hypocrite but if hypothetically she wasn't a virgin and I was it would be kinda strange because of the fact there was a dude before me, but I would want her to accept the fact I fucked another girl if the roles were switched lol

So how do you feel about it?

[Short Circuit]

To me, her past is no concern of mine, only that she is dating me and only me. Just like my past is no concern of hers, however, you know your in trouble if she starts comparing you to previous boyfriends

[Swagging god]

Ricky.h, I like u lost my virginity to my gf at the time, who was also a virgin. I personally prefer being a girl's " first" when it comes to vaginal/anal sex or even cunnillingus and fellatio. However, if I was a virgin and she wasn't to me it is not a dealbreaker.

As long as she remains faithful to me while in the relationship. Also that the number of guys she has had intercourse with doesn't exceed 9 and she isn't flirting with or comparing me to her ex/previous sexual partners.

[nklarke]

It's quite normal. Historically, men wanted always virgin and girls preferred experimented men. Nowadays, in Islamic societies women has to prove that she's still virgin to get married.

[Hollywood]

Well, at my age, most girls I date are probably going to have some sort of past. I really don't expect a girl I go out with to be a virgin, it's no big deal.

[cherylcherylX2]

So guys & girls how do you feel about dating someone that was sexual active prior to the relationship?


For me: I'm fortunate that me and my gf were both virgins...she never did anything (like oral) but I ate multiple girls out and received head several times, but as far as sex she was my first and maybe I'm being a little bit of a hypocrite but if hypothetically she wasn't a virgin and I was it would be kinda strange because of the fact there was a dude before me, but I would want her to accept the fact I fucked another girl if the roles were switched lol

So how do you feel about it?

That's kind of mysoginistic of you though.

[HadesLady]

To me, her past is no concern of mine, only that she is dating me and only me. Just like my past is no concern of hers, however, you know your in trouble if she starts comparing you to previous boyfriends

LOL. Exactly what he said.:coolthumb:

[CheekyLinda]

Pshh, I don't get why you guys are so hung up on a girl having sexual experience before dating you. She's not a trophy you'll "win", and you're not going to fuck with her previous sexual partners XD

[hoboliz]

Condoms and birth control exist now, so this debate from the 1600s doesn't have to keep happening.

[Daniella98]

I could easily date a person with prior sexual history or (an experienced lover). I dont see anything wrong in sexual history. In my oppinion that just way too jealous. I've been around too. Im not hoping to live alone then

[Luminous]

As long as it stays in the past, I don't care.

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[jackthorpe]

i dont mind if a girl has prior history and long as they were safe and she is clean and tested as i also have history (but am clean and tested)

[Waleedbt]

Well where i come from ( not what my information states ) , girls are virgin till marriage, and same goes to guys, we can't date, kiss, or do any sexual interactions with another person , its forbidden, but to be honest, since i studied in a private school, we could kiss and date but VERY secretly!

So to me, well, i want to marry someone who is a virgin.
But dating... Well.. I havent dated yet, so i would say that i dont care.

[Miri]

As long as their business stays in the past. Also, I would want my partner to be tested to know about anything we should be cautious about.

Plus, the older we get, the more likely it becomes that our partners will have had some previous sexual history.

[Melodic]

It's the past, it wouldn't worry me unless it was continuing on and on.

[ashdyn]

You're kind of a douche lol if you slut around you'd want her to accept that and move on but you'd feel weird if the situation was reversed? Not fair lmao

My girlfriend and I both weren't virgins when we started dating and I def had a bit of a reputation by that time. I kind of knew both her ex's just as acquaintances so it wasn't that weird...I guess cause I knew what I would be compared to (even though there shouldn't even be a comparison happening). At the beginning she gave me a little bit of crap for slutting around but never really asked for details or anything thank god. All I really talked about with her about my past sexual experiences were to set the record straight on some rumors that weren't true. We don't really think about it.

[Kevindbzoneill]

If anything it could be better if the girl has some experience.. Assuming she hasnt any STi's It can be a good thing.. I've been with virgins and with some with experience.. Experience makes the sex better

[ewht]

I don't care as long it is all history.

[newyorkgoldengirl]

Having a past I find that it's better to live and let go. Eventually we all will get to that age where most of our partners will have had sex or have done something sexual with a partner in their past. But if a person is a virgin that's also ok with me :)

[Myxox]

The past is the past, as long as you're both safe.

[PinkFloyd]

Niether of us had done anything before we became official.

[highschool]

i could care less, and you shouldn't either. As you get older, the chances of being with a virgin are slim to none.

[newkler]

past is past, its okay as long as i'm not his 100th time