Am I turning different ?

[Melkor]

A year has passed since I last posted anything here but I just realized something is changing within me and I found no better place than VT. When the new school year began in September I was already in love with a girl and after I realized that she had a boyfriend, I gave up and started hanging out with friends but recently I lost all my sexual attraction; nothing turns me on, masturbating and porn disgusts me and I don't get boners for anything. I have no idea what suddenly happened to me.... Am I turning asexual ? Is it possible for a person to turn asexual suddenly or is it a choice ? There is also another thing i fell in love with one of my best friend and now I have a very strong romantic relationship ( No sexual attraction, at least I don't think so ) with him and I wanted to ask whether you consider this gay or not ?

[Brice]

You were in love with a girl. Did you have any sexual feelings towards her? You might be subconsciously holding back those feelings due to the fact that you lost a love. They may come back after a while of continuing your relationship with the guy. The sexual things, not the girl feelings.

[Melkor]

Yes, I had sexual feelings towards her and back then I was both sexually and emotionally attracted to girls and only emotionally attracted to guys but right now I have no sexual attraction.

[Brice]

Then I do think that in time, they'll return. I went through a period like that once. I'm definitely not asexual now :)

[RavleIncarnate]

I get turned on by guys, however I have feelings for a girl at school. Like, strong ones. ( I described what I did in another post about how you've reacted to sexual thoughts) does this mean that I'm bisexual? Or is it just a 'phase' or what not?

[RavleIncarnate]

Oh thanks a lot. I'm really confused. I swear my grandmothers house is haunted. I trippped over something cold, wet and slimy earlier tonight but when I looked there was nothing there. And I see ghosts. Have my whole life. Wait... There qas some rustling outside. But the alarms are on?! I'm officially creeped out. And I'm a guy obsessed with death, darkness, horror and anything with a scythe.

[RavleIncarnate]

Hey, there's one soul that's been following me my whole life. I played with her when I was like 2, she knows I can see her, I'm not scared of her, she's a better friend than some people at school. And about the death obsession, I am happy, I just find it interesting to know how people die, and have you seen my avatar? Yeah, that is really my halloween costume.

[RavleIncarnate]

You won't know all this if you look at me though; I've got a lot of people who say I could have been james maslow's younger twin. Hell, even have is voice! Darn puberty. I'm about 1.65 metres, tanned, clear face, worked out body. I really don't look like I'm that amazed by death.

[RavleIncarnate]

Sorry forgot my signature

[RavleIncarnate]

I'm just a normal morbidly obsessed smartass guy with an amazing body who fan see ghosts and has almost no ectothanecrophobia( deathly fear of ghosts, death,and such things) that's what I call it, cause I don't know the real name for that. Its just a jumble of latin-related english.

[RavleIncarnate]

Hahaha... Got me laughing. I don't even like ghostbusters! You're really funny, you know. Just like I'm really weird.