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crazyguy123
December 14th, 2013, 05:52 AM
I have a girlfriend that doesn't seem to ever talk to me, I have talked to her about it and she said she will change but never does.. I talk to my mates and her friends and they say she has terrible conversation skills.. How do I break it to her that I can't go on like this

Body odah Man
December 14th, 2013, 06:15 AM
If you truly love her you're going to have to live with the problem sadly. If not, it sucks but might mean you 2 just are't compatible

crazyguy123
December 14th, 2013, 06:18 AM
If you truly love her you're going to have to live with the problem sadly. If not, it sucks but might mean you 2 just are't compatible



So how do I tell her that nicely

WeAreOneRepublic
December 14th, 2013, 06:57 AM
Tell her you find it hard to talk to here and you think you should just stay friends.

Body odah Man
December 14th, 2013, 07:22 AM
So how do I tell her that nicely

Try talking to her. Tell her how you love her but a relationship with barely any social interaction sin't really working out and how it's you not her. Basically try to work things out and if you can't break it to her gently. Best advice I have mate-sorry.

Melodic
December 14th, 2013, 05:11 PM
Well as a girl who also has bad communication skills, I'd say try to work it out with her and see where the problem is landing. And if you really love her, you'll accept the fact she is the way she is. But if you can't accept it, then there's no point on going on with the relationship.

skiman
December 14th, 2013, 05:15 PM
say just what you said: I can't go on like this.

Saint
December 14th, 2013, 06:53 PM
I'm more curious on to how you two even started dating,lol. If it started happening after that,there probably is something else that's wrong. Try talking to her and ask if there's anything that's bothering her. If you've went with it this far,I'm sure trying again in a different approach would be still worthwhile.

teen.jpg
December 14th, 2013, 07:22 PM
I'm sure that won't help her situation. She's your girlfriend, you're dating her for a reason. Ask her about it before you go and dump her.

Cassius
December 15th, 2013, 12:38 AM
Who said he truly loved her?

ashdyn
December 17th, 2013, 04:01 AM
Maybe you guys just aren't compatible...

but her friends said she's awksauce with them too lol maybe she's like shy
Try initiating the conversation.

Miri
December 17th, 2013, 08:39 AM
Maybe you could try doing something about it. You could talk to her again, or you could be the one to initiate a conversation. You could also try talking through text/messaging her, to see if it's easier for her to communicate that way. If you've tried all of that, then maybe try planning activities for you to do together that are just you two alone, and see if it's easier for her to talk to you privately.

But, if you really aren't happy, then you two may just not be compatible if you feel that the relationship is going no where. I would tell her that you can't do the "no talking" thing anymore, but if you really like her at least give her a chance to do something serious about it.

dazzawazza
December 20th, 2013, 07:38 PM
Just turn round to her and say relationships revolve around communication and love and the best way to show love is through communication. Texting,sexting and phone calls are things that you should be dong untill late at night