younger sister

[Gogirl99]

My younger sister (13) came up to me the other day and asked me about masturbation. She said she had heard girls talking about it at school and wanted to try it. She asked me if I'd show her how...I kind of brushed it off, but I think she deserves to know how good it feels, should I show her, and if I do, do I show her on myself or what? I would be comfortable mbating in front of her, I would just have to make sure she is too I guess, any advice?

[melissa13]

Go for it, it very normal among many sisters

[bethgirl1986]

only if she really really wants you to and if she doesn't tell anybody. Even then, I would only tell her. I wouldn't show her or touch her.

[Blood]

It's really good that your sister trusts you enough to talk about this with you. And yeah, go ahead and show her how if she's really interested and you're comfortable with it. If you're not comfortable showing her you can always just talk to her about it.

[jessica0160]

My younger sister (13) came up to me the other day and asked me about masturbation. She said she had heard girls talking about it at school and wanted to try it. She asked me if I'd show her how...I kind of brushed it off, but I think she deserves to know how good it feels, should I show her, and if I do, do I show her on myself or what? I would be comfortable mbating in front of her, I would just have to make sure she is too I guess, any advice?

just tell her not show her

[Katiya]

If she wants you to show her go ahead. Just don't bring any penetration into it as she's probably too young and could damage her self physically. Down there doesn't develop fully until about 15-16. But 13 is not too young. Quite normal actually.

Other ways you can just tell her about it. She will figure it out eventually, everyone does lol

[cheergurl]

My older sis showed me when I was 11 and it was a little awkward at first but i loved it and im so glad she did. We have blurred lines i guess u could say... she showed me by touching herself, and then me. She brought me to my first O... and the next 5.. or 10 lol. We still do it together and I wouldn't change it. Good luck!

[Pensive]

My older sis showed me when I was 11 and it was a little awkward at first but i loved it and im so glad she did. We have blurred lines i guess u could say... she showed me by touching herself, and then me. She brought me to my first O... and the next 5.. or 10 lol. We still do it together and I wouldn't change it. Good luck!

How did she make you O each time? Sounds incredible, having your own personal helper who is always in your house xD. i think if my older sister did that to me, I'd fall too deeply in love with her lol... We already are close like girlfriends... If she were to touch my pussy I'd probably ask her to marry me...

But then I'm a freak so, how did it change your relationship?

If she wants you to show her go ahead. Just don't bring any penetration into it as she's probably too young and could damage her self physically. Down there doesn't develop fully until about 15-16. But 13 is not too young. Quite normal actually.

Other ways you can just tell her about it. She will figure it out eventually, everyone does lol

Sorry but that's nonsense. So long as you use an appropriately sized object for your age and go slowly, it is already developed and she won't 'damage' herself. Besides who said penetration?


In answer to OP, tell her to take a bath and relax, then leave her to explore herself in her room. If she has any questions she can ask you after. Best advice - Relax, be gentle, and take it slow (:

[Brighteyes]

I was extremely lucky in having an older sister who more or less taught me everything whilst I was growing up and was naturally being very inquisitive.

I guess it also helped in having a very forthright, open, and honest mother who I could go to at any time if I also needed answers to anything, and who encouraged me to explore my own rapidly developing body.

In my own honest opinion sisters should always be there for each other, so on that basis I say you should help your younger sister perhaps by firstly answering all her questions and then slowly moving onto showing her all the various aspects of self pleasuring (masturbation).

I would like to think that most girls who have younger sisters would agree with me that this would be considered totally normal and acceptable.

[tigress90]

I wish I had a closer relationship with my sister. Unfortunately we don't get along. Then again she is hard to get a long with. I see nothing wrong with what you're doing though.

[mai-rin]

I dont have a sister to discuss stuff or anything else for the matter

[Mich015]

A few years ago, i was the younger sister asking my older sister for help because i really didnt know what i was doing. She masturbated with me an showed me on herself while i followed along on myself. That was all just on the clit. When i tried fingering myself it really hurt cuz i wasn't doing it right, so she fingered me to show me how to do it. I am so greatful to have such a great older sister!! Now my younger brother askes me for advise on masturbation and im happy to help.

[emily-candace]

I would explain it to her and let her learn on her own, she may not want to experiment with it yet. some girls never do. and it may scare her too.

[Daniella98]

I think she would be happy if you show her. I wouldnt hessitate if my sister, also 13, asked me. Depends on the relationship i guess. My sister found out somehow. Easy to hear...

[Forsakenbymyself]

Go ahead and teach her how to. Just make it clear that it's a private thing and she should not speak to anyone about it.

[Luminous]

If you think she would benefit most from you and not from learning on the internet or something, yes you should show her. but you should emphasize first that this is just to teach her and that there is nothing going on between you, and that it's best if this stays quiet. Emphasize anything that would make you uncomfortable - you won't touch each other, share toys, whatever it is.

[Sandra Main]

Yes you should help your younger sister
and show her. I wish i had a older sister that i could be close to to help me.
Going through puberty maybe hard for some of us but getting help
from a older sister makes it a little easier .

[Kelsey1031]

As long as you are both comfortable with it you can show her how. I had an older cousin (she's like a big sister to me) teach me.

[kimmyval]

why not... i think you are both comfortable to learn m'bating, so it's OK to teach your younger sister, since she is curious, and i feel that her sexual side was about to open, haha!!!

[CheekyLinda]

I don't see any problem with you showing her on yourself, just make sure she understands the intimacy of the act and that you're only doing as a sisterly gesture

[llina]

My older sis showed me when I was 11 and it was a little awkward at first but i loved it and im so glad she did. We have blurred lines i guess u could say... she showed me by touching herself, and then me. She brought me to my first O... and the next 5.. or 10 lol. We still do it together and I wouldn't change it. Good luck!
I had a similar experience with my sister. No big deal :cool:

[jessicaann]

My 2 younger sisters are 12 and 14 now. They know they can ask me anything. I have told them and demonstrated masturbating. Sometimes we do it in front of each other. I want them to learn what they want and especially to enjoy.

[KellyNC]

I actually showed my sister as well, when I was 14 and she was 11. after she asked. I don't think there's anything wrong with going on and showing her how to yourself if you two are both comfortable. We've done it more sense, though never gone further, and I think it allowed for us to have a more open and honest dialogue about those sorts of things.

[jenna123]

when i asked my older sister she told me how to do it and talked me about it. But she never really showed me on herself. I was told how to do it, and then it was from my own experience that i learned

[thatgothgirluknow]

i taught my sister last year but thinking of it now it just seems akward though it didnt at the time

[Gogirl99]

It's really good that your sister trusts you enough to talk about this with you. And yeah, go ahead and show her how if she's really interested and you're comfortable with it. If you're not comfortable showing her you can always just talk to her about it.

just tell her not show her

If she wants you to show her go ahead. Just don't bring any penetration into it as she's probably too young and could damage her self physically. Down there doesn't develop fully until about 15-16. But 13 is not too young. Quite normal actually.

Other ways you can just tell her about it. She will figure it out eventually, everyone does lol

My older sis showed me when I was 11 and it was a little awkward at first but i loved it and im so glad she did. We have blurred lines i guess u could say... she showed me by touching herself, and then me. She brought me to my first O... and the next 5.. or 10 lol. We still do it together and I wouldn't change it. Good luck!

How did she make you O each time? Sounds incredible, having your own personal helper who is always in your house xD. i think if my older sister did that to me, I'd fall too deeply in love with her lol... We already are close like girlfriends... If she were to touch my pussy I'd probably ask her to marry me...

But then I'm a freak so, how did it change your relationship?



Sorry but that's nonsense. So long as you use an appropriately sized object for your age and go slowly, it is already developed and she won't 'damage' herself. Besides who said penetration?


In answer to OP, tell her to take a bath and relax, then leave her to explore herself in her room. If she has any questions she can ask you after. Best advice - Relax, be gentle, and take it slow (:

I was extremely lucky in having an older sister who more or less taught me everything whilst I was growing up and was naturally being very inquisitive.

I guess it also helped in having a very forthright, open, and honest mother who I could go to at any time if I also needed answers to anything, and who encouraged me to explore my own rapidly developing body.

In my own honest opinion sisters should always be there for each other, so on that basis I say you should help your younger sister perhaps by firstly answering all her questions and then slowly moving onto showing her all the various aspects of self pleasuring (masturbation).

I would like to think that most girls who have younger sisters would agree with me that this would be considered totally normal and acceptable.

I wish I had a closer relationship with my sister. Unfortunately we don't get along. Then again she is hard to get a long with. I see nothing wrong with what you're doing though.

I dont have a sister to discuss stuff or anything else for the matter

A few years ago, i was the younger sister asking my older sister for help because i really didnt know what i was doing. She masturbated with me an showed me on herself while i followed along on myself. That was all just on the clit. When i tried fingering myself it really hurt cuz i wasn't doing it right, so she fingered me to show me how to do it. I am so greatful to have such a great older sister!! Now my younger brother askes me for advise on masturbation and im happy to help.

I would explain it to her and let her learn on her own, she may not want to experiment with it yet. some girls never do. and it may scare her too.

I think she would be happy if you show her. I wouldnt hessitate if my sister, also 13, asked me. Depends on the relationship i guess. My sister found out somehow. Easy to hear...

Go ahead and teach her how to. Just make it clear that it's a private thing and she should not speak to anyone about it.

If you think she would benefit most from you and not from learning on the internet or something, yes you should show her. but you should emphasize first that this is just to teach her and that there is nothing going on between you, and that it's best if this stays quiet. Emphasize anything that would make you uncomfortable - you won't touch each other, share toys, whatever it is.

Yes you should help your younger sister
and show her. I wish i had a older sister that i could be close to to help me.
Going through puberty maybe hard for some of us but getting help
from a older sister makes it a little easier .

As long as you are both comfortable with it you can show her how. I had an older cousin (she's like a big sister to me) teach me.

why not... i think you are both comfortable to learn m'bating, so it's OK to teach your younger sister, since she is curious, and i feel that her sexual side was about to open, haha!!!

I don't see any problem with you showing her on yourself, just make sure she understands the intimacy of the act and that you're only doing as a sisterly gesture

My 2 younger sisters are 12 and 14 now. They know they can ask me anything. I have told them and demonstrated masturbating. Sometimes we do it in front of each other. I want them to learn what they want and especially to enjoy.

I actually showed my sister as well, when I was 14 and she was 11. after she asked. I don't think there's anything wrong with going on and showing her how to yourself if you two are both comfortable. We've done it more sense, though never gone further, and I think it allowed for us to have a more open and honest dialogue about those sorts of things.

when i asked my older sister she told me how to do it and talked me about it. But she never really showed me on herself. I was told how to do it, and then it was from my own experience that i learned

I haven't been able to get on VT for a while, but I just wanted to give everyone an update to what I decided to do. I went into her room one night after my parents were asleep and asked her if she still needed help masturbating. She said she had kinda figured it out but wasn't sure if she was doing it right. She asked if she could show me how she was doing it and I could tell her if it was right and she began to show me. I'm not gonna tell any more story, but basically she had it kinda wrong, I told her where to put her fingers and showed her where her clit was then gave her some of my lube because she wasn't making enough naturally to really rub. I don't regret my decision to help her out and I think she is very grateful for it and the other day she said she had an orgasm, and by the way she described it, I don't think she's lying. thanks for all ur advice guys!!

[carissaurus]

My younger sister (13) came up to me the other day and asked me about masturbation. She said she had heard girls talking about it at school and wanted to try it. She asked me if I'd show her how...I kind of brushed it off, but I think she deserves to know how good it feels, should I show her, and if I do, do I show her on myself or what? I would be comfortable mbating in front of her, I would just have to make sure she is too I guess, any advice?

I would tell her how to do it, because it's different for everybodyy anyway. What feels good for you might not feel as good for her. There's different techniques, pressures, and speeds.

[Shailene]

I'm on the fence on this one....would offer the sex ed advice, and maybe show her, but wouldn't directly touch her

[photogirl]

yeah help her out no big deal. my friends older sister show their younger brother how to masterbate himself so. any more question maybe i can help

[stepht]

I think if you're both comfortable with it no harm. I don't have a sister so can't say for sure but had a similar experience with my younger brother and it was all good.

[sweet_girl24au]

I haven't been able to get on VT for a while, but I just wanted to give everyone an update to what I decided to do. I went into her room one night after my parents were asleep and asked her if she still needed help masturbating. She said she had kinda figured it out but wasn't sure if she was doing it right. She asked if she could show me how she was doing it and I could tell her if it was right and she began to show me. I'm not gonna tell any more story, but basically she had it kinda wrong, I told her where to put her fingers and showed her where her clit was then gave her some of my lube because she wasn't making enough naturally to really rub. I don't regret my decision to help her out and I think she is very grateful for it and the other day she said she had an orgasm, and by the way she described it, I don't think she's lying. thanks for all ur advice guys!!

That was a really nice thing to do, i wish I had guidance like that when I was that age! I thought the only way you could do it was with a shower jet :confused:

[ImAurora]

Cool, glad everything worked out.

[hotgirlwtits]

I have both a younger and older sister, my younger sister is 12, I did my best to explain it to her and showed her a little bit. The fact that she was comfortable asking me shocked me, but it was the same way with me and my older sister. Personally if she trusts you and you take it slow and start with explaining it I think you will be fine.

[sweet_girl24au]

It's good that she feels comfortable asking you for help!
I wish my sister was like that

[nudiegurl13]

Show her. It's a good way to get close

[stacy1203]

My older sister showed me and taught me how to masturbate, and I'm very greatful for all the help and guidance she's been giving to me.

[Nanael]

Go ofr it ;9 if i had a sister we would have a lot of fun togheter ;)

[radsniper]

go for it

[mDavis97]

Make sure she know what she's getting into first. If she says yes, then just go into your room while you two are alone, and simply do it while she watches.

[Anne323]

yolo :P make it a fun experience for both of you

[Tarannosaurus]

I haven't been able to get on VT for a while, but I just wanted to give everyone an update to what I decided to do. I went into her room one night after my parents were asleep and asked her if she still needed help masturbating. She said she had kinda figured it out but wasn't sure if she was doing it right. She asked if she could show me how she was doing it and I could tell her if it was right and she began to show me. I'm not gonna tell any more story, but basically she had it kinda wrong, I told her where to put her fingers and showed her where her clit was then gave her some of my lube because she wasn't making enough naturally to really rub. I don't regret my decision to help her out and I think she is very grateful for it and the other day she said she had an orgasm, and by the way she described it, I don't think she's lying. thanks for all ur advice guys!!

SInce the OP's problem was solved several months ago, I'm going to lock this thread :locked2: