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Miserabilia
December 13th, 2013, 01:22 PM
That awkward moment when all my friends and most people I know start getting boyfriends/girlfriends....

Why am I so hopeless\? Dx

dreamofdante
December 13th, 2013, 01:46 PM
I'm 18 in about 3 weeks. I feel your pain.

Miserabilia
December 13th, 2013, 03:08 PM
I'm 18 in about 3 weeks. I feel your pain.

:(

It's so annoying because I really dont want to make a reputation of never having a gf. It seems like now or never

dreamofdante
December 13th, 2013, 03:17 PM
:(

It's so annoying because I really dont want to make a reputation of never having a gf. It seems like now or never

I don't know if you'll have a reputation because people just ask if I have a girlfriend yet.

BookSmart
December 13th, 2013, 03:37 PM
:(

It's so annoying because I really dont want to make a reputation of never having a gf. It seems like now or never

It's not now or never. I don't think most people, or at least people like me, will judge you because you've never had a gf before. It's not that big a deal at our age. Your 14, so what's the likelihood of a solid relationship forming and lasting. That being said, I do understand the desire to have a gf. I'm currently single too, but I try not to let it get to me. Sure I think it'd be nice to have that kind of a relationship with someone, but it'll come in time. Also, unless you can drive, you won't be able to take your gf on dates anyways (that is without parental supervison ;)).

MechaSniper
December 13th, 2013, 03:38 PM
I feel you bro. Been alone for a year.

Living For Love
December 14th, 2013, 01:08 PM
I can relate, but you're 14, you still have a long way ahead, don't worry.

fordgtguy
December 14th, 2013, 01:56 PM
lol im 18 every single one of my buds have girlfriends and they always ask me why u dont have one im like i dont care for them at this point in my life. I enjoy doing things i like more like dirt biking and skiing no time for girls

Body odah Man
December 14th, 2013, 01:56 PM
That awkward moment when all my friends and most people I know start getting boyfriends/girlfriends....

Why am I so hopeless\? Dx

18 in 5 weeks-single and virgin. I feel your pain too man. hopefully we'll have some luck soon. Hang in dere.

Fallen_Eagle
December 14th, 2013, 01:59 PM
I'm 17 and I'm starting to feel pressure, but I've decided to ignore that feeling. I recommend you do the same! There's more to life than relationships. And besides that, being single definitely has its perks. I've seen enough relationships to know that this is a fact.

Hollywood
December 14th, 2013, 02:09 PM
I'm eighteen and I've yet to find myself in an actual relationship. You're fourteen, honestly I think that's far too young to have a meaningful relationship anyways. Why waste your time? Just hang in there, as you get older the oppurtunities will come. At fourteen, I really don't think you should worry yourself that much.

Cassius
December 15th, 2013, 12:40 AM
Don't worry about it. If youre getting a girlfriend for the sake of having one, you aren't mature enough for one

Waleedbt
December 15th, 2013, 03:11 PM
Im 18 , never was in a relationship, kinda weird cause ive been hit on by guys :s

Honeslty, i just hang out and have fun, this is done mostly alone, but for some reason couples always want me with them xD!! Its a very weird and awkward situation.
You're young, id enjoy myself , sharing moments is fun, but rare to find the right person.

ashdyn
December 17th, 2013, 03:58 AM
You're 14 chill out lol it'll happen and when it does you can come back hear and bitch about her drama or the fact that you're broke ever since you got a girlfriend. Enjoy being free. Mess around. Date a bunch. Don't be looking to get tied down long term at 14...that's no fun :p

Miri
December 17th, 2013, 08:43 AM
That awkward moment when all my friends and most people I know start getting boyfriends/girlfriends....

Why am I so hopeless\? Dx

You have so much time ahead of you! If you're only 14, then I really wouldn't worry about it. Also, you shouldn't just want a girlfriend/boyfriend for the sake of having one, you should just wait until you find someone you care about enough to want to be in a relationship with them.

Have you tried asking anyone out? Because the chances of you getting a girlfriend are a lot higher if you actually ask some people.

Sanctum
December 17th, 2013, 10:25 AM
No it doesn't suck!!!
It's a freedom which god has dedicated to you.
So enjoy it!

scyth
December 17th, 2013, 03:16 PM
Massively feel your pain. never had a girlfriend either. Really want one, but i'm not going to take anyone for the sake of it. since i was like 13 i've liked a few different girls, asked them all out, not once did they say yes.

This year, i'm liking a different girl, back in march i asked her out, she said not at the minute, i told her again last sunday (over a week ago) that i still liked her and she said that she really just doesnt know, right now, and thats why she said to stay friends (the first time i asked). So the longing feeling is getting so much worse now, because i dont really know how she feels about me, and it seems like she doesnt either.

teen.jpg
December 17th, 2013, 04:25 PM
Same but its whatever at this point. If it happens it happens, if not then what can you do.

thermid
December 17th, 2013, 09:17 PM
That awkward moment when all my friends and most people I know start getting boyfriends/girlfriends....

Why am I so hopeless\? Dx

dude don't worry about it
it seems like it sucks now but it's better to be single than just russhing into a relationship for the sake of one and then realizing that you dont like the person
take it from me: take your time

maxtazm
December 17th, 2013, 11:00 PM
you don't need anyone. and you sound just jealous of your friends success.

dazzawazza
December 18th, 2013, 12:04 PM
Don't feel hopeless. Cause your not! You are just waiting for that special person and when you find that person, you have got to try and get them. It may suck but think the main reason you feel like that is peer pressure so just relax and that person will come to you.

silvafox
December 21st, 2013, 03:30 AM
relax bro... this isnt something you can rush trust me... just carry on with life and let things come together by itself

WeAreOneRepublic
December 22nd, 2013, 10:56 PM
Being in a relationship is a bit harder than one may think. Especially if it isn't right for you.