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Croconaw
December 11th, 2013, 05:06 PM
He is 14 in 9th grade and I am almost 16 in 10th grade. This is my first year at this new school district. I really like this guy and he showed some signs of interest. Well we first met during a martial arts lesson. He never really acknowledged me, but then I saw him in school. Back at the MA lesson that day, he said "Hey! I saw you 1st period" and he sort of smiled a bit.

He always used to talk to me before my first period class in the morning. I remember that some 7th graders walked past us and screamed "is that your girlfriend?"... Shortly there after he start to ignore me completely. My friend asked if I liked him. I did tell the truth and I said yes. I knew if I lied, it'd be obvious.

I even asked him why he ignores me and he said "people will think that you're my girlfriend". (I tried my hardest not to be offended by that)

When I walk past him he always seems to say "I hate you" or "I have nothing to say to you". When he sees me walking to a class, he just turns the other way. He hasn't done that for about two months though. We always seem to make eye contact when we see each other. Even though we don't say anything to each other.

Something that happened is that my instructor told this guy that I liked him. Then he walked over to me and said "For the last time I don't like you!" Then my 12 year old friend (girl) came in and then she screamed "He likes you! He likes you! He likes you!" That caused this guy to just leave. My 12 year old friend insisted that she saw him blush, but I'm not sure if that's true.

Another thing he did was he nicknamed a Pokemon after me. I was angry when I found out because the Pokemon that I was named after was a Grumpig. I'm honestly not sure how to feel about that.

Do you think this person likes me. It's confusing.

MechaSniper
December 11th, 2013, 05:17 PM
It's confusing alright. I'm leaning towards the yes side.

Cassius
December 11th, 2013, 10:59 PM
Ay, he likes you. But if he's being a jerk, it aint worth it

Cygnus
December 11th, 2013, 11:15 PM
Wether he likes you or not he is just outright being a jerk to you because yes, its like back in 3rd grade when kids bullied the girl they liked or something, his actions are immature, so wether he likes you or not he isn't really convenient to be with.

Melodic
December 11th, 2013, 11:22 PM
He likes you, but he's being an awful jerk about it.

MoonMan
December 11th, 2013, 11:52 PM
He likes you, but is too immature to know what to do about it exactly. Instead of growing some stones and trying to make it work he tries to drive you away by being a dick because he's probably scared of rejection or embarrassed.

gliderman
December 12th, 2013, 07:10 AM
Seems like he is pretty much immature !

Blood
December 12th, 2013, 10:59 AM
Whether he likes you or not shouldn't matter. He's being a complete asshole and you should distance yourself from him.

That's part of the problem when it comes to younger guys; the majority of them are too immature to be dating.