Hi, I'm Leo and need help

[DarknessLeo]

First off may I say hello, I'm new here. But I need sone major help. I like a girl who is 15, we have known eachother for a year. We talked last year a bit but not much this year. My good friend(also 15"I'm 13) offered to help me out. He has done very well so far. He told this gi I had a crush on her. She was ok with it and we started texting but then in a large text I said I loved her. She seemed ok with it and didn't say anything to me about it so I thought she was ok with it because love and crush mean the same thing. She aparently told my friend she was freaked out bye this. We talked for another 2 hours and she said shr had to go. Now she won't respond to aby of my texts. She told my friend we could still be friends but didn't want her to text me. I'm still in love with her. How do I correct this?

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Relationship and Dating

[Seemyheart]

Love and crush are not the same thing. love is much deeper and more intense... She's two years older, and she said she wants to be friends, so you have torespect her decisions. Start by apologizing, she may feel more ccomfortable

[SmokyChica]

Love is much more intense than just a crush. She's older and she can see the difference, while you can't because you don't have as much experience being younger. Try apologizing but you should let her have some time to herself and try just being friendly.

[DarknessLeo]

Love and crush are not the same thing. love is much deeper and more intense... She's two years older, and she said she wants to be friends, so you have torespect her decisions. Start by apologizing, she may feel more ccomfortable

No, my friend asked her if we could STILL be friends. She never said we should just be friends. Otherwise thanks.

Love is much more intense than just a crush. She's older and she can see the difference, while you can't because you don't have as much experience being younger. Try apologizing but you should let her have some time to herself and try just being friendly.
Also, I understand that many may see a difference in "crush" and "love", but I cone from great understanding of love and know what I'm talking about. I see crushing , for me at least, as a candy-coated term for true Love. Most everybody I know does not conprehend what true love is and makes "dating" no more than giving eachother nicknames. Also, age is not probkem in this situation.

[Seemyheart]

You should apologize for "freaking her out" though... try and ease the situation

[DarknessLeo]

You should apologize for "freaking her out" though... try and ease the situation

I sent her an apology text and now I'm in the safe zone. Thsnks for the idea.

[Seemyheart]

I sent her an apology text and now I'm in the safe zone. Thsnks for the idea.

Your welcome:) Glad I could help

[Cassius]

Love and crush are not the same!!!!

[MissSocks]

No they are definitely not the same. Having a crush is just liking someone, having an interest in them so to say. Love, and especially when you start talking about true love is so much deeper. For me the difference is the most clear when your heart breaks. You see, when you just have a crush your heart wouldn't be broken when someone isn't interested in you (anymore). You would have a few bad days maybe and be disappointed. But if you are in love you can be miserable for months really. Anyway, this hasnt that much to do with your topic, but just to try to explain why saying that you love her might have freaked her out. A boy once told me he was in love with me after being a couple for two days. I freaked out as well and broke up with him.

[Cassius]

No they are definitely not the same. Having a crush is just liking someone, having an interest in them so to say. Love, and especially when you start talking about true love is so much deeper. For me the difference is the most clear when your heart breaks. You see, when you just have a crush your heart wouldn't be broken when someone isn't interested in you (anymore). You would have a few bad days maybe and be disappointed. But if you are in love you can be miserable for months really. Anyway, this hasnt that much to do with your topic, but just to try to explain why saying that you love her might have freaked her out. A boy once told me he was in love with me after being a couple for two days. I freaked out as well and broke up with him.

Wow! Could not be explained better! Good job, Miss Socks!