Friends with rights?

[Joanna.SB]

Ok, so there is this guy with whom i have had sex before. We were friends with rights and it was awesome but then he got a girlfriend so the whole thing was over. They broke up like a month ago and he started texting me about hanging out and stuff. I'm really not sure of what am i supposed to do. When we were together I was kind of in a bad place and I didn't care about anything, but now I don't know I feel slutty specially because hes not prince charming...actually I would be kind of embarrassed If someone ever saw me with him but sex is good and I so what to do it.
Any advice?

[satarra3180]

If you were in a bad place when you first got with him then I would stay away now and keep moving forward towards your better place...just my opinion...then again, good, familiar sex can be tough to pass up.

[melissa13]

as long as its just for fun , no strings attached, go for it, just keep it on a private level.

[anyone50]

Are you looking for a BF? or just sex with no string attached. If its the latter then I say hook up with him for the sex just make sure he understands that's all you want from him

[CheekyLinda]

If you enjoyed the sex, then go for it!!

[Taryn98]

listen to your gut
if it's telling you that maybe you shouldn't, then you probably shouldn't
if it sounds fun and you enjoy it then go for it

[Savvynah]

You deserve better than to be someone's backup fwb. Drop this joker from your life!

[ImCoolBeans]

P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating
This questions is more about relationships than puberty.

[Pensive]

Am I the only one who thinks having sex with someone you don`t care deeply about is just sick?!

On a more practicle, less moral note;
If he is no `prince charming` who originally took advantage of you for sex
(As a principle I`d never have sex with a girl who was drunk/upset/in a bad place and just needed a cuddle and a close friend to help her through)
Have you considered he may have an STI? And you`ve no idea what his ex-gf had... Scumbags tend to be full of horrible stuff, clues in the name...

Oh, and mods, she already called herself slutty - so don`t start on me again please...

Now that things are sorted out, and you`re in a better more stable place, have more respect for yourself; and your body. One day you`ll regret every sharing it with more than one person.

[LouBerry]

\I feel slutty specially because hes not prince charming...actually I would be kind of embarrassed If someone ever saw me with him but sex is good and I so what to do it.
Any advice?

This right here tells me that you are in no way mature enough to be having sex, so until you grow up, I'd refrain if I were you.

[Cassius]

Am I the only one who thinks having sex with someone you don`t care deeply about is just sick?!

On a more practicle, less moral note;
If he is no `prince charming` who originally took advantage of you for sex
(As a principle I`d never have sex with a girl who was drunk/upset/in a bad place and just needed a cuddle and a close friend to help her through)
Have you considered he may have an STI? And you`ve no idea what his ex-gf had... Scumbags tend to be full of horrible stuff, clues in the name...

Oh, and mods, she already called herself slutty - so don`t start on me again please...

Now that things are sorted out, and you`re in a better more stable place, have more respect for yourself; and your body. One day you`ll regret every sharing it with more than one person.

I very heartily agree. Having sex prematurely is like going down on Christmas Eve and opening all your presents: it ruins it.

[Myxox]

Find someone better for you and you can get the sex you want and not go to the bad place again.