Koffing
December 9th, 2013, 01:43 PM
Didn't really know where to post this so decided this was probably the best place
For the past half year I go to highschool. Someone from my old school does the same course and we actually are in the same class now. Before highschool we didn't really hang out together or were friends, only the usualy ''hi''. But now we travel together to school and back home and started to talk a lot during those trips. I always had some suspicion about him being gay. It just was the way he talked and looked at things. Well, at me... At first I thought he had a crush on me, but I just decided to wait and see what would come next. During the next few weeks I noticed that he also looks the way he looks at me to others, so I though "no big deal".
But today when we were in the train on our way home, out of the blue, he said he is gay. I told him it is ok to be gay, but then he said he likes me. I didn't know how to react (btw I don't have a crush or so mething for him). It happend so out of the blue and I didn't expect him to really like me, although I had thought about it. I didn't know what to say but after a few seconds or so I told him something like ''well that's ok'' or something... (don't know exactly, it all went to fast). Then he laughed a bit and said he was only joking, but I didn't believe him.
He also asked if I fell for girls as well, and I said yes. Well, I am bi, so I like girls as well... I was in a bit of panic because he said it in such a public place (train during rush hour) and I still feel a bit embarresed when i tell people I am bi (I have no problem with being it, it just isn't easy for me to talk about it. No idea why...)
The remainder of the journey was quite ackward at first, but after a while we started talking like we normaly would.
But my thing is, I know for 99% sure he wasn't joking and meant it. But what should I do now. I didn't want to talk about it because I don't think it is something you should tell in public with other people hearing it. Should I talk to him about it, or just wait and see if he does... I won't see him for the remainder of the week as we have no lessons anymore. I was thinking about What's App him or something, but I really don't know if I should talk to him or just wait or let it behind me. I have no idea what to do...
Sorry for the long story, and I would appreciate it if you can try and help me out. I have no clue what to do...
For the past half year I go to highschool. Someone from my old school does the same course and we actually are in the same class now. Before highschool we didn't really hang out together or were friends, only the usualy ''hi''. But now we travel together to school and back home and started to talk a lot during those trips. I always had some suspicion about him being gay. It just was the way he talked and looked at things. Well, at me... At first I thought he had a crush on me, but I just decided to wait and see what would come next. During the next few weeks I noticed that he also looks the way he looks at me to others, so I though "no big deal".
But today when we were in the train on our way home, out of the blue, he said he is gay. I told him it is ok to be gay, but then he said he likes me. I didn't know how to react (btw I don't have a crush or so mething for him). It happend so out of the blue and I didn't expect him to really like me, although I had thought about it. I didn't know what to say but after a few seconds or so I told him something like ''well that's ok'' or something... (don't know exactly, it all went to fast). Then he laughed a bit and said he was only joking, but I didn't believe him.
He also asked if I fell for girls as well, and I said yes. Well, I am bi, so I like girls as well... I was in a bit of panic because he said it in such a public place (train during rush hour) and I still feel a bit embarresed when i tell people I am bi (I have no problem with being it, it just isn't easy for me to talk about it. No idea why...)
The remainder of the journey was quite ackward at first, but after a while we started talking like we normaly would.
But my thing is, I know for 99% sure he wasn't joking and meant it. But what should I do now. I didn't want to talk about it because I don't think it is something you should tell in public with other people hearing it. Should I talk to him about it, or just wait and see if he does... I won't see him for the remainder of the week as we have no lessons anymore. I was thinking about What's App him or something, but I really don't know if I should talk to him or just wait or let it behind me. I have no idea what to do...
Sorry for the long story, and I would appreciate it if you can try and help me out. I have no clue what to do...