Giving up

[Woryh]

I think my end is nearing, everything I do is always wrong, lately for what ever reason I am always in trouble, I could be brushing my teeth and in comes my mom and starts yellng at me. So pretty much my life has been sucking for quite a while now, I am sick of it, I try and get out of the house and much as possible,but it does not work, I get yelled through th phone or when I am back home. One thing that completely made me done was I was taking a long shower because I love the hot water on be and because its freezing her and when I got out she yelled at me and blamed me for.... jacking off in the shower, which I don't do, no matter how I try and tell her that I dont it seems the more trouble I fall in, I am just about to give up on life... its getting fucking stupid. I want to give up.

[Dark Unicorn]

I think my end is nearing, everything I do is always wrong, lately for what ever reason I am always in trouble, I could be brushing my teeth and in comes my mom and starts yellng at me. So pretty much my life has been sucking for quite a while now, I am sick of it, I try and get out of the house and much as possible,but it does not work, I get yelled through th phone or when I am back home. One thing that completely made me done was I was taking a long shower because I love the hot water on be and because its freezing her and when I got out she yelled at me and blamed me for.... jacking off in the shower, which I don't do, no matter how I try and tell her that I dont it seems the more trouble I fall in, I am just about to give up on life... its getting fucking stupid. I want to give up.

Hi there.My only regret is that I didn't see this earlier.Please don't give up on life.I know what you are going through sucks(and I too have been suicidal so I can relate) but please you have a purpose which you can't fulfill if you are dead and an awesome life ahead of you.I may not know you know you but I have no doubt in my mind that you are a beautiful soul.Always remember that although it may not seem like it,this will pass and you will find happiness.Please please please stay the strong,brave and beautiful person you are.Talk to me please.If you'd like to and if you think it would help talk to me.What have you got to lose?All the best,Chiedza.

[The Trendy Wolf]

I think my end is nearing, everything I do is always wrong, lately for what ever reason I am always in trouble, I could be brushing my teeth and in comes my mom and starts yellng at me. So pretty much my life has been sucking for quite a while now, I am sick of it, I try and get out of the house and much as possible,but it does not work, I get yelled through th phone or when I am back home. One thing that completely made me done was I was taking a long shower because I love the hot water on be and because its freezing her and when I got out she yelled at me and blamed me for.... jacking off in the shower, which I don't do, no matter how I try and tell her that I dont it seems the more trouble I fall in, I am just about to give up on life... its getting fucking stupid. I want to give up.

Whether or not you are at fault for whatever you are blamed for, you must realize that you need to start communicating with her more often when she isn't angry. You should tell her, while you both are in a calm state, that you feel like you are always getting blamed so often for things you don't even do. It isn't likely that she will be able to hear and process your defensiveness while you both are arguing, because she is blinded by anger, and you will also be that way when you are mad with her. Hear both of each other out, listen to her, and be sure she listens to you. Perhaps something is bothering her, maybe she is just stressed, or maybe something else. Open up to her, and perhaps she will do the same.

I know you two can work it out, but it won't necessarily happen immediately. It takes time for these things to change, but it will get better. :)

If this fails, then please do see a professional for guidance. :D

[drmindfreak]

So you want to give up because your mom yells at you? Completely logical...