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kittyprydexo
December 9th, 2013, 04:39 AM
okay so me and my ex broke up like 6/7 months ago and up until around 3 weeks ago we were friends with benefits. i love my ex so much and when we broke up he promised me that we'd get back together at some point in the future. things is whenever we do have sex, there is so much passion and love between us, like one time he actually said 'i love you' to me afterwards and just spooned me all night.
whenever we are together it just seems to happen and cause we're very good friends we hang out alot whether it be with friends or just us two.
i don't know what to do, should i become his fwb again?

gliderman
December 9th, 2013, 07:05 AM
If he really loves you, go for it! Just make sure he doesn't only 'use' you!

kittyprydexo
December 9th, 2013, 08:02 AM
well me and him have sat down and had a srs talk about all this and he said he does still love me and always will, so i might go for it, but i'm seeing him tomorrow so i'll see how he is around me then

gliderman
December 9th, 2013, 09:03 AM
Awesome, I hope all works out well for you :D. Let us know if you'd like!

ksdnfkfr
December 9th, 2013, 09:26 AM
I think you should move forward - but carefully.

kittyprydexo
December 9th, 2013, 09:49 AM
I think you should move forward - but carefully.

i'm really not quite sure i can move on, he's everything i think about and everything i need/want.
it'll hurt too much to move on

ksdnfkfr
December 9th, 2013, 10:57 AM
i'm really not quite sure i can move on, he's everything i think about and everything i need/want.
it'll hurt too much to move on

I meant move forwards towards uniting with him - but carefully.

kittyprydexo
December 9th, 2013, 04:34 PM
I meant move forwards towards uniting with him - but carefully.

oh okays, well i'm seeing him tomorrow
i'll let you guys know

MechaSniper
December 9th, 2013, 04:36 PM
Well, does he want you back as much as you to him?

Abyssal Echo
December 9th, 2013, 04:44 PM
I went back with my ex it didn't work out basically for the same reason we broke up the first time. we are still good friends though.
If you think he still has feelings for you and not just using you for sex go for it.

kittyprydexo
December 10th, 2013, 04:08 AM
turns out he does love me and want me back but wants to take it as slow as possible as last time we rushed into things
guys thanks so much for your help btw

gliderman
December 10th, 2013, 05:21 AM
I'm really glad things are kind of sorted right now! I also think taking it slow will help :D

kittyprydexo
December 10th, 2013, 05:50 AM
I'm really glad things are kind of sorted right now! I also think taking it slow will help :D

thank you, and yeah me too
i'm very glad he suggested to go slow, i don't want everything to go wrong and loose him again

Myxox
December 25th, 2013, 09:38 PM
Sounds like you found a good solution, congrats :)